【有你真好】影評
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想想，為什麼我們對家人的態度總是比對朋友差?
.
和大家推薦一部有超大洋蔥的片子，這是由韓國導演「李貞香」執導的作品《有你真好》。片中述說一個七歲的小男孩「山武」，七歲就被未婚媽媽送往鄉下給奶奶照顧，奶奶不會說話，勤儉樸實地過著生活。但是已經習慣在都市生活的「山武」，對素未謀面的奶奶感到厭惡，他對鄉野骯髒而不便利的生活更感到嫌惡，他處處和奶奶作對。究竟，面對調皮搗蛋的山武，奶奶是用甚麼方法去打動他的心呢？
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有一次，山武的電動機沒電了，跟奶奶要錢買電池，但奶奶生活太過貧困了，沒有多餘的錢可用。山武一生氣，就把奶奶的花瓶打碎、把奶奶的鞋子藏起來讓奶奶赤腳走路；甚至，還偷了奶奶的簪子去城裡賣了要買電池，不料電池沒買成還迷了路，幸好被好心的爺爺送了回去。
.
還有一次，山武因為想吃速食店的炸雞，但是鄉村並沒有速食店，奶奶為了滿足孫子，變賣了自己的嫁妝，淋著雨翻山越嶺，提了一隻雞回來煮給山武吃。雞煮好了，奶奶開心的呼喚山武趕快來吃，山武看到桌上不是他愛吃的炸雞，大發脾氣將碗打翻，扭頭走了。奶奶只好默默撿起地上的食物吃了。為了滿足山武，奶奶幾乎傾出所有。寧願自己餓肚子也要讓山武能夠吃飽、在凜冽的寒風中陪他去上廁所，甚至將錢偷偷塞到了禮物中，讓山武去買他最想要的電玩電池。
.
這些日子以來，奶奶對山武無私的付出，山武其實都看在眼哩，也慢慢感動了他那稚嫩的心靈。幾個月過去了，山武的母親準備來接山武回去。離開的前一天晚上，山武教了奶奶寫字，上車前把卡片給了奶奶說：「奶奶如果想我了，就把這張卡片寄來給我吧！」卡片上寫著「我想你」。
.
其實，這是山武最想對奶奶說的話吧！
.
故事說到這兒，想想兒時的我們，或許也曾經和片中的山武一樣，有著許多的依賴和不懂事。真正的成長與感恩，都是需要靠自己親身去體會才能明白的，沒經歷過的，就算他人說再多也就像是吹過耳邊的風，風過了無痕哪。其實，和父母親一樣，長輩對孩子的愛，無私而廣大，沒有任何怨言，也不求回報。「愛」與「包容」是貫穿這部電影的核心價值。
.
這個故事是否給你些許啟發？
我們都是父母親的心頭肉，因為習慣擁有，所以遺忘了他們給予我們種種的好。請回頭看看他們疲倦的臉龐，佝僂的身影，他們是為誰，成了如今這般的模樣呢？
相信，只要用心去感受「愛」就在我們身邊！
每天，你都能感受到許多新的領悟！
.
探討問題
1.對於家人的關懷照顧你是懷抱著什麼心態？理所當然，還是覺得厭煩?
2.為什麼我們對家人的態度總是比對朋友差？
3.為什麼都要在歷經過苦難或失去後，才能學會感恩及珍惜？
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—-?——?——?——?——-?———?——–?—–
?大家一起來參加聖誕拍照活動吧！
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—–?——?——?——?——-?———?——–?—-
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圖片來源:http://www.korseries.com/kormovies-the-way-home-2002/
#有你真好、#影評、#親情、#愛與感動
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.【The Way Home】 Film review
Let’s think about it. Why is our attitude towards our family always worse than how we treat our friends?
I recommend a popular film directed by the Korean director Lee Jeong-hyang called .
In the film, San-woo, a seven-year-old boy, was sent to the countryside by his unmarried mother for his grandmother to take care of him. His grandmother was mute but not deaf and lives a simple and hardworking life, a life of diligence and simplicity. San-woo, who is used to living in the city, is disgusted with this grandmother whom he has yet to meet. He observes the dirty and unsophisticated way of life in the countryside and feels even more annoyed. Although he always argues with his grandmother, she does not ever raise her temper at him but instead uses her unconditional love to tolerate his misbehavior and acts of defiance. Love the is the core value of this film.
In the face of the mischievous San-woo, what method did his grandmother use to touch his heart?
Summary of the story:
San-woo is very fond of playing video games, eating potato chips and fried chicken. Going to the countryside where there is no electricity and little entertainment, he feels that he does not fit in. On one occasion, San Woo’s electrical motor ran out of power and he asked his grandmother to buy batteries. However, she was too poor and did not have extra money to afford them. As a result, San-Woo flew into a rage and broke his grandmother’s vase and hid her shoes, forcing her to walk barefooted. Even worse, he stole his grandmother’s precious hairpin and secretly went to the city to sell it for money which he used to buy his batteries. However, he became lost on his way back but thankfully a kind old man helped him find his way back.
On another occasion, San-woo had a craving for fried chicken sold at a fast food restaurant. However there were no fast food restaurants in the countryside.
To fulfill his wish, his grandmother sold her dowry and crossed the mountains in rainy weather just so to bring a chicken home for him to eat. After cooking the chicken, his grandmother happily called out for him to try her cooking. However, upon seeing that what she cooked wasn’t the fried chicken he wanted, he flew into a rage and broke a bowl, running away. Grandma had no choice but to pick up the pieces of chicken from the ground. Unknown to San-woo, Grandma did everything she could to satisfy his demands. She willingly starved herself so that San-woo would have enough food to eat, accompanied him to the toilet in frosty weather and even sneakily put money in San-woo’s present so that he could buy the batteries he wanted for his video games.
During this period, San-woo started becoming aware of the sacrifices that Grandma had made for him and slowly became touched by her actions. A few months later, San-woo’ s mother was ready to bring him back to the city . The night before he left, San-woo taught his grandmother how to write. Before getting on the bus, he gave his handwritten card to his grandmother and said, “If Grandma wishes to see me, send this card to me!” The words “I miss you” was written on the card.
In fact, this is what San-woo wishes to say to Grandma!
The learning point of the movie is that perhaps when we were younger and had actions and behavior similar to San-woo, we were highly dependent on our elders and were playful. Real growth and gratitude are derived from the experiences that we encounter as we grow up. While others may give advice, only by experiencing events yourself will you fully comprehend it. In fact, the love from our elders is as selfless and boundless as our parents and they do so without any complaints or rewards.
Does this story give you some inspiration?
We occupy very precious positions in our parents’ hearts. However, as because we become more adored and accustomed to their love and care, do we take for granted all their sacrifices and contributions? Please take a look at their tired faces – who was it that made them what they look like today?
I believe that as long as we spend time by their side, we will notice that love is everywhere.
This way, we will develop new insights everyday!
Discussion questions
1. What kind of mentality do you hold regarding your family’s care and concern? Or do you feel indifferent towards them?
2. Why are our attitudes towards our family always worse than to our friends?
3. Why do you learn to be grateful and cherish your family and friends only after suffering or losing them?
—-?——?——?——?——-?———?——–?—–
?Join in the Christmas Photo Event！
Click here to upload your photos ? http://t.cn/EUxA91g
—–?——?——?——?——-?———?——–?—–
Image source: http://www.korseries.com/kormovies-the-way-home-2002/
#TheWayHome #FilmReview #FamilyTies #ActsOfLovernrn【有你真好】影評
.
想想，為什麼我們對家人的態度總是比對朋友差?
.
和大家推薦一部有超大洋蔥的片子，這是由韓國導演「李貞香」執導的作品《有你真好》。片中述說一個七歲的小男孩「山武」，七歲就被未婚媽媽送往鄉下給奶奶照顧，奶奶不會說話，勤儉樸實地過著生活。但是已經習慣在都市生活的「山武」，對素未謀面的奶奶感到厭惡，他對鄉野骯髒而不便利的生活更感到嫌惡，他處處和奶奶作對。究竟，面對調皮搗蛋的山武，奶奶是用甚麼方法去打動他的心呢？
.
有一次，山武的電動機沒電了，跟奶奶要錢買電池，但奶奶生活太過貧困了，沒有多餘的錢可用。山武一生氣，就把奶奶的花瓶打碎、把奶奶的鞋子藏起來讓奶奶赤腳走路；甚至，還偷了奶奶的簪子去城裡賣了要買電池，不料電池沒買成還迷了路，幸好被好心的爺爺送了回去。
.
還有一次，山武因為想吃速食店的炸雞，但是鄉村並沒有速食店，奶奶為了滿足孫子，變賣了自己的嫁妝，淋著雨翻山越嶺，提了一隻雞回來煮給山武吃。雞煮好了，奶奶開心的呼喚山武趕快來吃，山武看到桌上不是他愛吃的炸雞，大發脾氣將碗打翻，扭頭走了。奶奶只好默默撿起地上的食物吃了。為了滿足山武，奶奶幾乎傾出所有。寧願自己餓肚子也要讓山武能夠吃飽、在凜冽的寒風中陪他去上廁所，甚至將錢偷偷塞到了禮物中，讓山武去買他最想要的電玩電池。
.
這些日子以來，奶奶對山武無私的付出，山武其實都看在眼哩，也慢慢感動了他那稚嫩的心靈。幾個月過去了，山武的母親準備來接山武回去。離開的前一天晚上，山武教了奶奶寫字，上車前把卡片給了奶奶說：「奶奶如果想我了，就把這張卡片寄來給我吧！」卡片上寫著「我想你」。
.
其實，這是山武最想對奶奶說的話吧！
.
故事說到這兒，想想兒時的我們，或許也曾經和片中的山武一樣，有著許多的依賴和不懂事。真正的成長與感恩，都是需要靠自己親身去體會才能明白的，沒經歷過的，就算他人說再多也就像是吹過耳邊的風，風過了無痕哪。其實，和父母親一樣，長輩對孩子的愛，無私而廣大，沒有任何怨言，也不求回報。「愛」與「包容」是貫穿這部電影的核心價值。
.
這個故事是否給你些許啟發？
我們都是父母親的心頭肉，因為習慣擁有，所以遺忘了他們給予我們種種的好。請回頭看看他們疲倦的臉龐，佝僂的身影，他們是為誰，成了如今這般的模樣呢？
相信，只要用心去感受「愛」就在我們身邊！
每天，你都能感受到許多新的領悟！
.
探討問題
1.對於家人的關懷照顧你是懷抱著什麼心態？理所當然，還是覺得厭煩?
2.為什麼我們對家人的態度總是比對朋友差？
3.為什麼都要在歷經過苦難或失去後，才能學會感恩及珍惜？
.
—-?——?——?——?——-?———?——–?—–
?大家一起來參加聖誕拍照活動吧！
快來點這兒上傳照片? http://t.cn/EUxA91g
—–?——?——?——?——-?———?——–?—-
.
圖片來源:http://www.korseries.com/kormovies-the-way-home-2002/
#有你真好、#影評、#親情、#愛與感動
.
.【The Way Home】 Film review
Let’s think about it. Why is our attitude towards our family always worse than how we treat our friends?
I recommend a popular film directed by the Korean director Lee Jeong-hyang called .
In the film, San-woo, a seven-year-old boy, was sent to the countryside by his unmarried mother for his grandmother to take care of him. His grandmother was mute but not deaf and lives a simple and hardworking life, a life of diligence and simplicity. San-woo, who is used to living in the city, is disgusted with this grandmother whom he has yet to meet. He observes the dirty and unsophisticated way of life in the countryside and feels even more annoyed. Although he always argues with his grandmother, she does not ever raise her temper at him but instead uses her unconditional love to tolerate his misbehavior and acts of defiance. Love the is the core value of this film.
In the face of the mischievous San-woo, what method did his grandmother use to touch his heart?
Summary of the story:
San-woo is very fond of playing video games, eating potato chips and fried chicken. Going to the countryside where there is no electricity and little entertainment, he feels that he does not fit in. On one occasion, San Woo’s electrical motor ran out of power and he asked his grandmother to buy batteries. However, she was too poor and did not have extra money to afford them. As a result, San-Woo flew into a rage and broke his grandmother’s vase and hid her shoes, forcing her to walk barefooted. Even worse, he stole his grandmother’s precious hairpin and secretly went to the city to sell it for money which he used to buy his batteries. However, he became lost on his way back but thankfully a kind old man helped him find his way back.
On another occasion, San-woo had a craving for fried chicken sold at a fast food restaurant. However there were no fast food restaurants in the countryside.
To fulfill his wish, his grandmother sold her dowry and crossed the mountains in rainy weather just so to bring a chicken home for him to eat. After cooking the chicken, his grandmother happily called out for him to try her cooking. However, upon seeing that what she cooked wasn’t the fried chicken he wanted, he flew into a rage and broke a bowl, running away. Grandma had no choice but to pick up the pieces of chicken from the ground. Unknown to San-woo, Grandma did everything she could to satisfy his demands. She willingly starved herself so that San-woo would have enough food to eat, accompanied him to the toilet in frosty weather and even sneakily put money in San-woo’s present so that he could buy the batteries he wanted for his video games.
During this period, San-woo started becoming aware of the sacrifices that Grandma had made for him and slowly became touched by her actions. A few months later, San-woo’ s mother was ready to bring him back to the city . The night before he left, San-woo taught his grandmother how to write. Before getting on the bus, he gave his handwritten card to his grandmother and said, “If Grandma wishes to see me, send this card to me!” The words “I miss you” was written on the card.
In fact, this is what San-woo wishes to say to Grandma!
The learning point of the movie is that perhaps when we were younger and had actions and behavior similar to San-woo, we were highly dependent on our elders and were playful. Real growth and gratitude are derived from the experiences that we encounter as we grow up. While others may give advice, only by experiencing events yourself will you fully comprehend it. In fact, the love from our elders is as selfless and boundless as our parents and they do so without any complaints or rewards.
Does this story give you some inspiration?
We occupy very precious positions in our parents’ hearts. However, as because we become more adored and accustomed to their love and care, do we take for granted all their sacrifices and contributions? Please take a look at their tired faces – who was it that made them what they look like today?
I believe that as long as we spend time by their side, we will notice that love is everywhere.
This way, we will develop new insights everyday!
Discussion questions
1. What kind of mentality do you hold regarding your family’s care and concern? Or do you feel indifferent towards them?
2. Why are our attitudes towards our family always worse than to our friends?
3. Why do you learn to be grateful and cherish your family and friends only after suffering or losing them?
—-?——?——?——?——-?———?——–?—–
?Join in the Christmas Photo Event！
Click here to upload your photos ? http://t.cn/EUxA91g
—–?——?——?——?——-?———?——–?—–
Image source: http://www.korseries.com/kormovies-the-way-home-2002/
#TheWayHome #FilmReview #FamilyTies #ActsOfLove
.
想想，為什麼我們對家人的態度總是比對朋友差?
.
和大家推薦一部有超大洋蔥的片子，這是由韓國導演「李貞香」執導的作品《有你真好》。片中述說一個七歲的小男孩「山武」，七歲就被未婚媽媽送往鄉下給奶奶照顧，奶奶不會說話，勤儉樸實地過著生活。但是已經習慣在都市生活的「山武」，對素未謀面的奶奶感到厭惡，他對鄉野骯髒而不便利的生活更感到嫌惡，他處處和奶奶作對。究竟，面對調皮搗蛋的山武，奶奶是用甚麼方法去打動他的心呢？
.
有一次，山武的電動機沒電了，跟奶奶要錢買電池，但奶奶生活太過貧困了，沒有多餘的錢可用。山武一生氣，就把奶奶的花瓶打碎、把奶奶的鞋子藏起來讓奶奶赤腳走路；甚至，還偷了奶奶的簪子去城裡賣了要買電池，不料電池沒買成還迷了路，幸好被好心的爺爺送了回去。
.
還有一次，山武因為想吃速食店的炸雞，但是鄉村並沒有速食店，奶奶為了滿足孫子，變賣了自己的嫁妝，淋著雨翻山越嶺，提了一隻雞回來煮給山武吃。雞煮好了，奶奶開心的呼喚山武趕快來吃，山武看到桌上不是他愛吃的炸雞，大發脾氣將碗打翻，扭頭走了。奶奶只好默默撿起地上的食物吃了。為了滿足山武，奶奶幾乎傾出所有。寧願自己餓肚子也要讓山武能夠吃飽、在凜冽的寒風中陪他去上廁所，甚至將錢偷偷塞到了禮物中，讓山武去買他最想要的電玩電池。
.
這些日子以來，奶奶對山武無私的付出，山武其實都看在眼哩，也慢慢感動了他那稚嫩的心靈。幾個月過去了，山武的母親準備來接山武回去。離開的前一天晚上，山武教了奶奶寫字，上車前把卡片給了奶奶說：「奶奶如果想我了，就把這張卡片寄來給我吧！」卡片上寫著「我想你」。
.
其實，這是山武最想對奶奶說的話吧！
.
故事說到這兒，想想兒時的我們，或許也曾經和片中的山武一樣，有著許多的依賴和不懂事。真正的成長與感恩，都是需要靠自己親身去體會才能明白的，沒經歷過的，就算他人說再多也就像是吹過耳邊的風，風過了無痕哪。其實，和父母親一樣，長輩對孩子的愛，無私而廣大，沒有任何怨言，也不求回報。「愛」與「包容」是貫穿這部電影的核心價值。
.
這個故事是否給你些許啟發？
我們都是父母親的心頭肉，因為習慣擁有，所以遺忘了他們給予我們種種的好。請回頭看看他們疲倦的臉龐，佝僂的身影，他們是為誰，成了如今這般的模樣呢？
相信，只要用心去感受「愛」就在我們身邊！
每天，你都能感受到許多新的領悟！
.
探討問題
1.對於家人的關懷照顧你是懷抱著什麼心態？理所當然，還是覺得厭煩?
2.為什麼我們對家人的態度總是比對朋友差？
3.為什麼都要在歷經過苦難或失去後，才能學會感恩及珍惜？
.
—-?——?——?——?——-?———?——–?—–
?大家一起來參加聖誕拍照活動吧！
快來點這兒上傳照片? http://t.cn/EUxA91g
—–?——?——?——?——-?———?——–?—-
.
圖片來源:http://www.korseries.com/kormovies-the-way-home-2002/
#有你真好、#影評、#親情、#愛與感動
.
.【The Way Home】 Film review
Let's think about it. Why is our attitude towards our family always worse than how we treat our friends?
I recommend a popular film directed by the Korean director Lee Jeong-hyang called .
In the film, San-woo, a seven-year-old boy, was sent to the countryside by his unmarried mother for his grandmother to take care of him. His grandmother was mute but not deaf and lives a simple and hardworking life, a life of diligence and simplicity. San-woo, who is used to living in the city, is disgusted with this grandmother whom he has yet to meet. He observes the dirty and unsophisticated way of life in the countryside and feels even more annoyed. Although he always argues with his grandmother, she does not ever raise her temper at him but instead uses her unconditional love to tolerate his misbehavior and acts of defiance. Love the is the core value of this film.
In the face of the mischievous San-woo, what method did his grandmother use to touch his heart?
Summary of the story:
San-woo is very fond of playing video games, eating potato chips and fried chicken. Going to the countryside where there is no electricity and little entertainment, he feels that he does not fit in. On one occasion, San Woo’s electrical motor ran out of power and he asked his grandmother to buy batteries. However, she was too poor and did not have extra money to afford them. As a result, San-Woo flew into a rage and broke his grandmother’s vase and hid her shoes, forcing her to walk barefooted. Even worse, he stole his grandmother’s precious hairpin and secretly went to the city to sell it for money which he used to buy his batteries. However, he became lost on his way back but thankfully a kind old man helped him find his way back.
On another occasion, San-woo had a craving for fried chicken sold at a fast food restaurant. However there were no fast food restaurants in the countryside.
To fulfill his wish, his grandmother sold her dowry and crossed the mountains in rainy weather just so to bring a chicken home for him to eat. After cooking the chicken, his grandmother happily called out for him to try her cooking. However, upon seeing that what she cooked wasn’t the fried chicken he wanted, he flew into a rage and broke a bowl, running away. Grandma had no choice but to pick up the pieces of chicken from the ground. Unknown to San-woo, Grandma did everything she could to satisfy his demands. She willingly starved herself so that San-woo would have enough food to eat, accompanied him to the toilet in frosty weather and even sneakily put money in San-woo’s present so that he could buy the batteries he wanted for his video games.
During this period, San-woo started becoming aware of the sacrifices that Grandma had made for him and slowly became touched by her actions. A few months later, San-woo’ s mother was ready to bring him back to the city . The night before he left, San-woo taught his grandmother how to write. Before getting on the bus, he gave his handwritten card to his grandmother and said, “If Grandma wishes to see me, send this card to me!” The words “I miss you” was written on the card.
In fact, this is what San-woo wishes to say to Grandma!
The learning point of the movie is that perhaps when we were younger and had actions and behavior similar to San-woo, we were highly dependent on our elders and were playful. Real growth and gratitude are derived from the experiences that we encounter as we grow up. While others may give advice, only by experiencing events yourself will you fully comprehend it. In fact, the love from our elders is as selfless and boundless as our parents and they do so without any complaints or rewards.
Does this story give you some inspiration?
We occupy very precious positions in our parents’ hearts. However, as because we become more adored and accustomed to their love and care, do we take for granted all their sacrifices and contributions? Please take a look at their tired faces – who was it that made them what they look like today?
I believe that as long as we spend time by their side, we will notice that love is everywhere.
This way, we will develop new insights everyday!
Discussion questions
1. What kind of mentality do you hold regarding your family’s care and concern? Or do you feel indifferent towards them?
2. Why are our attitudes towards our family always worse than to our friends?
3. Why do you learn to be grateful and cherish your family and friends only after suffering or losing them?
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想想，為什麼我們對家人的態度總是比對朋友差?
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和大家推薦一部有超大洋蔥的片子，這是由韓國導演「李貞香」執導的作品《有你真好》。片中述說一個七歲的小男孩「山武」，七歲就被未婚媽媽送往鄉下給奶奶照顧，奶奶不會說話，勤儉樸實地過著生活。但是已經習慣在都市生活的「山武」，對素未謀面的奶奶感到厭惡，他對鄉野骯髒而不便利的生活更感到嫌惡，他處處和奶奶作對。究竟，面對調皮搗蛋的山武，奶奶是用甚麼方法去打動他的心呢？
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有一次，山武的電動機沒電了，跟奶奶要錢買電池，但奶奶生活太過貧困了，沒有多餘的錢可用。山武一生氣，就把奶奶的花瓶打碎、把奶奶的鞋子藏起來讓奶奶赤腳走路；甚至，還偷了奶奶的簪子去城裡賣了要買電池，不料電池沒買成還迷了路，幸好被好心的爺爺送了回去。
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還有一次，山武因為想吃速食店的炸雞，但是鄉村並沒有速食店，奶奶為了滿足孫子，變賣了自己的嫁妝，淋著雨翻山越嶺，提了一隻雞回來煮給山武吃。雞煮好了，奶奶開心的呼喚山武趕快來吃，山武看到桌上不是他愛吃的炸雞，大發脾氣將碗打翻，扭頭走了。奶奶只好默默撿起地上的食物吃了。為了滿足山武，奶奶幾乎傾出所有。寧願自己餓肚子也要讓山武能夠吃飽、在凜冽的寒風中陪他去上廁所，甚至將錢偷偷塞到了禮物中，讓山武去買他最想要的電玩電池。
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這些日子以來，奶奶對山武無私的付出，山武其實都看在眼哩，也慢慢感動了他那稚嫩的心靈。幾個月過去了，山武的母親準備來接山武回去。離開的前一天晚上，山武教了奶奶寫字，上車前把卡片給了奶奶說：「奶奶如果想我了，就把這張卡片寄來給我吧！」卡片上寫著「我想你」。
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其實，這是山武最想對奶奶說的話吧！
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故事說到這兒，想想兒時的我們，或許也曾經和片中的山武一樣，有著許多的依賴和不懂事。真正的成長與感恩，都是需要靠自己親身去體會才能明白的，沒經歷過的，就算他人說再多也就像是吹過耳邊的風，風過了無痕哪。其實，和父母親一樣，長輩對孩子的愛，無私而廣大，沒有任何怨言，也不求回報。「愛」與「包容」是貫穿這部電影的核心價值。
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這個故事是否給你些許啟發？
我們都是父母親的心頭肉，因為習慣擁有，所以遺忘了他們給予我們種種的好。請回頭看看他們疲倦的臉龐，佝僂的身影，他們是為誰，成了如今這般的模樣呢？
相信，只要用心去感受「愛」就在我們身邊！
每天，你都能感受到許多新的領悟！
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探討問題
1.對於家人的關懷照顧你是懷抱著什麼心態？理所當然，還是覺得厭煩?
2.為什麼我們對家人的態度總是比對朋友差？
3.為什麼都要在歷經過苦難或失去後，才能學會感恩及珍惜？
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.【The Way Home】 Film review
Let’s think about it. Why is our attitude towards our family always worse than how we treat our friends?
I recommend a popular film directed by the Korean director Lee Jeong-hyang called .
In the film, San-woo, a seven-year-old boy, was sent to the countryside by his unmarried mother for his grandmother to take care of him. His grandmother was mute but not deaf and lives a simple and hardworking life, a life of diligence and simplicity. San-woo, who is used to living in the city, is disgusted with this grandmother whom he has yet to meet. He observes the dirty and unsophisticated way of life in the countryside and feels even more annoyed. Although he always argues with his grandmother, she does not ever raise her temper at him but instead uses her unconditional love to tolerate his misbehavior and acts of defiance. Love the is the core value of this film.
In the face of the mischievous San-woo, what method did his grandmother use to touch his heart?
Summary of the story:
San-woo is very fond of playing video games, eating potato chips and fried chicken. Going to the countryside where there is no electricity and little entertainment, he feels that he does not fit in. On one occasion, San Woo’s electrical motor ran out of power and he asked his grandmother to buy batteries. However, she was too poor and did not have extra money to afford them. As a result, San-Woo flew into a rage and broke his grandmother’s vase and hid her shoes, forcing her to walk barefooted. Even worse, he stole his grandmother’s precious hairpin and secretly went to the city to sell it for money which he used to buy his batteries. However, he became lost on his way back but thankfully a kind old man helped him find his way back.
On another occasion, San-woo had a craving for fried chicken sold at a fast food restaurant. However there were no fast food restaurants in the countryside.
To fulfill his wish, his grandmother sold her dowry and crossed the mountains in rainy weather just so to bring a chicken home for him to eat. After cooking the chicken, his grandmother happily called out for him to try her cooking. However, upon seeing that what she cooked wasn’t the fried chicken he wanted, he flew into a rage and broke a bowl, running away. Grandma had no choice but to pick up the pieces of chicken from the ground. Unknown to San-woo, Grandma did everything she could to satisfy his demands. She willingly starved herself so that San-woo would have enough food to eat, accompanied him to the toilet in frosty weather and even sneakily put money in San-woo’s present so that he could buy the batteries he wanted for his video games.
During this period, San-woo started becoming aware of the sacrifices that Grandma had made for him and slowly became touched by her actions. A few months later, San-woo’ s mother was ready to bring him back to the city . The night before he left, San-woo taught his grandmother how to write. Before getting on the bus, he gave his handwritten card to his grandmother and said, “If Grandma wishes to see me, send this card to me!” The words “I miss you” was written on the card.
In fact, this is what San-woo wishes to say to Grandma!
The learning point of the movie is that perhaps when we were younger and had actions and behavior similar to San-woo, we were highly dependent on our elders and were playful. Real growth and gratitude are derived from the experiences that we encounter as we grow up. While others may give advice, only by experiencing events yourself will you fully comprehend it. In fact, the love from our elders is as selfless and boundless as our parents and they do so without any complaints or rewards.
Does this story give you some inspiration?
We occupy very precious positions in our parents’ hearts. However, as because we become more adored and accustomed to their love and care, do we take for granted all their sacrifices and contributions? Please take a look at their tired faces – who was it that made them what they look like today?
I believe that as long as we spend time by their side, we will notice that love is everywhere.
This way, we will develop new insights everyday!
Discussion questions
1. What kind of mentality do you hold regarding your family’s care and concern? Or do you feel indifferent towards them?
2. Why are our attitudes towards our family always worse than to our friends?
3. Why do you learn to be grateful and cherish your family and friends only after suffering or losing them?
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百善孝为先、千万不要做到:子欲養而親不待、树欲靜而风不止。後悔就来不及了。
謝謝師父分享这正面能量的文章、社会正缺少这,
师父师母早安吉祥???
感恩师父慈悲分享???
弟子都以亲情为重！
感恩师父的慈悲分享，感恩师父的良苦用心……??????
顶礼感恩师父慈悲开示！爱不只是语言表达，更重要的是真心付出行动，经历了，自己也成长了。
师父好。多年前看过这部电影，非常感人! 感恩师父推荐，也鼓励同修们看。
感恩师父！
师父：“有您真好！”我们时刻感受着您赐予我们无尽的教化，呵护，关爱，加持！
师父好，祝福师父和家一切都吉祥如意。感恩师父大慈大悲，把佛法用故事和各种方变语言教化传受师父慈悲大爱的智慧加持，让我们知道用慈悲可以征服一切，感恩师父的敎化。顶礼叩拜大恩师父
師父師母早上好，感恩師父分享感人电影。學習父母亲朋们的付出 愛和關懷， 感恩和珍惜。,????
感恩师父！感恩老师！感恩父母！感恩所有的亲们！有您真好。
师父早上好！感恩分享！关怀给心灵充满温情的愛！???
感恩师父！感恩师父慈悲的分享【有你真好】与教导！經過苦難或失去後，才能知道感恩及珍惜！感恩父母給予我們種種的好，父母沒有任何怨言，也不求回報的「愛」與「包容」我们！感恩师父！让我们懂得了感恩！让我和无数人重生做人起死回生健康快乐！顶礼叩拜感恩师父！！！
感恩师父慈悲教诲
要珍惜眼前拥有的，不要等失去了，再去惋惜。
要有感恩心，不要认为理所当然的。
环境会影响心境，要保持一个感恩心，还得靠不断地修炼。
我在努力，尽量少犯错。
说易做难，但为了改变命运，就要去尝试
感恩师父
感恩师父分享电影“有你真好”我没看过这部电影，看到师父介绍，很是感动，父母，长辈的爱是无私无畏，不求回报，只讲付出，做子女的要懂得珍惜，懂得感恩，还要懂得尊重，更不能伤害父母的心。感恩师父教悔！
感恩佛师分享教导???《有你真好》弟子其实与母亲沟通不是很多，还是很心庝她，当病到后在医院治疗后，准备出院了开始不吃饭，她但心回家不照顾她，那时我还没退休，我就没办法叫一声妈开口答应的时候把饭喂到她嘴里，就这样的不停的叫着把饭吃了，也是弟子一天中叫了一辈子的妈???妈妈在家服出的太多太多……弟子能自己做的从不给妈妈添麻烦???儿女也不是都一样的，不知感恩的真的有。
师父慈悲分享”有你真好“首先回荅师父提出三个问题。
第一，
1.之前的理所當然、今日的感恩惜福！
2. 因為不懂事的理所當然！
3. 苦難事化了妝的祝福，經歷因果，才知惜福！
师父，您好！小时候不懂事，认为父母养育我们是理所当然的，做错事父母又包容的，所以通常在父母面前养成很任性了，现在父母不在人世了，才知道失去父母而难过，后悔莫及了。谢谢师父上传分享和常常教导我们！感恩师父！
本以为刚上完课能过两天风平浪静的日子。
往事我也不想想，更不想去写，可却总是宛如电影在心头浮现。这是我此生最大的遗憾，最大的负疚，永远也无法弥补。在他最后的两年，我总是无法接受他怎么能得那样的病，我甚至对我素未谋面的奶奶心生怨恨。可我却没能做到温柔体贴的对待他，没好好安慰他，没能向他对待我那样去对待他。我的那种木然，那种冷，真让我不寒而栗，我怎么也变成那样的人了，和他们那些人一样，不忠不孝，不仁不义。那段岁月我真他妈不是人，我应该直接go to hell. me,me,me,me, I only think of me!
有时候我想我就是个伪善的人，冷酷的人不配学佛。
我不想求神佛原谅宽恕，我要的不是这个。
感恩师父的分享！故事好感动呀，看的我眼泪都掉出来了。
看了師父分享我也看了這個電影，真的很感人，雖然台詞不多，但滿滿的愛都表現出來了，電影讓我特別感動
如果父母把我当心头肉，为何将婴孩时的我丢掉？只因我是女孩！
很棒的一部電影， 忘不了 影片中 外婆的背影。
师父是不是控制不住自己的心和烦恼就是慈悲心不够呢！？
感恩师父慈悲分享！【有你真好】和开示！经过严冬才知春天的美好，感恩这个世界有了师父，才真好！是您让这个世界有了光明，有了正能量！有了大慈犬悲，有了人生的最正确的目标！有你真好！顶礼叩拜！
感恩師父!非常非常好的分享!記得小孩時說過很傷姥姥的話，每次想起或念佛時都忏悔
曾看過這部影片，真的非常感動，老奶奶對小孫子滿滿的愛令人動容，無需言語真誠包容寬恕的愛融化了頑童的心，我們總是對身邊家人的付出視為理所當然，有時就像山武般的無理取鬧，感恩師父分享讓弟子領悟要時時珍惜與感恩，愛要及時