After I participated in the 8.5-Day Health and Happiness Retreat in 2013, I began to practice “The Meditation of Greater Illumination”. A few months later, I realized that I have become more stable and calmer. One day, when I was looking at my mum while chatting with her, a realization suddenly came across my mind.
All this while, my mother just wanted to find a topic to chat with me and at the same time, complaining about her troubles. She might find it inappropriate to talk to her friends or neighbours about the matter and thus came to talk to me instead. Thinking of it, I felt that I was harsh on her. In the past, I did not feel that there was any problem with it. From that moment on, I stopped correcting my mother and now our conversation is more harmonious!
【见证禅修 – 李美莲 】
在来菩提禅修之前，我跟母亲的关系其实都挺好的。但是不知从什么时候开始，当母亲找我聊天时，我总会纠正她的毛病，像行为举止缺乏考量或失仪，母亲常常被我气得要命，直呼：“不要跟你讲了！”
我在2013年参加了”菩提禅修健身班”之后，便开始修练”无量大光明修持法“。几个月后，我发现自己更沉稳平静了。有一天，当我默默地望着跟我闲聊的母亲时，突然有所领悟。
其实母亲一路来只是想找话题跟我聊，顺便抱怨一下平时的烦心事。这些事情，可能是她不方便跟朋友或邻居谈的，所以只好找女儿倾诉。想到这，我就觉得我对母亲苛刻了。而过去的我，并不会觉得自己这样做有什么不对。从那一刻开始，我不再纠正母亲，现在我们的交谈更融洽了！
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常憶念感恩母親 對我們無微不至的照顧！
