今天是亞洲的「母親節」 這裡先預祝全天下的母親:母親節快樂!

今天是亞洲的「母親節」 這裡先預祝全天下的母親:母親節快樂!(金菩提宗師 Facebook)

今天是亞洲的「母親節」
這裡先預祝全天下的母親:母親節快樂!
身體健康、長壽、幸福、快樂!
分享一個感人的網路故事給大家。
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【故事:媽媽的一百元】
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我的家境並不富裕,父親因為疾病在三歲時就離開了我們,母親給人洗衣賺錢。所以,我知道自己需要比別人更努力,才可能讓母親在未來過上好日子。
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18歲那年,我以優異的成績考上好大學。母親對我說:「孩子,你就放心去讀書吧,錢媽媽會想辦法。」我滿心歡喜地準備前往學校住宿的行囊。在臨行前一天,我聽見鄰里間的言談,才知道母親為了給我湊足學費曾多次去賣血。我在心中立志一定要好好讀書,不枉費母親對我的這番苦心。
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大二寒假,我回到家,看見母親又在寒冷的冬天裏給人家洗衣服,手都凍裂了。母親說:「別的工作不好找,只有洗衣服,一件衣服一塊錢,那些都是富人家的衣服,需要用手仔細的慢慢洗。」
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這天晚上,母親領到錢高興地說:「孩子,媽媽今天賺了200塊錢。」 說著就掏口袋,誰知口袋裏只剩下一張百元紙鈔!母親一下子慌了,二話沒說就慌慌張張地轉身跑了出去。我也隨著母親一起去找錢。外面很黑,不僅風大還飄著雪,母親打著手電筒,邊走邊找,在寒風中來來回回地找了三趟。我看見母親的淚流了下來,母親卻笑說是外邊風雪大。
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是啊,那是母親辛苦洗了100件衣服的報酬啊!
我心疼地說:「媽,別找了,天亮了再找吧。」 母親卻執意地找下去。
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我只好偷偷從母親給的生活費中抽出100元,放在院子裏。果然,沒多久就聽見母親驚喜的聲音:「孩子,找到了!錢找到了!」 我奔出去,配合著母親的驚喜。母親說:「找著的這張就給你在學校買零食吃,千萬別餓著了。」
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幾年之後,我大學畢業,有了一份好工作。也把母親接到了城裏,母親再也不用替人洗衣服了。那張百元大鈔,我沒捨得花,還一直留著。那是我和母親找了大半夜,是溫暖,是踏實。
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過了幾年,我笑著對母親說:「那100元其實是我放在那裏的。」母親卻回我:「我知道的!」我吃了一驚:「媽,妳怎麼知道的?」 母親說:「我領回的錢都會做記號,那張百元紙上的記號不是當天的,又是在院子裏撿的。我就知道那是你怕我著急放的。我想,兒子這樣心疼我,我不能再找了!」
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我上前抱住母親,眼睛瞬間濕了。。。
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#母愛 #母親節 #親情 #溫暖 #孝敬親恩

今天是亞洲的「母親節」
這裡先預祝全天下的母親:母親節快樂!
身體健康、長壽、幸福、快樂!
分享一個感人的網路故事給大家。
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【故事:媽媽的一百元】
.
我的家境並不富裕,父親因為疾病在三歲時就離開了我們,母親給人洗衣賺錢。所以,我知道自己需要比別人更努力,才可能讓母親在未來過上好日子。
.
18歲那年,我以優異的成績考上好大學。母親對我說:「孩子,你就放心去讀書吧,錢媽媽會想辦法。」我滿心歡喜地準備前往學校住宿的行囊。在臨行前一天,我聽見鄰里間的言談,才知道母親為了給我湊足學費曾多次去賣血。我在心中立志一定要好好讀書,不枉費母親對我的這番苦心。
.
大二寒假,我回到家,看見母親又在寒冷的冬天裏給人家洗衣服,手都凍裂了。母親說:「別的工作不好找,只有洗衣服,一件衣服一塊錢,那些都是富人家的衣服,需要用手仔細的慢慢洗。」 
.
這天晚上,母親領到錢高興地說:「孩子,媽媽今天賺了200塊錢。」 說著就掏口袋,誰知口袋裏只剩下一張百元紙鈔!母親一下子慌了,二話沒說就慌慌張張地轉身跑了出去。我也隨著母親一起去找錢。外面很黑,不僅風大還飄著雪,母親打著手電筒,邊走邊找,在寒風中來來回回地找了三趟。我看見母親的淚流了下來,母親卻笑說是外邊風雪大。
.
是啊,那是母親辛苦洗了100件衣服的報酬啊!
我心疼地說:「媽,別找了,天亮了再找吧。」 母親卻執意地找下去。 
.
我只好偷偷從母親給的生活費中抽出100元,放在院子裏。果然,沒多久就聽見母親驚喜的聲音:「孩子,找到了!錢找到了!」 我奔出去,配合著母親的驚喜。母親說:「找著的這張就給你在學校買零食吃,千萬別餓著了。」
.
幾年之後,我大學畢業,有了一份好工作。也把母親接到了城裏,母親再也不用替人洗衣服了。那張百元大鈔,我沒捨得花,還一直留著。那是我和母親找了大半夜,是溫暖,是踏實。 
.
過了幾年,我笑著對母親說:「那100元其實是我放在那裏的。」母親卻回我:「我知道的!」我吃了一驚:「媽,妳怎麼知道的?」 母親說:「我領回的錢都會做記號,那張百元紙上的記號不是當天的,又是在院子裏撿的。我就知道那是你怕我著急放的。我想,兒子這樣心疼我,我不能再找了!」 
.
我上前抱住母親,眼睛瞬間濕了。。。
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#母愛 #母親節 #親情 #溫暖 #孝敬親恩

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【菩提禪修青年營,改變了我的兩個兒子】 . 曾經,她因為生病

【菩提禪修青年營,改變了我的兩個兒子】

曾經,她因為生病,消瘦了10公斤,也不見孩子的一聲問候;曾經,她想牽兒子的手過馬路,卻遭到冷漠的拒絕。
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這些,對一個母親來說,是多麼地令人難堪與痛心……

然而,當孩子們走進「菩提禪修青年營」之後,讓她重拾了親情的溫暖。改變兩個孩子的原因是什麼?
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一起來聽聽石美蓉的故事。

#菩提禪修青年營 #親子關係 #親情


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請勇敢說愛 . 「家」是什麼? 家是歡笑…

請勇敢說愛
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「家」是什麼?
家是歡笑,是拌嘴、是每天的打打鬧鬧?
一幕幕溫馨又熟悉的場景,這是天天上演在每個家庭的戲碼。
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無論家給予我們的,是什麼樣的回憶,都希望大家記得…
家要講愛,不可講理;
家要和睦,不可吵鬧;
家要自由,不可強制;
家要溫暖,不要冷戰;
家要關心、理解、更多的包容。。。
這個家才會真正獲得幸福!!
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所以,請勇敢說愛吧。
因為,家是一個可以給我們溫暖、希望的地方;
這份愛無價且豐沛,只要回到家就能獲得愛。
請記得,「家」因為有你,才更圓滿!
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又到了滿月吉祥,闔家團圓的節日,
快回家陪陪最愛的家人過節吧。
祝福大家中秋佳節圓圓滿滿,幸福快樂!
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#中秋回家團圓
#親情
#勇敢說愛

請勇敢說愛
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「家」是什麼?
家是歡笑,是拌嘴、是每天的打打鬧鬧?
一幕幕溫馨又熟悉的場景,這是天天上演在每個家庭的戲碼。
.
無論家給予我們的,是什麼樣的回憶,都希望大家記得...
家要講愛,不可講理;
家要和睦,不可吵鬧;
家要自由,不可強制;
家要溫暖,不要冷戰;
家要關心、理解、更多的包容。。。
這個家才會真正獲得幸福!!
.
所以,請勇敢說愛吧。
因為,家是一個可以給我們溫暖、希望的地方;
這份愛無價且豐沛,只要回到家就能獲得愛。
請記得,「家」因為有你,才更圓滿!
.
又到了滿月吉祥,闔家團圓的節日,
快回家陪陪最愛的家人過節吧。
祝福大家中秋佳節圓圓滿滿,幸福快樂!
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#中秋回家團圓
#親情
#勇敢說愛

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濃情臘八粥 . 臘八了,給大家講個故事。…

濃情臘八粥
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臘八了,給大家講個故事。15歲的阿華賭氣離開家已經六天了,每天在城裡的網吧、飯館泡著,不用寫作業,雖自由、卻無聊又茫然,錢也花光了。今天是臘八,沒錢買早飯,看到大街上滿是城裡各家寺廟施粥的宣傳,他想:往年臘八寺廟施粥從不做廣告的,今年怎麼都做起廣告來?管他呢,先去寺廟混頓飯吃。
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他來到城東的菩提寺,看到很多人在排隊領熱粥、沾佛光、做供養。他擠進了隊伍,身著校服很顯眼,因為學生這個時間應該都在學校裡。寺裡的住持把他請進屋裡,詢問名字,然後遞給他一封信,竟是阿華父母寫給菩提寺的信:「懇請寺裡在臘八節這天多舍一些粥,如果見到有學生來領粥,就勸他回家,他若不肯,就務必多留他幾頓飯,別餓到他了。」
.
阿華傻在那裡,住持告訴他:「城裡的大小寺廟都收到了同樣的信,還有錢糧供養,滿大街的施粥廣告也是你父母專門做給你一個人看的。哎——與父母的矛盾再大,也是暫時的,是人生中的小問題;而生養之恩如天似海,永遠報答不完,怎麼能因一點矛盾,就泯滅了這天大的恩情呢?」像父母一樣真心愛你的,試問世間有幾人?他們像佛菩薩一樣照顧著你,他們對你的愛,就是佛菩薩對你的加持護佑啊。
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阿華再也繃不住眼淚,淚水落進了粥碗裡,臘八粥甜中帶了一絲不同的味道……。
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從臘八這一天起,也正式進入農曆春節的前夕,許多人會在這天祭祀祖先,也會一起喝臘八粥,是一個吉祥的日子,也祝福每個朋友都能福氣滿滿,身心安樂。
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#臘八、#臘八粥、#親情rnrn濃情臘八粥
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臘八了,給大家講個故事。15歲的阿華賭氣離開家已經六天了,每天在城裡的網吧、飯館泡著,不用寫作業,雖自由、卻無聊又茫然,錢也花光了。今天是臘八,沒錢買早飯,看到大街上滿是城裡各家寺廟施粥的宣傳,他想:往年臘八寺廟施粥從不做廣告的,今年怎麼都做起廣告來?管他呢,先去寺廟混頓飯吃。
.
他來到城東的菩提寺,看到很多人在排隊領熱粥、沾佛光、做供養。他擠進了隊伍,身著校服很顯眼,因為學生這個時間應該都在學校裡。寺裡的住持把他請進屋裡,詢問名字,然後遞給他一封信,竟是阿華父母寫給菩提寺的信:「懇請寺裡在臘八節這天多舍一些粥,如果見到有學生來領粥,就勸他回家,他若不肯,就務必多留他幾頓飯,別餓到他了。」
.
阿華傻在那裡,住持告訴他:「城裡的大小寺廟都收到了同樣的信,還有錢糧供養,滿大街的施粥廣告也是你父母專門做給你一個人看的。哎——與父母的矛盾再大,也是暫時的,是人生中的小問題;而生養之恩如天似海,永遠報答不完,怎麼能因一點矛盾,就泯滅了這天大的恩情呢?」像父母一樣真心愛你的,試問世間有幾人?他們像佛菩薩一樣照顧著你,他們對你的愛,就是佛菩薩對你的加持護佑啊。
.
阿華再也繃不住眼淚,淚水落進了粥碗裡,臘八粥甜中帶了一絲不同的味道……。
.
從臘八這一天起,也正式進入農曆春節的前夕,許多人會在這天祭祀祖先,也會一起喝臘八粥,是一個吉祥的日子,也祝福每個朋友都能福氣滿滿,身心安樂。
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#臘八、#臘八粥、#親情

濃情臘八粥
.
臘八了,給大家講個故事。15歲的阿華賭氣離開家已經六天了,每天在城裡的網吧、飯館泡著,不用寫作業,雖自由、卻無聊又茫然,錢也花光了。今天是臘八,沒錢買早飯,看到大街上滿是城裡各家寺廟施粥的宣傳,他想:往年臘八寺廟施粥從不做廣告的,今年怎麼都做起廣告來?管他呢,先去寺廟混頓飯吃。
.
他來到城東的菩提寺,看到很多人在排隊領熱粥、沾佛光、做供養。他擠進了隊伍,身著校服很顯眼,因為學生這個時間應該都在學校裡。寺裡的住持把他請進屋裡,詢問名字,然後遞給他一封信,竟是阿華父母寫給菩提寺的信:「懇請寺裡在臘八節這天多舍一些粥,如果見到有學生來領粥,就勸他回家,他若不肯,就務必多留他幾頓飯,別餓到他了。」
.
阿華傻在那裡,住持告訴他:「城裡的大小寺廟都收到了同樣的信,還有錢糧供養,滿大街的施粥廣告也是你父母專門做給你一個人看的。哎——與父母的矛盾再大,也是暫時的,是人生中的小問題;而生養之恩如天似海,永遠報答不完,怎麼能因一點矛盾,就泯滅了這天大的恩情呢?」像父母一樣真心愛你的,試問世間有幾人?他們像佛菩薩一樣照顧著你,他們對你的愛,就是佛菩薩對你的加持護佑啊。
.
阿華再也繃不住眼淚,淚水落進了粥碗裡,臘八粥甜中帶了一絲不同的味道……。
.
從臘八這一天起,也正式進入農曆春節的前夕,許多人會在這天祭祀祖先,也會一起喝臘八粥,是一個吉祥的日子,也祝福每個朋友都能福氣滿滿,身心安樂。
.
#臘八、#臘八粥、#親情rnrn濃情臘八粥
.
臘八了,給大家講個故事。15歲的阿華賭氣離開家已經六天了,每天在城裡的網吧、飯館泡著,不用寫作業,雖自由、卻無聊又茫然,錢也花光了。今天是臘八,沒錢買早飯,看到大街上滿是城裡各家寺廟施粥的宣傳,他想:往年臘八寺廟施粥從不做廣告的,今年怎麼都做起廣告來?管他呢,先去寺廟混頓飯吃。
.
他來到城東的菩提寺,看到很多人在排隊領熱粥、沾佛光、做供養。他擠進了隊伍,身著校服很顯眼,因為學生這個時間應該都在學校裡。寺裡的住持把他請進屋裡,詢問名字,然後遞給他一封信,竟是阿華父母寫給菩提寺的信:「懇請寺裡在臘八節這天多舍一些粥,如果見到有學生來領粥,就勸他回家,他若不肯,就務必多留他幾頓飯,別餓到他了。」
.
阿華傻在那裡,住持告訴他:「城裡的大小寺廟都收到了同樣的信,還有錢糧供養,滿大街的施粥廣告也是你父母專門做給你一個人看的。哎——與父母的矛盾再大,也是暫時的,是人生中的小問題;而生養之恩如天似海,永遠報答不完,怎麼能因一點矛盾,就泯滅了這天大的恩情呢?」像父母一樣真心愛你的,試問世間有幾人?他們像佛菩薩一樣照顧著你,他們對你的愛,就是佛菩薩對你的加持護佑啊。
.
阿華再也繃不住眼淚,淚水落進了粥碗裡,臘八粥甜中帶了一絲不同的味道……。
.
從臘八這一天起,也正式進入農曆春節的前夕,許多人會在這天祭祀祖先,也會一起喝臘八粥,是一個吉祥的日子,也祝福每個朋友都能福氣滿滿,身心安樂。
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【有你真好】影評
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想想,為什麼我們對家人的態度總是比對朋友差?
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和大家推薦一部有超大洋蔥的片子,這是由韓國導演「李貞香」執導的作品《有你真好》。片中述說一個七歲的小男孩「山武」,七歲就被未婚媽媽送往鄉下給奶奶照顧,奶奶不會說話,勤儉樸實地過著生活。但是已經習慣在都市生活的「山武」,對素未謀面的奶奶感到厭惡,他對鄉野骯髒而不便利的生活更感到嫌惡,他處處和奶奶作對。究竟,面對調皮搗蛋的山武,奶奶是用甚麼方法去打動他的心呢?
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有一次,山武的電動機沒電了,跟奶奶要錢買電池,但奶奶生活太過貧困了,沒有多餘的錢可用。山武一生氣,就把奶奶的花瓶打碎、把奶奶的鞋子藏起來讓奶奶赤腳走路;甚至,還偷了奶奶的簪子去城裡賣了要買電池,不料電池沒買成還迷了路,幸好被好心的爺爺送了回去。
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還有一次,山武因為想吃速食店的炸雞,但是鄉村並沒有速食店,奶奶為了滿足孫子,變賣了自己的嫁妝,淋著雨翻山越嶺,提了一隻雞回來煮給山武吃。雞煮好了,奶奶開心的呼喚山武趕快來吃,山武看到桌上不是他愛吃的炸雞,大發脾氣將碗打翻,扭頭走了。奶奶只好默默撿起地上的食物吃了。為了滿足山武,奶奶幾乎傾出所有。寧願自己餓肚子也要讓山武能夠吃飽、在凜冽的寒風中陪他去上廁所,甚至將錢偷偷塞到了禮物中,讓山武去買他最想要的電玩電池。
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這些日子以來,奶奶對山武無私的付出,山武其實都看在眼哩,也慢慢感動了他那稚嫩的心靈。幾個月過去了,山武的母親準備來接山武回去。離開的前一天晚上,山武教了奶奶寫字,上車前把卡片給了奶奶說:「奶奶如果想我了,就把這張卡片寄來給我吧!」卡片上寫著「我想你」。
.
其實,這是山武最想對奶奶說的話吧!
.
故事說到這兒,想想兒時的我們,或許也曾經和片中的山武一樣,有著許多的依賴和不懂事。真正的成長與感恩,都是需要靠自己親身去體會才能明白的,沒經歷過的,就算他人說再多也就像是吹過耳邊的風,風過了無痕哪。其實,和父母親一樣,長輩對孩子的愛,無私而廣大,沒有任何怨言,也不求回報。「愛」與「包容」是貫穿這部電影的核心價值。
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這個故事是否給你些許啟發?
我們都是父母親的心頭肉,因為習慣擁有,所以遺忘了他們給予我們種種的好。請回頭看看他們疲倦的臉龐,佝僂的身影,他們是為誰,成了如今這般的模樣呢?
相信,只要用心去感受「愛」就在我們身邊!
每天,你都能感受到許多新的領悟!
.
探討問題
1.對於家人的關懷照顧你是懷抱著什麼心態?理所當然,還是覺得厭煩?
2.為什麼我們對家人的態度總是比對朋友差?
3.為什麼都要在歷經過苦難或失去後,才能學會感恩及珍惜?
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—-?——?——?——?——-?———?——–?—–
?大家一起來參加聖誕拍照活動吧!
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—–?——?——?——?——-?———?——–?—-
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圖片來源:http://www.korseries.com/kormovies-the-way-home-2002/
#有你真好、#影評、#親情、#愛與感動
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.【The Way Home】 Film review

Let’s think about it. Why is our attitude towards our family always worse than how we treat our friends?

I recommend a popular film directed by the Korean director Lee Jeong-hyang called .

In the film, San-woo, a seven-year-old boy, was sent to the countryside by his unmarried mother for his grandmother to take care of him. His grandmother was mute but not deaf and lives a simple and hardworking life, a life of diligence and simplicity. San-woo, who is used to living in the city, is disgusted with this grandmother whom he has yet to meet. He observes the dirty and unsophisticated way of life in the countryside and feels even more annoyed. Although he always argues with his grandmother, she does not ever raise her temper at him but instead uses her unconditional love to tolerate his misbehavior and acts of defiance. Love the is the core value of this film.

In the face of the mischievous San-woo, what method did his grandmother use to touch his heart?

Summary of the story:
San-woo is very fond of playing video games, eating potato chips and fried chicken. Going to the countryside where there is no electricity and little entertainment, he feels that he does not fit in. On one occasion, San Woo’s electrical motor ran out of power and he asked his grandmother to buy batteries. However, she was too poor and did not have extra money to afford them. As a result, San-Woo flew into a rage and broke his grandmother’s vase and hid her shoes, forcing her to walk barefooted. Even worse, he stole his grandmother’s precious hairpin and secretly went to the city to sell it for money which he used to buy his batteries. However, he became lost on his way back but thankfully a kind old man helped him find his way back.

On another occasion, San-woo had a craving for fried chicken sold at a fast food restaurant. However there were no fast food restaurants in the countryside.
To fulfill his wish, his grandmother sold her dowry and crossed the mountains in rainy weather just so to bring a chicken home for him to eat. After cooking the chicken, his grandmother happily called out for him to try her cooking. However, upon seeing that what she cooked wasn’t the fried chicken he wanted, he flew into a rage and broke a bowl, running away. Grandma had no choice but to pick up the pieces of chicken from the ground. Unknown to San-woo, Grandma did everything she could to satisfy his demands. She willingly starved herself so that San-woo would have enough food to eat, accompanied him to the toilet in frosty weather and even sneakily put money in San-woo’s present so that he could buy the batteries he wanted for his video games.

During this period, San-woo started becoming aware of the sacrifices that Grandma had made for him and slowly became touched by her actions. A few months later, San-woo’ s mother was ready to bring him back to the city . The night before he left, San-woo taught his grandmother how to write. Before getting on the bus, he gave his handwritten card to his grandmother and said, “If Grandma wishes to see me, send this card to me!” The words “I miss you” was written on the card.

In fact, this is what San-woo wishes to say to Grandma!

The learning point of the movie is that perhaps when we were younger and had actions and behavior similar to San-woo, we were highly dependent on our elders and were playful. Real growth and gratitude are derived from the experiences that we encounter as we grow up. While others may give advice, only by experiencing events yourself will you fully comprehend it. In fact, the love from our elders is as selfless and boundless as our parents and they do so without any complaints or rewards.

Does this story give you some inspiration?

We occupy very precious positions in our parents’ hearts. However, as because we become more adored and accustomed to their love and care, do we take for granted all their sacrifices and contributions? Please take a look at their tired faces – who was it that made them what they look like today?

I believe that as long as we spend time by their side, we will notice that love is everywhere.
This way, we will develop new insights everyday!

Discussion questions
1. What kind of mentality do you hold regarding your family’s care and concern? Or do you feel indifferent towards them?
2. Why are our attitudes towards our family always worse than to our friends?
3. Why do you learn to be grateful and cherish your family and friends only after suffering or losing them?

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?Join in the Christmas Photo Event!
Click here to upload your photos ? http://t.cn/EUxA91g
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Image source: http://www.korseries.com/kormovies-the-way-home-2002/
#TheWayHome #FilmReview #FamilyTies #ActsOfLovernrn【有你真好】影評
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想想,為什麼我們對家人的態度總是比對朋友差?
.
和大家推薦一部有超大洋蔥的片子,這是由韓國導演「李貞香」執導的作品《有你真好》。片中述說一個七歲的小男孩「山武」,七歲就被未婚媽媽送往鄉下給奶奶照顧,奶奶不會說話,勤儉樸實地過著生活。但是已經習慣在都市生活的「山武」,對素未謀面的奶奶感到厭惡,他對鄉野骯髒而不便利的生活更感到嫌惡,他處處和奶奶作對。究竟,面對調皮搗蛋的山武,奶奶是用甚麼方法去打動他的心呢?
.
有一次,山武的電動機沒電了,跟奶奶要錢買電池,但奶奶生活太過貧困了,沒有多餘的錢可用。山武一生氣,就把奶奶的花瓶打碎、把奶奶的鞋子藏起來讓奶奶赤腳走路;甚至,還偷了奶奶的簪子去城裡賣了要買電池,不料電池沒買成還迷了路,幸好被好心的爺爺送了回去。
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還有一次,山武因為想吃速食店的炸雞,但是鄉村並沒有速食店,奶奶為了滿足孫子,變賣了自己的嫁妝,淋著雨翻山越嶺,提了一隻雞回來煮給山武吃。雞煮好了,奶奶開心的呼喚山武趕快來吃,山武看到桌上不是他愛吃的炸雞,大發脾氣將碗打翻,扭頭走了。奶奶只好默默撿起地上的食物吃了。為了滿足山武,奶奶幾乎傾出所有。寧願自己餓肚子也要讓山武能夠吃飽、在凜冽的寒風中陪他去上廁所,甚至將錢偷偷塞到了禮物中,讓山武去買他最想要的電玩電池。
.
這些日子以來,奶奶對山武無私的付出,山武其實都看在眼哩,也慢慢感動了他那稚嫩的心靈。幾個月過去了,山武的母親準備來接山武回去。離開的前一天晚上,山武教了奶奶寫字,上車前把卡片給了奶奶說:「奶奶如果想我了,就把這張卡片寄來給我吧!」卡片上寫著「我想你」。
.
其實,這是山武最想對奶奶說的話吧!
.
故事說到這兒,想想兒時的我們,或許也曾經和片中的山武一樣,有著許多的依賴和不懂事。真正的成長與感恩,都是需要靠自己親身去體會才能明白的,沒經歷過的,就算他人說再多也就像是吹過耳邊的風,風過了無痕哪。其實,和父母親一樣,長輩對孩子的愛,無私而廣大,沒有任何怨言,也不求回報。「愛」與「包容」是貫穿這部電影的核心價值。
.
這個故事是否給你些許啟發?
我們都是父母親的心頭肉,因為習慣擁有,所以遺忘了他們給予我們種種的好。請回頭看看他們疲倦的臉龐,佝僂的身影,他們是為誰,成了如今這般的模樣呢?
相信,只要用心去感受「愛」就在我們身邊!
每天,你都能感受到許多新的領悟!
.
探討問題
1.對於家人的關懷照顧你是懷抱著什麼心態?理所當然,還是覺得厭煩?
2.為什麼我們對家人的態度總是比對朋友差?
3.為什麼都要在歷經過苦難或失去後,才能學會感恩及珍惜?
.
—-?——?——?——?——-?———?——–?—–
?大家一起來參加聖誕拍照活動吧!
快來點這兒上傳照片? http://t.cn/EUxA91g
—–?——?——?——?——-?———?——–?—-
.
圖片來源:http://www.korseries.com/kormovies-the-way-home-2002/
#有你真好、#影評、#親情、#愛與感動
.
.【The Way Home】 Film review

Let’s think about it. Why is our attitude towards our family always worse than how we treat our friends?

I recommend a popular film directed by the Korean director Lee Jeong-hyang called .

In the film, San-woo, a seven-year-old boy, was sent to the countryside by his unmarried mother for his grandmother to take care of him. His grandmother was mute but not deaf and lives a simple and hardworking life, a life of diligence and simplicity. San-woo, who is used to living in the city, is disgusted with this grandmother whom he has yet to meet. He observes the dirty and unsophisticated way of life in the countryside and feels even more annoyed. Although he always argues with his grandmother, she does not ever raise her temper at him but instead uses her unconditional love to tolerate his misbehavior and acts of defiance. Love the is the core value of this film.

In the face of the mischievous San-woo, what method did his grandmother use to touch his heart?

Summary of the story:
San-woo is very fond of playing video games, eating potato chips and fried chicken. Going to the countryside where there is no electricity and little entertainment, he feels that he does not fit in. On one occasion, San Woo’s electrical motor ran out of power and he asked his grandmother to buy batteries. However, she was too poor and did not have extra money to afford them. As a result, San-Woo flew into a rage and broke his grandmother’s vase and hid her shoes, forcing her to walk barefooted. Even worse, he stole his grandmother’s precious hairpin and secretly went to the city to sell it for money which he used to buy his batteries. However, he became lost on his way back but thankfully a kind old man helped him find his way back.

On another occasion, San-woo had a craving for fried chicken sold at a fast food restaurant. However there were no fast food restaurants in the countryside.
To fulfill his wish, his grandmother sold her dowry and crossed the mountains in rainy weather just so to bring a chicken home for him to eat. After cooking the chicken, his grandmother happily called out for him to try her cooking. However, upon seeing that what she cooked wasn’t the fried chicken he wanted, he flew into a rage and broke a bowl, running away. Grandma had no choice but to pick up the pieces of chicken from the ground. Unknown to San-woo, Grandma did everything she could to satisfy his demands. She willingly starved herself so that San-woo would have enough food to eat, accompanied him to the toilet in frosty weather and even sneakily put money in San-woo’s present so that he could buy the batteries he wanted for his video games.

During this period, San-woo started becoming aware of the sacrifices that Grandma had made for him and slowly became touched by her actions. A few months later, San-woo’ s mother was ready to bring him back to the city . The night before he left, San-woo taught his grandmother how to write. Before getting on the bus, he gave his handwritten card to his grandmother and said, “If Grandma wishes to see me, send this card to me!” The words “I miss you” was written on the card.

In fact, this is what San-woo wishes to say to Grandma!

The learning point of the movie is that perhaps when we were younger and had actions and behavior similar to San-woo, we were highly dependent on our elders and were playful. Real growth and gratitude are derived from the experiences that we encounter as we grow up. While others may give advice, only by experiencing events yourself will you fully comprehend it. In fact, the love from our elders is as selfless and boundless as our parents and they do so without any complaints or rewards.

Does this story give you some inspiration?

We occupy very precious positions in our parents’ hearts. However, as because we become more adored and accustomed to their love and care, do we take for granted all their sacrifices and contributions? Please take a look at their tired faces – who was it that made them what they look like today?

I believe that as long as we spend time by their side, we will notice that love is everywhere.
This way, we will develop new insights everyday!

Discussion questions
1. What kind of mentality do you hold regarding your family’s care and concern? Or do you feel indifferent towards them?
2. Why are our attitudes towards our family always worse than to our friends?
3. Why do you learn to be grateful and cherish your family and friends only after suffering or losing them?

—-?——?——?——?——-?———?——–?—–
?Join in the Christmas Photo Event!
Click here to upload your photos ? http://t.cn/EUxA91g
—–?——?——?——?——-?———?——–?—–

Image source: http://www.korseries.com/kormovies-the-way-home-2002/
#TheWayHome #FilmReview #FamilyTies #ActsOfLove

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想想,為什麼我們對家人的態度總是比對朋友差?
.
和大家推薦一部有超大洋蔥的片子,這是由韓國導演「李貞香」執導的作品《有你真好》。片中述說一個七歲的小男孩「山武」,七歲就被未婚媽媽送往鄉下給奶奶照顧,奶奶不會說話,勤儉樸實地過著生活。但是已經習慣在都市生活的「山武」,對素未謀面的奶奶感到厭惡,他對鄉野骯髒而不便利的生活更感到嫌惡,他處處和奶奶作對。究竟,面對調皮搗蛋的山武,奶奶是用甚麼方法去打動他的心呢?
.
有一次,山武的電動機沒電了,跟奶奶要錢買電池,但奶奶生活太過貧困了,沒有多餘的錢可用。山武一生氣,就把奶奶的花瓶打碎、把奶奶的鞋子藏起來讓奶奶赤腳走路;甚至,還偷了奶奶的簪子去城裡賣了要買電池,不料電池沒買成還迷了路,幸好被好心的爺爺送了回去。
.
還有一次,山武因為想吃速食店的炸雞,但是鄉村並沒有速食店,奶奶為了滿足孫子,變賣了自己的嫁妝,淋著雨翻山越嶺,提了一隻雞回來煮給山武吃。雞煮好了,奶奶開心的呼喚山武趕快來吃,山武看到桌上不是他愛吃的炸雞,大發脾氣將碗打翻,扭頭走了。奶奶只好默默撿起地上的食物吃了。為了滿足山武,奶奶幾乎傾出所有。寧願自己餓肚子也要讓山武能夠吃飽、在凜冽的寒風中陪他去上廁所,甚至將錢偷偷塞到了禮物中,讓山武去買他最想要的電玩電池。
.
這些日子以來,奶奶對山武無私的付出,山武其實都看在眼哩,也慢慢感動了他那稚嫩的心靈。幾個月過去了,山武的母親準備來接山武回去。離開的前一天晚上,山武教了奶奶寫字,上車前把卡片給了奶奶說:「奶奶如果想我了,就把這張卡片寄來給我吧!」卡片上寫著「我想你」。
.
其實,這是山武最想對奶奶說的話吧!
.
故事說到這兒,想想兒時的我們,或許也曾經和片中的山武一樣,有著許多的依賴和不懂事。真正的成長與感恩,都是需要靠自己親身去體會才能明白的,沒經歷過的,就算他人說再多也就像是吹過耳邊的風,風過了無痕哪。其實,和父母親一樣,長輩對孩子的愛,無私而廣大,沒有任何怨言,也不求回報。「愛」與「包容」是貫穿這部電影的核心價值。
.
這個故事是否給你些許啟發?
我們都是父母親的心頭肉,因為習慣擁有,所以遺忘了他們給予我們種種的好。請回頭看看他們疲倦的臉龐,佝僂的身影,他們是為誰,成了如今這般的模樣呢?
相信,只要用心去感受「愛」就在我們身邊!
每天,你都能感受到許多新的領悟!
.
探討問題
1.對於家人的關懷照顧你是懷抱著什麼心態?理所當然,還是覺得厭煩?
2.為什麼我們對家人的態度總是比對朋友差?
3.為什麼都要在歷經過苦難或失去後,才能學會感恩及珍惜?
.
—-?——?——?——?——-?———?——–?—–
?大家一起來參加聖誕拍照活動吧!
快來點這兒上傳照片? http://t.cn/EUxA91g
—–?——?——?——?——-?———?——–?—-
.
圖片來源:http://www.korseries.com/kormovies-the-way-home-2002/
#有你真好、#影評、#親情、#愛與感動
.
.【The Way Home】 Film review

Let's think about it. Why is our attitude towards our family always worse than how we treat our friends?

I recommend a popular film directed by the Korean director Lee Jeong-hyang called .

In the film, San-woo, a seven-year-old boy, was sent to the countryside by his unmarried mother for his grandmother to take care of him. His grandmother was mute but not deaf and lives a simple and hardworking life, a life of diligence and simplicity. San-woo, who is used to living in the city, is disgusted with this grandmother whom he has yet to meet. He observes the dirty and unsophisticated way of life in the countryside and feels even more annoyed. Although he always argues with his grandmother, she does not ever raise her temper at him but instead uses her unconditional love to tolerate his misbehavior and acts of defiance. Love the is the core value of this film.

In the face of the mischievous San-woo, what method did his grandmother use to touch his heart?

Summary of the story:
San-woo is very fond of playing video games, eating potato chips and fried chicken. Going to the countryside where there is no electricity and little entertainment, he feels that he does not fit in. On one occasion, San Woo’s electrical motor ran out of power and he asked his grandmother to buy batteries. However, she was too poor and did not have extra money to afford them. As a result, San-Woo flew into a rage and broke his grandmother’s vase and hid her shoes, forcing her to walk barefooted. Even worse, he stole his grandmother’s precious hairpin and secretly went to the city to sell it for money which he used to buy his batteries. However, he became lost on his way back but thankfully a kind old man helped him find his way back.

On another occasion, San-woo had a craving for fried chicken sold at a fast food restaurant. However there were no fast food restaurants in the countryside.
To fulfill his wish, his grandmother sold her dowry and crossed the mountains in rainy weather just so to bring a chicken home for him to eat. After cooking the chicken, his grandmother happily called out for him to try her cooking. However, upon seeing that what she cooked wasn’t the fried chicken he wanted, he flew into a rage and broke a bowl, running away. Grandma had no choice but to pick up the pieces of chicken from the ground. Unknown to San-woo, Grandma did everything she could to satisfy his demands. She willingly starved herself so that San-woo would have enough food to eat, accompanied him to the toilet in frosty weather and even sneakily put money in San-woo’s present so that he could buy the batteries he wanted for his video games.

During this period, San-woo started becoming aware of the sacrifices that Grandma had made for him and slowly became touched by her actions. A few months later, San-woo’ s mother was ready to bring him back to the city . The night before he left, San-woo taught his grandmother how to write. Before getting on the bus, he gave his handwritten card to his grandmother and said, “If Grandma wishes to see me, send this card to me!” The words “I miss you” was written on the card.

In fact, this is what San-woo wishes to say to Grandma!

The learning point of the movie is that perhaps when we were younger and had actions and behavior similar to San-woo, we were highly dependent on our elders and were playful. Real growth and gratitude are derived from the experiences that we encounter as we grow up. While others may give advice, only by experiencing events yourself will you fully comprehend it. In fact, the love from our elders is as selfless and boundless as our parents and they do so without any complaints or rewards.

Does this story give you some inspiration?

We occupy very precious positions in our parents’ hearts. However, as because we become more adored and accustomed to their love and care, do we take for granted all their sacrifices and contributions? Please take a look at their tired faces – who was it that made them what they look like today?

I believe that as long as we spend time by their side, we will notice that love is everywhere.
This way, we will develop new insights everyday!

Discussion questions
1. What kind of mentality do you hold regarding your family’s care and concern? Or do you feel indifferent towards them?
2. Why are our attitudes towards our family always worse than to our friends?
3. Why do you learn to be grateful and cherish your family and friends only after suffering or losing them?

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想想,為什麼我們對家人的態度總是比對朋友差?
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和大家推薦一部有超大洋蔥的片子,這是由韓國導演「李貞香」執導的作品《有你真好》。片中述說一個七歲的小男孩「山武」,七歲就被未婚媽媽送往鄉下給奶奶照顧,奶奶不會說話,勤儉樸實地過著生活。但是已經習慣在都市生活的「山武」,對素未謀面的奶奶感到厭惡,他對鄉野骯髒而不便利的生活更感到嫌惡,他處處和奶奶作對。究竟,面對調皮搗蛋的山武,奶奶是用甚麼方法去打動他的心呢?
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有一次,山武的電動機沒電了,跟奶奶要錢買電池,但奶奶生活太過貧困了,沒有多餘的錢可用。山武一生氣,就把奶奶的花瓶打碎、把奶奶的鞋子藏起來讓奶奶赤腳走路;甚至,還偷了奶奶的簪子去城裡賣了要買電池,不料電池沒買成還迷了路,幸好被好心的爺爺送了回去。
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還有一次,山武因為想吃速食店的炸雞,但是鄉村並沒有速食店,奶奶為了滿足孫子,變賣了自己的嫁妝,淋著雨翻山越嶺,提了一隻雞回來煮給山武吃。雞煮好了,奶奶開心的呼喚山武趕快來吃,山武看到桌上不是他愛吃的炸雞,大發脾氣將碗打翻,扭頭走了。奶奶只好默默撿起地上的食物吃了。為了滿足山武,奶奶幾乎傾出所有。寧願自己餓肚子也要讓山武能夠吃飽、在凜冽的寒風中陪他去上廁所,甚至將錢偷偷塞到了禮物中,讓山武去買他最想要的電玩電池。
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這些日子以來,奶奶對山武無私的付出,山武其實都看在眼哩,也慢慢感動了他那稚嫩的心靈。幾個月過去了,山武的母親準備來接山武回去。離開的前一天晚上,山武教了奶奶寫字,上車前把卡片給了奶奶說:「奶奶如果想我了,就把這張卡片寄來給我吧!」卡片上寫著「我想你」。
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其實,這是山武最想對奶奶說的話吧!
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故事說到這兒,想想兒時的我們,或許也曾經和片中的山武一樣,有著許多的依賴和不懂事。真正的成長與感恩,都是需要靠自己親身去體會才能明白的,沒經歷過的,就算他人說再多也就像是吹過耳邊的風,風過了無痕哪。其實,和父母親一樣,長輩對孩子的愛,無私而廣大,沒有任何怨言,也不求回報。「愛」與「包容」是貫穿這部電影的核心價值。
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這個故事是否給你些許啟發?
我們都是父母親的心頭肉,因為習慣擁有,所以遺忘了他們給予我們種種的好。請回頭看看他們疲倦的臉龐,佝僂的身影,他們是為誰,成了如今這般的模樣呢?
相信,只要用心去感受「愛」就在我們身邊!
每天,你都能感受到許多新的領悟!
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探討問題
1.對於家人的關懷照顧你是懷抱著什麼心態?理所當然,還是覺得厭煩?
2.為什麼我們對家人的態度總是比對朋友差?
3.為什麼都要在歷經過苦難或失去後,才能學會感恩及珍惜?
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#有你真好、#影評、#親情、#愛與感動
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.【The Way Home】 Film review

Let’s think about it. Why is our attitude towards our family always worse than how we treat our friends?

I recommend a popular film directed by the Korean director Lee Jeong-hyang called .

In the film, San-woo, a seven-year-old boy, was sent to the countryside by his unmarried mother for his grandmother to take care of him. His grandmother was mute but not deaf and lives a simple and hardworking life, a life of diligence and simplicity. San-woo, who is used to living in the city, is disgusted with this grandmother whom he has yet to meet. He observes the dirty and unsophisticated way of life in the countryside and feels even more annoyed. Although he always argues with his grandmother, she does not ever raise her temper at him but instead uses her unconditional love to tolerate his misbehavior and acts of defiance. Love the is the core value of this film.

In the face of the mischievous San-woo, what method did his grandmother use to touch his heart?

Summary of the story:
San-woo is very fond of playing video games, eating potato chips and fried chicken. Going to the countryside where there is no electricity and little entertainment, he feels that he does not fit in. On one occasion, San Woo’s electrical motor ran out of power and he asked his grandmother to buy batteries. However, she was too poor and did not have extra money to afford them. As a result, San-Woo flew into a rage and broke his grandmother’s vase and hid her shoes, forcing her to walk barefooted. Even worse, he stole his grandmother’s precious hairpin and secretly went to the city to sell it for money which he used to buy his batteries. However, he became lost on his way back but thankfully a kind old man helped him find his way back.

On another occasion, San-woo had a craving for fried chicken sold at a fast food restaurant. However there were no fast food restaurants in the countryside.
To fulfill his wish, his grandmother sold her dowry and crossed the mountains in rainy weather just so to bring a chicken home for him to eat. After cooking the chicken, his grandmother happily called out for him to try her cooking. However, upon seeing that what she cooked wasn’t the fried chicken he wanted, he flew into a rage and broke a bowl, running away. Grandma had no choice but to pick up the pieces of chicken from the ground. Unknown to San-woo, Grandma did everything she could to satisfy his demands. She willingly starved herself so that San-woo would have enough food to eat, accompanied him to the toilet in frosty weather and even sneakily put money in San-woo’s present so that he could buy the batteries he wanted for his video games.

During this period, San-woo started becoming aware of the sacrifices that Grandma had made for him and slowly became touched by her actions. A few months later, San-woo’ s mother was ready to bring him back to the city . The night before he left, San-woo taught his grandmother how to write. Before getting on the bus, he gave his handwritten card to his grandmother and said, “If Grandma wishes to see me, send this card to me!” The words “I miss you” was written on the card.

In fact, this is what San-woo wishes to say to Grandma!

The learning point of the movie is that perhaps when we were younger and had actions and behavior similar to San-woo, we were highly dependent on our elders and were playful. Real growth and gratitude are derived from the experiences that we encounter as we grow up. While others may give advice, only by experiencing events yourself will you fully comprehend it. In fact, the love from our elders is as selfless and boundless as our parents and they do so without any complaints or rewards.

Does this story give you some inspiration?

We occupy very precious positions in our parents’ hearts. However, as because we become more adored and accustomed to their love and care, do we take for granted all their sacrifices and contributions? Please take a look at their tired faces – who was it that made them what they look like today?

I believe that as long as we spend time by their side, we will notice that love is everywhere.
This way, we will develop new insights everyday!

Discussion questions
1. What kind of mentality do you hold regarding your family’s care and concern? Or do you feel indifferent towards them?
2. Why are our attitudes towards our family always worse than to our friends?
3. Why do you learn to be grateful and cherish your family and friends only after suffering or losing them?

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孩子青春期的叛逆如何面對? . 是甚麼東…

孩子青春期的叛逆如何面對?
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是甚麼東西在責罵中,包含著愛;嘮叨裡,透露著關心;沉默時,兜著牽掛;眉宇間,總盼兒平安,這就是「母愛」…
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週末就是母親節了,記得要常抽空回家探望父親、母親,就算是一通電話,一聲問候,都是給父母親最珍貴的禮物。
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因為愛,不在嘴上,不在物質和名相上,而是在心裡。。。
祝福天下的父親、母親:身體健康,吉祥如意!同時祝福大家,闔家幸福、美滿。
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我來自於馬來西亞_名字叫葉嘉俊,法名:來孝。
過去,我特別叛逆,和父母的關係很糟糕,和他們談不到3句就要吵起來。吵架時我根本無法控制自己的情緒,對著父母罵髒話、拍桌子、甚至有想打父母的衝動。其實,我知道父母很愛我,只是隨著自己慢慢長大,我對他們嚴格的管教越來越反感。
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國中二年級時,我交了一個女朋友,一天放學後我因為陪女朋友比較晚回家,母親因為擔心就播了通電話給我,問我在哪裡,我莫名的一股氣衝上來,就在電話中和母親大吵起來。回到家,母親問我電話中怎麼回事,我還理直氣壯的說:「正常打電話而已,沒什麼啊!」爸爸氣急了,打了我一巴掌。從那以後,我和父母的冷戰就開始了。我不和他們一起吃飯,不說話,我們知謙隔了後後的冰層。
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2016年7月我大學畢業了,找了3個月的工作都沒找到,心情很沮喪的時候,母親要我一起去參加「念佛班」,我敷衍的答應了。開始我完全不理會人,也不和人說話,他們要我做什麼我就做什麼,到了第四天,在為父母念佛的時候,過去和父母吵架的畫面,像演電影似的一幕幕湧進腦海,我開始為自己過往對父母親不敬的行為感到愧疚不已,眼淚控制不住地往下流。
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懺悔之後,我的心中感到前所未有的輕鬆。當聽到金菩提宗師講到:「身為子女,要做好子女的本份,要孝順,不要做傷害父母的事情、說傷害父母的話。」我決定不再傷父母親的心了。從那天之後,我改變了對父母的態度,開始懂得感恩父母、學著理解,並且關心他們。
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現在,面對父母的關心和照顧,我會開心地接受,還會和父母一起坐著看電視、聊天,家中的氣氛變得很溫馨,真的好享受這種感覺!
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感謝媽媽當初遞給我的那張報名表,那是我成長過程中收到的,最寶貴的禮物。讓我變得正向陽光、內心柔軟,並且懂得感恩!今年年初,我又一次突破了自己,給爸爸媽媽傳了簡訊,對他們說:「爸爸媽媽我愛你們!」
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#積極、#正向陽光、#葉嘉俊、#叛逆期、#青春熱血、#親情、#感恩rnrnHow do we manage our children’s rebellious adolescent years?

What is it –
in the scolding that exudes love;
in the nagging that reveals care;
in the silence that reflects concern;
between the cease of the forehead that always long for the safety and peace of the children? It is “motherly love”..

This weekend is Mother’s Day. We must remember to find time to return home often to visit our fathers and mothers. Even if it is a phone call, or a simple greeting, these are the most precious gifts for our parents.

This is because love is not merely expressed in speech, in material gifts or gestures in names or appearances, but from the heart… May all the fathers and mothers in the world be blessed with good health, auspiciousness and fulfilling lives! Similarly, may everyone be blessed with familial bliss.

I am Jiajun Ye, from Malaysia. My Dharma name is Laixiao. In the past, I was particularly rebellious and had a poor relationship with my parents. We would quarrel after speaking no more than 3 sentences. I couldn’t control my emotions at all during the arguments, and would be rude to my parents, slam the desk, and even harbor the urge to hit them. In reality, I know that my parents love me, but as I grew up, I became more and more frustrated by their strict discipline.

In the second year of middle school, I befriended a girl. One day after school, I was late for home as I accompanied my girlfriend. My mother was concerned and called to ask my whereabouts. At that moment, an inexplicable anger in me exploded and I had a big quarrel with her on the phone. Back home, my mother asked me what happened. I was unrepentant, saying, “(it was) only a normal conversation, nothing to be concerned about!” Dad was most flustered, and gave me a slap. Since then, cold war began between my parents and I. Daily activities with them such as during mealtimes were in silence, as there was now a “thick layer of ice” between us.

In July 2016, I graduated from university, but struggled for 3 months without finding work. At my most depressed state, my mother asked me to attend a “chanting class”. I agreed only half-heartedly. At the beginning, I totally ignored the class and was not engaged, only doing as I was told. On the fourth day, when the class chanted for our parents, past scenes of the quarrels with my parents flash-backed before me like a movie reel in action. I began to feel ashamed of my disrespectful behavior toward my parents, and tears streamed uncontrollably.

After the repentant chanting, my heart felt a sense of calm that I had never experienced. When I heard Master Jin Bodhi’s advice that, “as children, we should fulfill our obligations, be filial, and do not do hurtful things to our parents”, I resolved never to hurt my parents anymore. From that day on, I changed my attitude towards my parents. I began to be thankful, and learned to understand and care for them.
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Now, I happily embrace the care and concern of my parents, accompany them in enjoying TV shows, and have chats with them. It is now a warm atmosphere at home, and most delightful!

I’m most thankful to my mother who had handed me the application form for the class. It is the most precious gift in my growing up years. It inspired me toward the illuminated path, develop an amiable heart and appreciate gratitude! At the beginning of this year, I achieved another breakthrough, as I sent a message to mum and dad expressing, “Mom and Dad, I love you!

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孩子最真實的感受 . 孩子突然見到久別重…

孩子最真實的感受
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孩子突然見到久別重逢的爸爸,已經不能用「高興」來形容了!而是激動、狂喜、尖叫。
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#親情#父子
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