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【週六網路共修】如何愛「不聽話的孩子」？…

【週六網路共修】如何愛「不聽話的孩子」？
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天下最無私的，莫過父母對兒女的愛了。父母在兒女身上傾注的心血和感情，世上沒有任何工具能夠衡量。但如何正確地愛孩子，尤其是愛一個「不聽話的孩子」，還能做到不溺愛又給足情感滋養？
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我給家長幾個建議當參考：

一、給孩子選擇權：讓他自己去嘗試，當他親身經歷後，必然能掌握經驗，讓他一輩子受用，對他往後的人生墊下穩健的基石。
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二、把握尺度：愛也要有限度，比如食物的調味，適量的糖帶來甜蜜，過量帶來身體負擔，對健康造成傷害。愛也是一樣，如果給太多，孩子會有壓力，甚至引來更大的叛逆。適度的關愛，才能讓親子關係和諧。
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三、立下規矩：父母的身教跟言教對家庭發展有舉足輕重的作用，以自身做榜樣給孩子學習，能給孩子一個典範，孩子在做人處事上有了依規，就不會無所適從。如果父母給孩子立的原則，自己都做不到，就不該拿來要求孩子。
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關於親子教育的問題，您有什麼想法和建議也歡迎留言，我們一起努力，給孩子創造一個良好的成長環境，奠定他人生成就的基礎。
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＃週六網路共修 ＃共修引導 ＃發現孩子 ＃親子教育

【Saturday Online Global Group Practice】 How should you love “disobedient children”?

Parental love is the most selfless love on earth. There is no tool in the world that is able to measure the devotion and affection of parents toward their children. But what is the right way to love a child, especially to a child who does not listen? How to love adequately and yet not to spoil the child?

I have some suggestions for parents to consider:

1. Give the child the right to choose. Let him try. Lessons learnt through personal experience will stay with him throughout his life. The experience will provide solid cornerstone for his future.

2. Love in moderation. Love also has limit. Like food seasoning, the right amount of sugar brings sweetness but excessive sugar is harmful to our body. Love is similar. Too much love will give the child pressure and may even lead to greater rebellion. Adequate amount of love is the key to great parent-child relationship.

3. Set rules. Parents should lead by example and be role models for the children. As parents, if you are not able to observe the rules that you set, then you should not be imposing these rules on them.

I welcome you to share any suggestions or thoughts that you may have on parenting. Let us work together to create a good environment for the children to grow and develop. This will be the foundation for their future achievements in life.

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模範夫妻過七夕 . 農曆七月初七是中國傳…

模範夫妻過七夕
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農曆七月初七是中國傳統節日「七夕」，
是傳說中牛郎織女鵲橋相會的日子，
也被認為是中國的「情人節」。
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曾有人說：「吵架最少的一對模範夫妻，就是牛郎織女，距離產生美，每年只能見一次面，說甜蜜話都來不及了，哪有時間吵架呢？」想想似乎真有點道理，古人云：人生若只如初見。乍見之歡容易，久處不厭卻是難上加難。天天膩在身邊，難免會產生厭倦、想逃離、去尋找所謂的自由。所以適當地保留各自空間，不失為夫妻長久相處的好辦法。

語言上，也要掌握不口出惡言的原則，不要以為「親人就無須見外了」，隨便講話、發洩傷人，也會在無形中消磨感情。適當的距離產生適當的尊重與美感，彼此便會更加珍惜，發現對方更多的優點，丈夫發現妻子絮叨裡充滿了關愛，妻子發現丈夫的粗枝大葉中充滿了力量感，任你再強的脾氣也禁不住幾句噓寒問暖、讚美鼓勵。和諧的夫妻關係，可以帶來家庭的安定與慰藉，還能帶給孩子心靈的滋養。
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七夕節，祝福大家情人節快樂，願人人都能擁有美好與甜蜜的家庭生活。
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#七夕、#情人節、#模範夫妻相處之道rnrnHow role model couples celebrate Qixi Festival?

Qixi Festival falls on the seventh day of the seventh lunar month. According to legend, it is a day when cowherd meets his beloved weaver girl on the bridge form by a flock of magpies. This day is also know as the Chinese Valentine day.

Someone once remarked: “The best role model couple with the least argument is the cowherd and the weaver girl. Distance breeds sweetness. When a couple gets to meet each other only once a year, they will be busy whispering loving words to each other and have no time for quarrels.” What was said sounded logical. As the ancient saying goes: “If only everyday life is similar to lovers meeting for the first time, life would be a bliss. It is easy to fall in love at first sight; however, it is extremely difficult to not grow tire of each other in the long run. When two people see each other every day, it is inevitable for conflict to arise and some may even long to get away from one another. Hence, it is advisable for couples to maintain their own personal space.

Language wise, refrain from using nasty words. Do not think that it is unnecessary to spare a thought for your spouse’s feelings because you are a family. To hurl hurtful words at one another will strain a relationship over time. Keeping an appropriate distance breeds respect and love and the couple may discover their spouse’s inherent positive attributes and treasure each other more. Husband detects his wife’s love and concern beneath her constant nags and wife recognizes the strength in her husband’s tactlessness. Always remember to ask after your spouse’s well being and be more generous in your praises.
A harmonious relationship between a husband and wife stabilizes a family and nourishes their children psychologically.

May all enjoy a Happy Valentine’s day on Qixi festival, lead a happy and sweet family life.

#QixiFestival, #ValentineDay, #HowRoleModelCouplesGetAlong

模範夫妻過七夕 . 農曆七月初七是中國傳統節日「七夕」， 是傳說中牛郎織女鵲橋相會的日子， 也被認為是中國的「情人節」。 . 曾有人說：「吵架最少的一對模範夫妻，就是牛郎織女，距離產生美，每年只能見一次面，說甜蜜話都來不及了，哪有時間吵架呢？」想想似乎真有點道理，古人云：人生若只如初見。乍見之歡容易，久處不厭卻是難上加難。天天膩在身邊，難免會產生厭倦、想逃離、去尋找所謂的自由。所以適當地保留各自空間，不失為夫妻長久相處的好辦法。 語言上，也要掌握不口出惡言的原則，不要以為「親人就無須見外了」，隨便講話、發洩傷人，也會在無形中消磨感情。適當的距離產生適當的尊重與美感，彼此便會更加珍惜，發現對方更多的優點，丈夫發現妻子絮叨裡充滿了關愛，妻子發現丈夫的粗枝大葉中充滿了力量感，任你再強的脾氣也禁不住幾句噓寒問暖、讚美鼓勵。和諧的夫妻關係，可以帶來家庭的安定與慰藉，還能帶給孩子心靈的滋養。 . 七夕節，祝福大家情人節快樂，願人人都能擁有美好與甜蜜的家庭生活。 . . #七夕、#情人節、#模範夫妻相處之道rnrnHow role model couples celebrate Qixi Festival? Qixi Festival falls on the seventh day of the seventh lunar month. According to legend, it is a day when cowherd meets his beloved weaver girl on the bridge form by a flock of magpies. This day is also know as the Chinese Valentine day. Someone once remarked: “The best role model couple with the least argument is the cowherd and the weaver girl. Distance breeds sweetness. When a couple gets to meet each other only once a year, they will be busy whispering loving words to each other and have no time for quarrels.” What was said sounded logical. As the ancient saying goes: “If only everyday life is similar to lovers meeting for the first time, life would be a bliss. It is easy to fall in love at first sight; however, it is extremely difficult to not grow tire of each other in the long run. When two people see each other every day, it is inevitable for conflict to arise and some may even long to get away from one another. Hence, it is advisable for couples to maintain their own personal space. Language wise, refrain from using nasty words. Do not think that it is unnecessary to spare a thought for your spouse’s feelings because you are a family. To hurl hurtful words at one another will strain a relationship over time. Keeping an appropriate distance breeds respect and love and the couple may discover their spouse’s inherent positive attributes and treasure each other more. Husband detects his wife’s love and concern beneath her constant nags and wife recognizes the strength in her husband’s tactlessness. Always remember to ask after your spouse’s well being and be more generous in your praises. A harmonious relationship between a husband and wife stabilizes a family and nourishes their children psychologically. May all enjoy a Happy Valentine’s day on Qixi festival, lead a happy and sweet family life. #QixiFestival, #ValentineDay, #HowRoleModelCouplesGetAlong

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限用塑膠吸管，已成世界潮流！ . 一般人…

限用塑膠吸管，已成世界潮流！
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一般人對吸管的印象就是：「取得方便，用完即丟。」很少人能想到這個小東西，會對我們的地球造成如此大的環境汙染！
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據西方環保團體研究，吸管對於海洋生物的危害已逐年上升，因為吸管是由不可再分解的塑膠去製造，隨著垃圾漂入海洋的結果，造成許多海洋生物誤食，不久前才有哥斯大黎加救援人員，從海龜鼻子中取出遭誤食的吸管，人類為了方便所造成的生態浩劫，其實是可以避免的。
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目前，在歐盟、英國、印度等地已開始有人注意到這問題，並且想出了替代方案，像是研發不同材質的吸管，例如：紙吸管、玻璃吸管，更有創意的還有義大利筆管麵吸管、竹製吸管等等。為了地球環境我們可以盡一份心力，最簡單的方法：就從生活中減少使用塑膠吸管開始吧！
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＃環保新知 ＃還給地球一個乾淨的海洋 ＃從小地方做起盡心力 ＃救救小海龜
來源: http://news.ltn.com.tw/news/world/breakingnews/2474718rnrnLimiting the use of plastic straws has become a trend in the world!

Generally, the first impression of plastic straws: 「Convenient since we can discard after use.」 Very few people are aware that something as small as straws can cause great environmental pollution.

According to a research conducted by Western environmental groups, the harmful effects caused by straws on marine organisms is on the rise in recent years. As straws are created by non-biodegradable plastic, when straws drifted into the ocean together with other rubbish, marine organisms mistakenly treated them as food and ingested them. Not long ago, Costa Rica rescuers extracted straws from sea turtles’ noses which resulted from their wrong feeding. In reality, humans’ desire for convenience have created an ecological catastrophe, which can be avoided.

Recently, many people in the European Union, England, India etc. have noted this problem and came up with alternative remedies, for instance, exploring straws made from different materials- paper straws, glass straws, what is even more creative is Italian penne straws, bamboo straws etc. To conserve our environment, we can make a conscious and simple effort by reducing the use of plastic straws in our daily lives!

#EnvironementalInformation, #ReturnACleanOceanToTheEarth, #TryOurBestFromSmallAspect, #SaveSeaTurtles
Source: http://news.ltn.com.tw/news/world/breakingnews/2474718

限用塑膠吸管，已成世界潮流！ . 一般人對吸管的印象就是：「取得方便，用完即丟。」很少人能想到這個小東西，會對我們的地球造成如此大的環境汙染！ . 據西方環保團體研究，吸管對於海洋生物的危害已逐年上升，因為吸管是由不可再分解的塑膠去製造，隨著垃圾漂入海洋的結果，造成許多海洋生物誤食，不久前才有哥斯大黎加救援人員，從海龜鼻子中取出遭誤食的吸管，人類為了方便所造成的生態浩劫，其實是可以避免的。 . 目前，在歐盟、英國、印度等地已開始有人注意到這問題，並且想出了替代方案，像是研發不同材質的吸管，例如：紙吸管、玻璃吸管，更有創意的還有義大利筆管麵吸管、竹製吸管等等。為了地球環境我們可以盡一份心力，最簡單的方法：就從生活中減少使用塑膠吸管開始吧！ . ＃環保新知 ＃還給地球一個乾淨的海洋 ＃從小地方做起盡心力 ＃救救小海龜 來源: http://news.ltn.com.tw/news/world/breakingnews/2474718rnrnLimiting the use of plastic straws has become a trend in the world! Generally, the first impression of plastic straws: 「Convenient since we can discard after use.」 Very few people are aware that something as small as straws can cause great environmental pollution. According to a research conducted by Western environmental groups, the harmful effects caused by straws on marine organisms is on the rise in recent years. As straws are created by non-biodegradable plastic, when straws drifted into the ocean together with other rubbish, marine organisms mistakenly treated them as food and ingested them. Not long ago, Costa Rica rescuers extracted straws from sea turtles’ noses which resulted from their wrong feeding. In reality, humans’ desire for convenience have created an ecological catastrophe, which can be avoided. Recently, many people in the European Union, England, India etc. have noted this problem and came up with alternative remedies, for instance, exploring straws made from different materials- paper straws, glass straws, what is even more creative is Italian penne straws, bamboo straws etc. To conserve our environment, we can make a conscious and simple effort by reducing the use of plastic straws in our daily lives! #EnvironementalInformation, #ReturnACleanOceanToTheEarth, #TryOurBestFromSmallAspect, #SaveSeaTurtles Source: http://news.ltn.com.tw/news/world/breakingnews/2474718

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你有這些教養孩子的煩心事嗎？ . 該不該…

你有這些教養孩子的煩心事嗎？
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該不該給孩子手機？
孩子不聽話怎麼辦？
孩子成績不理想是否要補習？
要怎麼做才能讓孩子知道你愛他？
而不是製造更多親子衝突與對立？
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如果您有以上的教養問題，本週六歡迎爸爸媽媽們帶著孩子一起來參與討論，希望能給您一點點啟發，也為孩子的成長助力引航。
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?歡迎分享，多傳多福！！ ?
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【全球各地網路同步共修時間】
1. 溫哥華/西雅圖/波特蘭/矽谷/舊金山/洛杉磯/聖地亞哥
北美太平洋時間：2018年08月17日 晚上06:00開始
2. 台北/北京/馬來西亞/新加坡/香港：
2018年08月18日 上午09:00開始
3. 多倫多/紐約/波士頓/華盛頓DC/邁阿密/亞特蘭大/奧蘭多：
北美東部時間：2018年08月17日 晚上09:00開始
4. 英國倫敦時間：2018年08月18日 凌晨01:00開始
5. 巴黎/柏林/巴塞羅那/斯德哥爾摩時間：2018年08月18日 凌晨03:00開始
6. 羅馬尼亞時間：2018年08月18日 凌晨04:00開始
7. 緬甸仰光時間：2018年08月18日 早上07:30開始
8. 印尼雅加達時間:2018年08月18日 早上08:00開始
9. 韓國首爾時間：2018年08月18日 上午10:00開始
10.澳大利亞墨爾本時間：2018年08月18日 上午11:00開始
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備註：各地禪堂一般共修時間為星期六上午９：００開始，欲前往各地禪堂參與共修者，請事先諮詢各地禪堂，以當地時間為主。

＃週六網路共修 ＃共修預告 ＃發現孩子 ＃親子教育
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Do you worry about how to teach your child?

Should I give my child a cell phone?
What do I do when my child doesn’t listen?
Should I enroll my child in tuition classes when his results are not ideal?
What can I do to let my child know that I love him?
How do I avoid more conflicts with my child?

If you face any of the above problems, I welcome you and your child to join me in our discussion. Hopefully, you can get some inspiration to better guide your child in his growth and development.

?Welcome to share; more sharing, more blessings!?

Online Global Group Practice Schedules:
1. Vancouver/Seattle/Portland/Silicon Valley/San Francisco/Los Angeles/San Diego
North American (Pacific Zone): Aug 17, 2018 at 06:00hrs
2. Taipei/Beijing/Malaysia/Singapore/Hong Kong:
Aug 18, 2018 at 09:00hrs
3. Toronto/New York/Boston/Washington DC/Miami/Atlanta/Orlando:
North America (Eastern Zone): Aug 17, 2018 at 21:00hrs
4. London (United Kingdom): Aug 18, 2018 at 01:00hrs
5. Paris/Berlin/Barcelona/Stockholm: Aug 18, 2018 at 03:00hrs
6. Romania: Aug 18, 2018 at 04:00hrs
7. Yangon (Myanmar): Aug 18, 2018 at 07:30hrs
8. Jakarta (Indonesia): Aug 18, 2018 at 08:00hrs
9. Seoul (South Korea): Aug 18, 2018 at 10:00hrs
10. Melbourne (Australia): Aug 18, 2018 at 11:00hrs

Note: The Global Group Practice on Saturday is typically scheduled at 9:00am at Bodhi Meditation centers. Interested participants and practitioners are advised to refer in advance to the operational hours of the local Bodhi Meditation center.

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