獲得幸福生活的靈丹妙藥！！（２０１７年７月２２日）
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想要擁有幸福甜蜜的婚姻，應該如何做？
我先說個故事給大家思考一下……
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有一對小夫妻一起來找我。太太說：「我要跟他離婚。」我問：「離婚怎麼跑我這兒來了？你們結婚證書也不是我發的。」這時，先生說：「她真要離，我也沒有辦法。到您這來問問您怎麼看？」其實，他們想離，但是心裡還是有點戀戀不捨，想找我給評評理。
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太太說：「他經常不洗澡、不刷牙，特別髒。我一天刷四五遍牙呢。」
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我說：「你每天閒著不工作，光刷牙？」
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先生說：「其實我也不想離，我也想包容她。有一次她做好了飯，問我好不好吃。我說還可以，但是下次能不能放鹽進去啊（原來菜裡沒放鹽）。第二天我下班回家，太太就煮了一碗麵自己在那吃。我問：『我的飯呢？』她說：『你不是嫌我做得不好吃嗎？』 太太從此不給我做飯吃，這一僵持就是一個月，之後矛盾就更加激化起來了。」
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我是覺得，第一、這個女弟子太挑剔了；第二、她太在乎自己了。請問：這樣的夫妻，能成為一對好夫妻嗎？做不成的，因為太在乎自己了，太我執了。遇上這樣的老婆或丈夫，生活一定是痛苦的。
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其實是很小的事情，卻激化出很多問題和矛盾。兩個人每天吵啊、打啊，最後鬧離婚。
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因此，想要擁有幸福甜蜜的婚姻，人與人之間是否應該多幾分寬容？
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本週六歡迎大家與我來聊聊，這每天都會在家中上演的鍋碗瓢盆交響曲，談談該如何才能奏出悅耳動聽的樂章！讓生活更美麗、更動聽，幸福又快樂！
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也歡迎大家把自己的經歷分享出來，大家相互學習與成長。
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【全球各地網路共修時間】
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臺北/北京/馬來西亞/新加坡 時間：
２０１７年７月２２日，上午９：００開始
２.韓國時間：２０１７年７月２２日，上午１０：００開始
３.北美東部時間：２０１７年７月２１日，晚上９：００開始
４.北美太平洋時間：２０１７年７月２１日，晚上６：００開始
５.澳洲墨爾本時間：２０１７年７月２２日，中午１１：００開始
６.印尼雅加達時間：２０１７年７月２２日，上午８：００開始
７.羅馬尼亞時間：２０１７年７月２２日，淩晨４：００開始
８.英國倫敦時間：２０１７年７月２２日，淩晨２：００開始
９.澳洲(悉尼)時間：２０１７年７月２２日，早上１１：００開始
１０.緬甸（仰光）時間：２０１７年７月２２日，早上７：３０開始
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備註：各地禪堂一般共修時間為星期六上午９：００開始，欲前往各地禪堂參與共修者，請事先諮詢各地禪堂，以當地時間為主。
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The elixir to a happily life!! (July 22, 2017)
How do we sustain a blissful and happy marriage?
Let me share with you a story to initiate some thoughts.
A young couple came to see me. The wife said: “I want to divorce him.” I asked: “What has it got to do with me? Your marriage certificate is not issued by me.” Hearing this, the husband said: ”If she really wanted a divorce, there is nothing I can do. So we came to seek your advice.” Although both of them wanted a divorce, deep in their hearts, they still have strong feelings for one another. They wanted me to evaluate who is right and who is wrong.
The wife complained: “He does not bother to bathe and brush his teeth regularly. He is so dirty. I brush my teeth four to five times a day.”
I retorted: “You have so much free time? Otherwise, how could you brush your teeth so often?”
The husband continued: “ Actually I do not want a divorce, I tried to accommodate her. Once, she cooked a meal and sought my comments. I merely told her the food was not too bad, and suggested that she add a little salt into the dish next time (apparently, she forgot to add salt). When I reached home after work next day, my wife was eating a bowl of noodles she had cooked for herself. When I asked her: “Where is my share?” She replied: “I thought you complained on my cooking?” Since that fateful day, she stopped cooking for me entirely. This cold war lasted for a month and subsequently the conflicts worsened.”
Personally, I felt this female disciple was too picky; secondly, she loved herself too much. What do you think? Can this couple get along well and enjoy a blissful marriage? Not likely since they cared too much about themselves and are too self-centered. With such spouse, life is bound to be torturous and full of suffering.
In reality, what started as a very small matter got blown out of proportion, which created problems and conflicts. They argued and quarreled daily and now they are contemplating a divorce.
If we want to enjoy a sweet and happy marriage, shouldn’t we show greater consideration towards our spouse and learn to be more tolerant?
I welcome you to join me this Saturday to discuss how can we transform daily squabbles at home into a symphony orchestra so that we enjoy a happier life! Feel free to share your personal experiences so that we can all learn from each other and progress together.
Online Global Group Practice Schedules:
1. Taipei/ Beijing/ Malaysia/ Singapore: July 22, 2017, at 9:00hrs
2. Korea: July 22, 2017, at 10:00hrs
3. North America (Eastern Zone): July 21, 2017 at 21:00hrs
4. North America (Pacific Zone): July 21, 2017 at 18:00hrs
5. Melbourne (Australia): July 22, 2017, at 11:00hrs
6. Jakarta (Indonesia): July 22, 2017, at 8:00hrs
7. Romania: July 22, 2017, at 4:00hrs
8. London (United Kingdom): July 22, 2017, at 2:00hrs
9. Sydney (Australia): July 22, 2017, at 11:00hrs
10. Yangon (Myanmar): July 22, 2017, at 07:30hrs
(Group practice generally starts at 9.00 a.m. in all Bodhi Meditation Centers. It is advisable to call your local center for confirmation.)
#OnlineGroupGlobalPracticeNotice, #TolerateWithCompassion ,#MasterJinBodhiTeachings, #CompassionAndTolerant, #RidDesireForGreed
#週六共修預告、#慈悲的包容、#金菩提宗師開示、#慈悲與寬容、#去貪執rnrn獲得幸福生活的靈丹妙藥！！（２０１７年７月２２日）
.
想要擁有幸福甜蜜的婚姻，應該如何做？
我先說個故事給大家思考一下……
.
有一對小夫妻一起來找我。太太說：「我要跟他離婚。」我問：「離婚怎麼跑我這兒來了？你們結婚證書也不是我發的。」這時，先生說：「她真要離，我也沒有辦法。到您這來問問您怎麼看？」其實，他們想離，但是心裡還是有點戀戀不捨，想找我給評評理。
.
太太說：「他經常不洗澡、不刷牙，特別髒。我一天刷四五遍牙呢。」
.
我說：「你每天閒著不工作，光刷牙？」
.
先生說：「其實我也不想離，我也想包容她。有一次她做好了飯，問我好不好吃。我說還可以，但是下次能不能放鹽進去啊（原來菜裡沒放鹽）。第二天我下班回家，太太就煮了一碗麵自己在那吃。我問：『我的飯呢？』她說：『你不是嫌我做得不好吃嗎？』 太太從此不給我做飯吃，這一僵持就是一個月，之後矛盾就更加激化起來了。」
.
我是覺得，第一、這個女弟子太挑剔了；第二、她太在乎自己了。請問：這樣的夫妻，能成為一對好夫妻嗎？做不成的，因為太在乎自己了，太我執了。遇上這樣的老婆或丈夫，生活一定是痛苦的。
.
其實是很小的事情，卻激化出很多問題和矛盾。兩個人每天吵啊、打啊，最後鬧離婚。
.
因此，想要擁有幸福甜蜜的婚姻，人與人之間是否應該多幾分寬容？
.
本週六歡迎大家與我來聊聊，這每天都會在家中上演的鍋碗瓢盆交響曲，談談該如何才能奏出悅耳動聽的樂章！讓生活更美麗、更動聽，幸福又快樂！
.
也歡迎大家把自己的經歷分享出來，大家相互學習與成長。
.
.
.
【全球各地網路共修時間】
.
臺北/北京/馬來西亞/新加坡 時間：
２０１７年７月２２日，上午９：００開始
２.韓國時間：２０１７年７月２２日，上午１０：００開始
３.北美東部時間：２０１７年７月２１日，晚上９：００開始
４.北美太平洋時間：２０１７年７月２１日，晚上６：００開始
５.澳洲墨爾本時間：２０１７年７月２２日，中午１１：００開始
６.印尼雅加達時間：２０１７年７月２２日，上午８：００開始
７.羅馬尼亞時間：２０１７年７月２２日，淩晨４：００開始
８.英國倫敦時間：２０１７年７月２２日，淩晨２：００開始
９.澳洲(悉尼)時間：２０１７年７月２２日，早上１１：００開始
１０.緬甸（仰光）時間：２０１７年７月２２日，早上７：３０開始
.
備註：各地禪堂一般共修時間為星期六上午９：００開始，欲前往各地禪堂參與共修者，請事先諮詢各地禪堂，以當地時間為主。
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The elixir to a happily life!! (July 22, 2017)
How do we sustain a blissful and happy marriage?
Let me share with you a story to initiate some thoughts.
A young couple came to see me. The wife said: “I want to divorce him.” I asked: “What has it got to do with me? Your marriage certificate is not issued by me.” Hearing this, the husband said: ”If she really wanted a divorce, there is nothing I can do. So we came to seek your advice.” Although both of them wanted a divorce, deep in their hearts, they still have strong feelings for one another. They wanted me to evaluate who is right and who is wrong.
The wife complained: “He does not bother to bathe and brush his teeth regularly. He is so dirty. I brush my teeth four to five times a day.”
I retorted: “You have so much free time? Otherwise, how could you brush your teeth so often?”
The husband continued: “ Actually I do not want a divorce, I tried to accommodate her. Once, she cooked a meal and sought my comments. I merely told her the food was not too bad, and suggested that she add a little salt into the dish next time (apparently, she forgot to add salt). When I reached home after work next day, my wife was eating a bowl of noodles she had cooked for herself. When I asked her: “Where is my share?” She replied: “I thought you complained on my cooking?” Since that fateful day, she stopped cooking for me entirely. This cold war lasted for a month and subsequently the conflicts worsened.”
Personally, I felt this female disciple was too picky; secondly, she loved herself too much. What do you think? Can this couple get along well and enjoy a blissful marriage? Not likely since they cared too much about themselves and are too self-centered. With such spouse, life is bound to be torturous and full of suffering.
In reality, what started as a very small matter got blown out of proportion, which created problems and conflicts. They argued and quarreled daily and now they are contemplating a divorce.
If we want to enjoy a sweet and happy marriage, shouldn’t we show greater consideration towards our spouse and learn to be more tolerant?
I welcome you to join me this Saturday to discuss how can we transform daily squabbles at home into a symphony orchestra so that we enjoy a happier life! Feel free to share your personal experiences so that we can all learn from each other and progress together.
Online Global Group Practice Schedules:
1. Taipei/ Beijing/ Malaysia/ Singapore: July 22, 2017, at 9:00hrs
2. Korea: July 22, 2017, at 10:00hrs
3. North America (Eastern Zone): July 21, 2017 at 21:00hrs
4. North America (Pacific Zone): July 21, 2017 at 18:00hrs
5. Melbourne (Australia): July 22, 2017, at 11:00hrs
6. Jakarta (Indonesia): July 22, 2017, at 8:00hrs
7. Romania: July 22, 2017, at 4:00hrs
8. London (United Kingdom): July 22, 2017, at 2:00hrs
9. Sydney (Australia): July 22, 2017, at 11:00hrs
10. Yangon (Myanmar): July 22, 2017, at 07:30hrs
(Group practice generally starts at 9.00 a.m. in all Bodhi Meditation Centers. It is advisable to call your local center for confirmation.)
#OnlineGroupGlobalPracticeNotice, #TolerateWithCompassion ,#MasterJinBodhiTeachings, #CompassionAndTolerant, #RidDesireForGreed
#週六共修預告、#慈悲的包容、#金菩提宗師開示、#慈悲與寬容、#去貪執
师父您好！相约周六！不见不散！想您！弟子顶礼叩拜！
师父好！期待周六听师父开示。感恩叩拜上师！！！
师父好! 如果另一方不懂得…How??
感恩師父，婚姻需要包容，理解和無私奉獻。
师父好！修行就是修正自己的行为，遇到具体做事情时，多为对方考虑，不要在乎自己的感受，师父说:“其实很小的事情，欲激化出很多的问题和矛盾，人与人之间应该多几分宽容”。顶礼感恩师父！
感恩师父慈悲开示！不管夫妻还是其他人遇事都要相互包容，不然就无法和解，容易产生嗔恨。弟子期待中……，顶礼叩拜师父！?❤???
感恩师父慈悲开示！幸福就是锅碗瓢盆交响曲！期待星期六的大加持！让生活更幸福美满！不做我执更包容爱护对方！?叩拜
感恩师父！期待师父的开示！开心ing!顶礼叩拜师父！！！
感恩师父！真实的修行，真正的慈悲是幸福生活的灵丹妙药，心中真正有了慈悲才能够宽容，才能够包容，人生才会有幸福！期待周六共修，聆听师父慈悲教化！
感恩师父，我觉得我做的欠妥，师父好像在说我
感恩師父慈悲分享提醒週六共修【獲得幸福生活的靈丹妙藥】！
师父好！真正修行的人，就应该包容对方，和容纳对方一切。用我们慈悲心去感化一切，弟子期待，感恩师父教化！
感恩师父开示！夫妻之间要相互包容和理解！如果总是挑剔对方，别说做夫妻了，连朋友也没得做。多看对方的长处和优点，这跟师傅父学佛后，感觉好多事情都想开了，不要总去看对方的错误，这个错误往往就是自己内心的化现，自己越是执着于哪方面就越会感觉对方的不好，而忽略了对方的长处，而自己有很多错误，自己却看不到，
师父好！想要拥有幸福甜蜜的婚姻，人与人之间应该多几分宽容。这周六弟子准时收看师父开示——谈谈这每天都会在家中上演的锅碗瓢盆交响曲，改如何才能奏出悦耳动听的乐章。感恩师父慈悲开示！
师父好！欢喜感恩期待周六恭迎师父慈悲开示！顶礼叩拜师父！恭祝师父吉祥如意！??????
师父好，感恩师父慈悲开示，感恩师父慈悲的教悔和关怀护佑，夫妻之间相互理解，相互帮助，慈悲包容对方才是幸福健康快乐生活的灵丹妙药，祝愿师父师母每天开心快乐，幸福吉祥，我们永远爱您师父，弟子感恩顶礼叩拜恩师。
师父好！期待周六共修，聆听师父开示！感恩师父！
要想获得幸福快乐的生活，人與人之間應該多幾分寬容；想要擁有幸福甜蜜的婚姻，夫妻之間更應該多幾分寬容。。。感恩师父！
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感恩师父开示！夫妻之间需要包容忍让关爱！期待师父周六的共修！
感恩师父慈悲开导、为人，夫妻相处幸福之道，期待着！
师父好，尽管生活中还是有些不尽人意，但总体说来还算幸福吧，师父啊，其实我是知道这一切都是师父的加持恩赐！期待感恩师父关于婚姻幸福生活的话题开示，弟子会准时恭候聆听！感恩师父为我们方方面面费心，弟子们都会越来越幸福！
感恩师父！我现在是一个比较大的家庭，全家十二口人住在一起。我们一家人非常的开心快乐。在这感恩师父教会我用笑声征服世界，用宽容心包容一切的真理，应用在现实生活当中就是密法中的妙法。顶礼叩拜根本上师！！！???
感恩师父分享！由师父分享的故事，我想到做人心胸要象大海一样能够容纳，与人相处，多想别人的好处。期待周六聆听师父的教诲！