【週六網路共修】 一份慈悲心,能消百世劫…

【週六網路共修】
一份慈悲心,能消百世劫。
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感恩佛陀降臨世間,為了讓眾生離苦得樂,傳授給我們最寶貴的方法。
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我們感恩,並且學習佛陀這份「慈悲與柔軟」,一起傳播「光明、能量」給所有需要的人們。

祝福大家:
都能獲得佛菩薩的吉祥能量,幸福、快樂!
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#2013浴佛大加持
#週六網路共修
#慈悲的加持

【Saturday Online Global Group Practice】
A compassionate heart can eradicate calamities destined for hundreds of lifetimes.

Thank you Sakyamuni Buddha for descending on our mortal world to liberate sentient beings from sufferings and to impart valuable Dharma to us.

Learn Sakyamuni Buddha’s compassion and gentleness with a grateful heart to spread and emit illumination and energy to those who need it.
May all receive auspicious energy and happiness from Buddha and Bodhisattvas!

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【覺悟的進程】 . 在這堂課裡,我總結了…

【覺悟的進程】
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在這堂課裡,我總結了修行路上最重要的一些要點:
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1. 深入認識苦與覺受
2. 學習八正道
3. 修行的法寶
4. 修佛的最高境界
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哪一點最觸動你呢?
歡迎你留言分享!
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#覺悟的進程、#週六共修、#人生八苦、#八正道、#恭敬真誠 #願望

Progress Toward Enlightenment

In this class, I have summarized the following key points:
1. In-depth knowledge of sufferings and feelings
2. Learning about the Noble Eightfold Paths
3. The magic of self-cultivation
4. The highest state of the Dharma

Which point touches you the most?
You are welcome to leave a message to share!

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累世業力何解? . 僅需一片赤誠學佛,立…

累世業力何解?
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僅需一片赤誠學佛,立得清淨琉璃之靈魂。
行善種福因,助人得解脫,自己也修得自在圓滿。
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本週共修《覺悟的起點》,來聽我聊聊快速成就之法。
願大家領會佛陀教法的真義,早日覺悟。
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#週六網路共修、#覺悟的起點、#弘法系列

How to clear past karmic debts?

You only need to learn the dharma with a sincere heart to gain a clear and pure soul.
We can gain complete enlightenment when we perform meritorious deeds to accumulate karmic merits through helping others attain liberation.

In this week’s [The SteppingStone to Awakening], I will share with you how to awaken yourself quickly.
May all understand the true meaning behind Sakyamuni Buddha’s teachings to gain enlightenment soon!

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用減法,成就健康人生! . 人來到世上就…

用減法,成就健康人生!
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人來到世上就像背著一個空籃子,每分每秒都在往裡面放東西,久了,自然越來越重,越來越不堪負荷,走到半路可能就累倒在地。
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所以人生學會減法,才能讓我們在人生這條路上走得長久又健康!減去多餘的貪慾、沉重的計較等,合理選擇人生的取捨,使自身能活得更健康。
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但要怎麼著手開始減法呢?
讓我們一起共修,修出健康長壽人生!
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#週六共修、#禪修與健康養生、#人生減法、#健康之道

Apply subtraction methodology to gain a healthy life!

Everyone comes to this world with an empty basket. However, as time passes, more things are being added into this basket. Thus, over time, this burden becomes heavier and unbearable and may even break at half point.

Hence it is important for us to acquire the knowledge of subtraction methodology in order to lead a long and healthy life! When we let go excessive greed, burdensome calculations and live life wisely, we will be able to lead a healthier life!

How do we start to apply this subtraction methodology in our life?
I welcome you to join me in my discussion for a healthier and longer life!

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【罵人者人恆罵之】 . 罵人也會挨駡,如…

【罵人者人恆罵之】
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罵人也會挨駡,如果我們自己、或親人被罵、被打時,我們都會非常痛苦,甚至憎恨傷害我們的人。
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但,冤冤相報何時了呢?哪怕是很小的一個過錯,都會引發一個長久的負面能量在心裡發酵。嚴重點,可能會造成身體上的傷害。
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若想達到離苦、解脫,以致身心靈清淨自在、健康的狀態 。
歸根究柢,還是要做一個慈悲的人。
由慈悲引發出來智慧的小苗、到花朵、到果實,
乃至成為一棵參天巨樹。
這,都是由慈悲的根而生發!
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【One who scolds others will be scolded in time to come】

When we scold others, we will be scolded in time to come. We will suffer and feel unhappy when we or our loved ones are scolded, beaten or hurt by others. , We may even hate those who hurt us!

However, is there an end to revenge? Even a minor mistake can trigger negative energy to start festering in our heart. In serious cases, our body may be hurt.

If we aspire to be liberated, want inner peace and good health, we must start by becoming a compassionate person. The wisdom that arises from the seedlings of compassion may flourish and grow into a flower, ripen into a fruit or even develop into a towering tree!

These are possible and arise from the roots of compassion!

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走向解脫的大愛 . 每個人都有自己的人生…

走向解脫的大愛
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每個人都有自己的人生追求,假設:把你追求的目標,設定為一顆鑽石,個頭超級大,價值超級貴。你每天拼盡全力地工作,付出所有的心血與時間,朝思暮想,苦苦追求,最後鑽石終於到手了。在得到的剎那間,你可能是快樂的,甚至是欣喜若狂,但馬上你又開始變得極為恐慌——千萬不能弄丟了!於是你又為如何保護它,而寢食難安,惶惶不可終日,重又陷入新一輪的痛苦。
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得不到的時候,它遠在天邊,你在追逐的過程,身心疲憊。得到了之後,「怕失去」的惴惴不安,又折磨得你苦不堪言。如果真的失去了,這種痛不欲生的感覺可能會要了你的命。

當你所貪愛的事物,不管是追求、擁有、還是失去,帶給你的感覺都是「苦」。
那該怎麼辦?
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來聽聽我講的《學佛的目的之一》,討論如何將自私貪愛帶來的痛苦,轉化成無私的博愛,讓一份愛心帶來萬分美好。希望大家都能有所領悟,並能與你的生活結合,得到事業成功、圓滿成就、自在解脫的智慧。
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#週六網路共修 #共修引導 #學佛的目的之一

Universal love brings liberation

Everyone has his own pursuits and goals in life. Perhaps your pursuit in life is to own an extremely huge and expensive diamond and you work hard every day for it. Finally when you own the diamond, you may feel happy or even ecstatic! However, such moment of happiness is short-lived as very soon, fear takes over. You begin to worry and fear losing it! Therefore, you take preventive measures to protect the diamond and may lose sleep over it. At this point, you find yourself in a new vicious cycle of suffering.

In life, in the course of chasing our wants and desires, we end up becoming physically and mentally exhausted. When we eventually get what we wanted, we become fearful and worry about losing them. Such pain and misery can cost our life!
When we have greed, it doesn’t matter whether we are still pursuing, owning or losing the item, it will bring us pain.
What should we do?

I welcome you to join me this coming Saturday in my discussion about 【The Purpose of Practicing Dharma (1)】. We will discuss how to turn pain from selfishness into selfless universal love and to integrate it into our daily life so that we can achieve success, freedom and wisdom.

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你覺悟了嗎? . 我曾問過一位學佛多年的…

你覺悟了嗎?
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我曾問過一位學佛多年的老先生:「哎,這位師兄,你是學佛的老前輩了。」
他說:「啊,不多不多,只有四十年。」
我問:「哇,太厲害了!師兄,什麼是佛啊?」
他像背書似地說:「自覺覺他,覺行圓滿。」
我說:「噢,那您幫過人嗎?」
他說:「沒有。」
我說:「哦,沒有啊。那您怎麼學佛啊?自覺覺他,您又覺悟了什麼?」
他說:「我還沒有證悟圓滿。」
我說:「哦,那什麼時候證悟呢?」
他說:「我師父說,來世、來世、來來世。」
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人身難得,如果他來世轉生再來,變不成人了怎麼辦?
「自覺」要「覺」到什麼程度才能去「覺他」呢?
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或許,這一刻聽聞佛法明白了道理,那麼這一刻也代表了覺悟。有人說:「我還沒徹底覺悟呢!」那你總知道「眾善奉行」吧?你總知道去幫人助人吧?總知道慈悲心最起碼是「好心」吧?懂得這些就夠了,這就是自覺。不止自己覺悟,還要幫助他人明白道理,這就是覺他。
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來聽我聊聊成佛的三要素:大慈大悲、自覺覺他、覺行圓滿。希望能帶給你一點啟發:原來,成佛不是神話,道路就是當下。
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#週六網路共修 #共修引導 #什麼是佛

Are You Enlightened?

Once I asked an old gentleman who had spent years studying Buddhism, “Brother, you are a veteran of Buddhist studies.”
He replied “Ah, not much, only 40 years.”
I remarked, “Wow, that’s awesome!” So what is Buddha?”
He replied as if he just memorized from a book, “enlighten self and others with perfect enlightenment and conduct.”
I asked, “Have you helped anyone?”
He said, “No.”
I said, “No? Then how do you learn Buddhadharma? Enlighten self and others; have you gained enlightenment?
He replied, “I have not attained perfect enlightenment yet.”
I asked, “When will you attain perfect enlightenment?”
He answered, “According to my master, perhaps in my next life or the life thereafter, thereafter.”

As it is, it is not easy for us to be reincarnated as a human being. What if he is not a human being in his next life?
To what extent must we be enlightened before we can help others?

To me, I feel that once you understand a particular aspect of Buddhadharma, you are enlightened in that aspect. Some would defend themselves, “But I have not gained complete enlightenment! But we, as Buddhists, should always be kind and help others wherever possible. The same applies to compassion. As long as we understand compassion and kindness, that is already partial enlightenment. Not only should we strive for self- enlightenment, we should help others to incorporate compassion into their daily lives so that they will eventually be enlightened.

I welcome you to join me in my discussion this coming Saturday. I will share three important aspects of Buddhadharma: Great compassion, enlighten self and others with perfect enlightenment and conduct.
Hope that this can be an inspiration to you that Buddhahood is attainable and the means to it lies in what we do now.

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【週六網路共修】懂得感恩 就有幸福 . …

【週六網路共修】懂得感恩 就有幸福
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家庭幸福的關鍵在於懂得感恩對方!
一顆感恩的心,就是一顆幸福的種籽。
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「感恩」是一種美德,也是一種生活智慧,它可以讓你心靈充滿陽光,對生命中每一次擁有都充滿珍惜,衷心感謝。不知感恩的人,心靈缺乏感知幸福的能力,對於生命中每一事件的安排,好的都當理所當然,壞的就只會抱怨連連,這就是不懂得感激,幸福當然會遠離!
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付出什麼得到什麼:付出愛,得到愛;付出慈悲,得到關懷,得到眾人對你的愛。付出傷害,一定是既傷對方又傷自己。就是這麼簡單的道理,這是宇宙的法則,也是通往幸福的唯一道路。
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讓我們從感恩出發,從謙卑做起。從自身出發,為他人著力,學習用理解,包容,尊重,溫和,禮敬的心去面對一切, 如果你還不熟悉,試著去學習,就是最大的改變!因為「裝久了就變成真的了」,等到你真正做到了,一定會發現幸福,原來離我們這麼近!
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現在就讓我們一起來學習吧!
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#週六網路共修 #共修引導 #幸福從感恩開始 #減少抱怨 #正面思考
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【Saturday Online Global Group Practice】 Happiness will enter our lives once we learn to be grateful

The key to happy family lies in appreciating and being grateful to each other!
A grateful heart is a seed of happiness.

「Gratitude」is a form of virtue and wisdom in life. It fills us with sunny disposition spiritually and teaches us to cherish and feel grateful for what we have. People who are not grateful lack the ability to lead a happy life. These people normally take good fortunes for granted and complain repeatedly about misfortunes. For these people, happiness will elude them forever!

We reap what we give: When we give love generously, we will gain love in return; when we treat others with compassion, we will receive care and love. When we cause hurt to others, we will both be hurt inadvertently. This is a simple truth, the law of the Universe, and the only way to happiness.

Let us start by being grateful and humble. Start by taking the first step to help others. Learn to face everything with understanding, tolerance, respect, gentleness and kindness. If you are not familiar with it, try to take the initiative to learn. This will be your greatest transformation!
When you try and pretend to be grateful long enough, it becomes real for you. When you finally inculcate gratitude into your daily life, you will discover happiness is actually so close to us!

Now let us start to learn together!

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你信因果嗎? . 人世間的眾生千差萬別,…

你信因果嗎?
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人世間的眾生千差萬別,有的人天生麗質,有的人天生醜陋;有的人心胸開闊、樂天派,有的人萎靡不振、對什麼事情的看法都是負面感覺;還有一些人很智慧、健康、積極地面對生活中的一切,而有些人簡直比草莓還脆弱,遇到一點坎坷就一敗塗地。為什麼人與人之間有這麼大的差別呢?根源在哪裡?
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也許還有人曾有過這種經歷:在沒有任何誘因下,突然之間喉嚨好痛,那種莫名的痛來得毫無防備;有的人則好像頭突然被人狠狠打了一下,痛得要命,吃藥都不管用。這些看似「無緣無故」的痛,是怎麼回事?有沒有解決的辦法?
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本週六是殊勝的盂蘭盆節,也是佛歡喜日,更是無數幽冥眾生得到佛超度接引的日子,邀請您來和我一起通過真心祈請,借助佛大慈大悲的如海願力,為你消解這一切的生命之苦。
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?歡迎分享,多傳多福!! ?
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【全球各地網路同步共修時間】
1. 溫哥華/西雅圖/波特蘭/矽穀/舊金山/洛杉磯/聖地亞哥
北美太平洋時間:2018年08月24日 晚上06:00開始
2. 臺北/北京/馬來西亞/新加坡/香港:
2018年08月25日 上午09:00開始
3. 多倫多/紐約/波士頓/華盛頓DC/邁阿密/亞特蘭大/奧蘭多:
北美東部時間:2018年08月24日 晚上09:00開始
4. 英國倫敦時間:2018年08月25日 淩晨01:00開始
5. 巴黎/柏林/巴塞羅那/斯德哥爾摩時間:2018年08月25日 淩晨03:00開始
6. 羅馬尼亞時間:2018年08月25日 淩晨04:00開始
7. 緬甸仰光時間:2018年08月25日 早上07:30開始
8. 印尼雅加達時間:2018年08月25日 早上08:00開始
9. 韓國首爾時間:2018年08月25日 上午10:00開始
10.澳大利亞墨爾本時間:2018年08月25日 上午11:00開始
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備註:各地禪堂一般共修時間為星期六上午9:00開始,欲前往各地禪堂參與共修者,請事先諮詢各地禪堂,以當地時間為主。
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#週六網路共修 #共修預告 #2009年盂蘭盆節法會 #弘法系列rnrnDo you believe in the law of causation?

Everyone is born different. Some are born beautiful while others are born ugly. Some are open-minded, optimistic while others feel depressed and negative easily. Some are wise, healthy and proactive about life while others are fragile in spirit and give up easily when they face difficulties in life. Why is there such a big difference between people? What is the underlying source of these differences?

Perhaps some people may have this experience: a sudden inexplicable pain in their throat for no apparent reason. Some people may feel as if their head had just been severely hit and the pain cannot be alleviated by medication. What are the causes of this inexplicable pain? Is there any way to resolve it?

This coming Saturday’s Ullambana Festival, also known as Buddha Joyful Day, is a day where countless sentient beings gain liberation from sufferings through receiving blessings and guidance from Buddha. I welcome you to join me in chanting with a sincere heart. Let us call upon the immense power of Buddha to help liberate us from all worldly sufferings.

You are welcomed to share the post.
?More sharing; more blessings!?

Online Globe Group Practice Schedules:
1. Vancouver/Seattle/Portland/Silicon Valley/San Francisco/Los Angeles/San Diego
North American (Pacific Zone): Aug 24, 2018 at 06:00hrs
2. Taipei/Beijing/Malaysia/Singapore/Hong Kong:
Aug 25, 2018 at 09:00hrs
3. Toronto/New York/Boston/Washington DC/Miami/Atlanta/Orlando:
North America (Eastern Zone): Aug 24, 2018 at 09:00hrs
4. London (United Kingdom): Aug 25, 2018 at 01:00hrs
5. Paris/Berlin/Barcelona/Stockholm: Aug 25, 2018 at 03:00hrs
6. Romania: Aug 25, 2018 at 04:00hrs
7. Yangon (Myanmar): Aug 25, 2018 at 07:30hrs
8. Jakarta (Indonesia): Aug 25, 2018 at 08:00hrs
9. Seoul (South Korea): Aug 25, 2018 at 10:00hrs
10. Melbourne (Australia): Aug 25, 2018 at 11:00hrs

Note: The Global Group Practice on Saturday is typically scheduled at 9:00am at Bodhi Meditation centers. Interested participants and practitioners are advised to refer in advance to the operational hours of the local Bodhi Meditation center.

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你信因果嗎?
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人世間的眾生千差萬別,有的人天生麗質,有的人天生醜陋;有的人心胸開闊、樂天派,有的人萎靡不振、對什麼事情的看法都是負面感覺;還有一些人很智慧、健康、積極地面對生活中的一切,而有些人簡直比草莓還脆弱,遇到一點坎坷就一敗塗地。為什麼人與人之間有這麼大的差別呢?根源在哪裡?
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也許還有人曾有過這種經歷:在沒有任何誘因下,突然之間喉嚨好痛,那種莫名的痛來得毫無防備;有的人則好像頭突然被人狠狠打了一下,痛得要命,吃藥都不管用。這些看似「無緣無故」的痛,是怎麼回事?有沒有解決的辦法?
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本週六是殊勝的盂蘭盆節,也是佛歡喜日,更是無數幽冥眾生得到佛超度接引的日子,邀請您來和我一起通過真心祈請,借助佛大慈大悲的如海願力,為你消解這一切的生命之苦。
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 ?歡迎分享,多傳多福!!  ?
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【全球各地網路同步共修時間】
1. 溫哥華/西雅圖/波特蘭/矽穀/舊金山/洛杉磯/聖地亞哥
北美太平洋時間:2018年08月24日 晚上06:00開始
2. 臺北/北京/馬來西亞/新加坡/香港:
2018年08月25日 上午09:00開始
3. 多倫多/紐約/波士頓/華盛頓DC/邁阿密/亞特蘭大/奧蘭多:
北美東部時間:2018年08月24日 晚上09:00開始
4. 英國倫敦時間:2018年08月25日 淩晨01:00開始
5. 巴黎/柏林/巴塞羅那/斯德哥爾摩時間:2018年08月25日 淩晨03:00開始
6. 羅馬尼亞時間:2018年08月25日 淩晨04:00開始
7. 緬甸仰光時間:2018年08月25日 早上07:30開始
8. 印尼雅加達時間:2018年08月25日 早上08:00開始
9. 韓國首爾時間:2018年08月25日 上午10:00開始
10.澳大利亞墨爾本時間:2018年08月25日 上午11:00開始
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備註:各地禪堂一般共修時間為星期六上午9:00開始,欲前往各地禪堂參與共修者,請事先諮詢各地禪堂,以當地時間為主。
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#週六網路共修 #共修預告 #2009年盂蘭盆節法會 #弘法系列rnrnDo you believe in the law of causation?
 
Everyone is born different. Some are born beautiful while others are born ugly. Some are open-minded, optimistic while others feel depressed and negative easily. Some are wise, healthy and proactive about life while others are fragile in spirit and give up easily when they face difficulties in life. Why is there such a big difference between people? What is the underlying source of these differences?
 
Perhaps some people may have this experience: a sudden inexplicable pain in their throat for no apparent reason. Some people may feel as if their head had just been severely hit and the pain cannot be alleviated by medication. What are the causes of this inexplicable pain? Is there any way to resolve it?
 
This coming Saturday’s Ullambana Festival, also known as Buddha Joyful Day, is a day where countless sentient beings gain liberation from sufferings through receiving blessings and guidance from Buddha. I welcome you to join me in chanting with a sincere heart. Let us call upon the immense power of Buddha to help liberate us from all worldly sufferings.
  
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?More sharing; more blessings!?
 
Online Globe Group Practice Schedules:
1. Vancouver/Seattle/Portland/Silicon Valley/San Francisco/Los Angeles/San Diego
North American (Pacific Zone): Aug 24, 2018 at 06:00hrs
2. Taipei/Beijing/Malaysia/Singapore/Hong Kong:
Aug 25, 2018 at 09:00hrs 
3. Toronto/New York/Boston/Washington DC/Miami/Atlanta/Orlando:
North America (Eastern Zone): Aug 24, 2018 at 09:00hrs
4. London (United Kingdom): Aug 25, 2018 at 01:00hrs
5. Paris/Berlin/Barcelona/Stockholm: Aug 25, 2018 at 03:00hrs
6. Romania: Aug 25, 2018 at 04:00hrs
7. Yangon (Myanmar): Aug 25, 2018 at 07:30hrs
8. Jakarta (Indonesia): Aug 25, 2018 at 08:00hrs
9. Seoul (South Korea): Aug 25, 2018 at 10:00hrs
10. Melbourne (Australia): Aug 25, 2018 at 11:00hrs
 
Note: The Global Group Practice on Saturday is typically scheduled at 9:00am at Bodhi Meditation centers. Interested participants and practitioners are advised to refer in advance to the operational hours of the local Bodhi Meditation center.
 
#SaturdayOnlineGlobalGroupPractice, #OnlineGlobalGroupPractice, #2009UllambanaFestivalCelebration, #DharmaTeachingSeries

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【週六網路共修】如何愛「不聽話的孩子」?…

【週六網路共修】如何愛「不聽話的孩子」?
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天下最無私的,莫過父母對兒女的愛了。父母在兒女身上傾注的心血和感情,世上沒有任何工具能夠衡量。但如何正確地愛孩子,尤其是愛一個「不聽話的孩子」,還能做到不溺愛又給足情感滋養?
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我給家長幾個建議當參考:

一、給孩子選擇權:讓他自己去嘗試,當他親身經歷後,必然能掌握經驗,讓他一輩子受用,對他往後的人生墊下穩健的基石。
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二、把握尺度:愛也要有限度,比如食物的調味,適量的糖帶來甜蜜,過量帶來身體負擔,對健康造成傷害。愛也是一樣,如果給太多,孩子會有壓力,甚至引來更大的叛逆。適度的關愛,才能讓親子關係和諧。
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三、立下規矩:父母的身教跟言教對家庭發展有舉足輕重的作用,以自身做榜樣給孩子學習,能給孩子一個典範,孩子在做人處事上有了依規,就不會無所適從。如果父母給孩子立的原則,自己都做不到,就不該拿來要求孩子。
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關於親子教育的問題,您有什麼想法和建議也歡迎留言,我們一起努力,給孩子創造一個良好的成長環境,奠定他人生成就的基礎。
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【Saturday Online Global Group Practice】 How should you love “disobedient children”?

Parental love is the most selfless love on earth. There is no tool in the world that is able to measure the devotion and affection of parents toward their children. But what is the right way to love a child, especially to a child who does not listen? How to love adequately and yet not to spoil the child?

I have some suggestions for parents to consider:

1. Give the child the right to choose. Let him try. Lessons learnt through personal experience will stay with him throughout his life. The experience will provide solid cornerstone for his future.

2. Love in moderation. Love also has limit. Like food seasoning, the right amount of sugar brings sweetness but excessive sugar is harmful to our body. Love is similar. Too much love will give the child pressure and may even lead to greater rebellion. Adequate amount of love is the key to great parent-child relationship.

3. Set rules. Parents should lead by example and be role models for the children. As parents, if you are not able to observe the rules that you set, then you should not be imposing these rules on them.

I welcome you to share any suggestions or thoughts that you may have on parenting. Let us work together to create a good environment for the children to grow and develop. This will be the foundation for their future achievements in life.

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