慈悲的力量_上 . 您聽過慈悲能產生健康…

慈悲的力量_上
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您聽過慈悲能產生健康?
「慈悲」與「健康」,究竟有著甚麼樣的微妙關係呢?
慈悲還能帶給我們哪些益處?
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這三天,讓我們一起來說說慈悲的力量!
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#慈悲的力量_上、#慈悲的力量、#健康、#幸福、#快樂

The Power of Compassion – Part 1

Have you heard that compassion can bring health?
Compassion and Health, how are they related?
What benefits can we gain by being Compassionate?

Let us discuss about the power of compassion these three days!

#ThePowerOfCompassionPart1, #ThePowerOfCompassion, #Health, #Blessed, #Happiness


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【金菩提宗師_灶王爺系列】━仇人變朋友 …

【金菩提宗師_灶王爺系列】━仇人變朋友
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我們都聽過:「不是冤家不聚頭」
但是你聽過媽媽最大的仇人是自己的兒子?
「親情」是血溶於水至親至愛的關係,卻為何是彼此最大的仇人呢?
這是怎樣的情感糾葛所造成的?
又該如何化解呢?
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繼上集《灶王爺系列_婆媳關係私房妙招》,今天要來和大家一起聊聊,如何化解,在家庭中那份難以釐清,種種因愛生恨的情感問題!
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#金菩提宗師、#灶王爺系列、#仇人變朋友、#寬容、#幸福、#菩提供燈

【Grandmaster JinBodhi’s Kitchen God Series】
– Even Your Foe Can Become a Friend

There is a common saying ‘Destiny makes enemies meet.’
But have you ever heard that a mother’s greatest “enemy” is her own son?
How could the love for a child, which should be the closest and most affectionate bond, turn a son into the worst enemy?
What leads to this complex relationship and how should we resolve it?

Following the last episode, Tips for Mother & Daughter-in-law Relationship of Kitchen God Series, this time I would like to discuss how we can resolve the challenging issues in the family, and various types of emotional problems when love turns into animosity between family members!

#MasterJinBodhi, #KitchenGodSeries, #Tolerance, #Empathy, #Forgive, #Happiness, #LightOffering, #AFoeCanBecomeAFriend


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【金菩提宗師_灶王爺系列】 ━婆媳關係私…

【金菩提宗師_灶王爺系列】
━婆媳關係私房妙招
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從古至今,「婆媳關係」在家庭中,一直是個非常令人頭疼的課題。
處理得好,會讓你的婚姻生活更加幸福、美滿!
若處理不好,會給婚姻埋下一顆不定時炸彈。
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其實,婆媳關係,要想和諧相處,並沒有想像中的那麼難!
這個千古的難題,究竟有沒有方法可以解決呢?
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現在,歡迎和我一起來包餃子話家常!
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#金菩提宗師、#灶王爺系列、#婆媳關係私房妙招、#寬容、#幸福、#話家常

Grandmaster JinBodhi’s Kitchen God Series
– Tips for Mother & Daughter-in-law Relationship

Mother and daughter-in-law relationship has been such a difficult issue since ancient times until now. If it is properly handled, your married life will be much happier and more harmonious. If not, your marriage may face instabilities and be at risk in the future.

In fact, relationships between mother- and daughter-in-laws, and living in harmony are often not as difficult as we imagine!
Is there any way to resolve this age-old problem?

Now, join me. Let’s discuss about household matters while making some dumplings.

#MasterJinBodhi, #KitchenGodSeries, #TipsForMotherAndDaughter-In-LawRelationship, #Tolerance, #Happiness, #HouseholdMatters


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感恩,從身邊最親近的人開始! . 我們要…

感恩,從身邊最親近的人開始!
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我們要學會感恩,多想想對方給我們的恩情。
給對方多一點寬容、多一點愛;
少一點挖苦、少一點揭短。
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付出什麼,得到什麼!
學會「感恩」幸福就來了!!
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#金菩提禪語、#感恩、#幸福、#寬容

Expressing gratitude, begins with the people closest to us!

We have to learn to be thankful, and think of the kindness others have shown to us.
Be more tolerant and loving,
With less sarcasm and criticism.

You reap what you sow!
Learn to be grateful and happiness will come your way!

#AphorismFromMasterJinBodhi, #Gratitude, #Happiness, #Tolerance


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幸福從感恩開始 . 懂得感恩對方才能更幸…

幸福從感恩開始
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懂得感恩對方才能更幸福,這才是學佛的開始。
懂得了感恩,才會懂得尊重;懂得尊重,才會幸福。
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#金菩提禪語、#感恩、#幸福、#尊重

Happiness starts with gratitude

We will only be happy if we start to feel grateful in life. This marks the first lesson of Buddhist teachings.

We will only respect others if we are grateful in life and we will only experience happiness after we learn to respect others.

#AphorismFromMasterJinBodhi, #Gratitude, #Happiness, #Respect


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我是「為他好」?? . . 我是「為他好…

我是「為他好」??
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我是「為他好」,他為什麼總是不領情?
前陣子,有個同修來找我訴苦,說他的家人都不理解他,對他的付出完全不領情,他覺得明明是為他們好,為什麼家人總是不領情呢?他覺得又傷心又困擾,就來問我該怎麼解決?
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我問他:「你說你是為了家人好,是怎麼個好法呀?說來聽聽吧!」
他說:「我看爸媽年紀大了,身體沒以前靈活,就請了個傭人在家幫忙打理家事,可他們居然說不喜歡家裡有外人,還嫌說覺得傭人煮的飯菜不合口味!」
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我說:「你問過你爸媽的想法了嗎?」
他回:「沒有」

他又說:「有一次,我覺得太太的摩托車太老舊,就買了台汽車給她,把舊車牽去報廢了,可是太太居然嫌我多事,說她更喜歡那台破摩托車!」
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我說:「你問過你太太的想法了嗎?」
他回:「也沒有!」
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我問:「還有沒有別的?」
他說:「有啊!說到這我就生氣!我辛辛苦苦賺錢養家,就是為了要把孩子栽培成一個人上人,所以我讓女兒學鋼琴、小提琴、學跳舞、學畫畫;她功課不好,我每一科都給她請家教,又讓她上私立學校,每一步都幫她安排得好好的,可她卻一點都不領情,前幾天還跟我大小聲,說這些她都不喜歡,差點沒氣死我!」
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我問:「那你問過你女兒的想法嗎?」
他氣呼呼地說:「這哪裡需要問?她一個孩子懂什麼?我是為她好!」
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我告訴他:「你覺得你都是為他們好,但是你問過他們的意見了嗎?你確定你給的真的是他們要的嗎?我給你一個任務,回去問問他們到底想要什麼,下次看到我的時候給我說說。」
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最近,那個同修自己跑來跟我說:「師父,您說的對,我給的東西好像真的不是他們要的!」
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他說:「我問父母,他們說我與其請個傭人伺候他們,不如時常回老家看看、陪他們說說話。」;「我問太太,汽車到底哪裡不如摩托車?她說到菜市場買菜,開車沒地方停,還不如摩托車方便!」;「我又問女兒,她到底想要什麼?她說與其讓我拚上半條命賺錢讓她補習、學才藝,還不如假日的時候全家一起出去走走!」
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之後,我嘗試照著他們想要的去做,父母過得更開心了,太太更愛我了,女兒的成績也沒有因為經常全家出遊而退步,變得更活潑,也更好學了。果然給他們想要的,才是真的為他們好啊…」我點著頭笑笑,看她滿臉幸福的繼續說著。。。
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所以,當咱們在「為他好」的同時,不妨去了解一下別人到底需要什麼、想要什麼?將對對方的「愛」和「關心」,轉換成「同理心」和「換位思考」,如此一來不但少煩惱該為對方準備些什麼,也能讓別人感覺更舒服,因為這是融洽人與人之間關係的最佳潤滑劑。想營造和諧的人際關係就會非常容易了。

最後祝福大家: 生活更加順利、吉祥、幸福、快樂!
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I am “For His Sake”?

I am “For his sake”. Why does he not appreciate what I have been doing for him? Sometime back, a fellow practitioner came to me and lamented that his family members failed to understand his good intentions and did not appreciate his efforts. To him, it was obvious that whatever he had done was for their well being but yet they did not appreciate it. He felt sad and troubled and came to seek my advice on how to resolve the matter.

I asked him: “You told me what you had done was for your family’s sake. Can you share with me in what ways have you helped your family? ” He said: “I felt that my parents were old and not as agile, so I employed a domestic help to do the household chores for them. However, they told me that they did not like having an outsider at home. They also complained that the meals prepared by the domestic help were not to their liking.”

I asked, “Did you seek your parents’ opinion?”
He said: “No.”
And He then continued, “Once, I thought my wife’s motorcycle was too old and bought a car for her. I sent the old motorcycle to be scrapped. However, my wife felt that I was too meddlesome as she actually preferred the old motorcycle!”

I said, “Did you seek your wife’s opinion?”
He said: “No.”

I asked, “What else have you done for your family ?” He said, “Yes! I feel very agitated when talking about it! I worked hard to earn money to support my family. I hope to raise my kids into fine people. I therefore enrolled my daughter for piano, violin, dancing and drawing lessons. Since her school grades were poor , I engaged a private tutor for her for all her subjects. I even enrolled her into a private school. I have see to all her needs but she did not appreciate it at all. Just a few days ago, she was very rude when talking to me; she even told me that she did not like all the arrangements that I made for her. It really made me very mad!”

I asked, “Did you ever ask your daughter for her views?” He replied angrily. “Why should I ask? Being a child, what does she know? What I do is good for her !”

I told him: “You always think what you did for them is good for them , but did you ever seek their views? Are you sure that what you did for them is what they desire? I give you an assignment, you go back and ask them exactly what are their wishes and share them with me the next time you see me. ”

Recently, the fellow practitioner came to me and said, “Master, what you said to me is true; what I gave them was not what they wished to have!”

He said: “I asked my parents. They told me that they rather that I go back to their hometown more often to visit them rather than employ a domestic help for them. I asked my wife why she preferred a motor cycle to a car. She replied that, at the market, it is easier to find a place to park a motorcycle than a car. I asked my daughter what she really wanted. She said she prefers that I spend my time bringing the family for holidays rather than slog so hard in order to send her for tuition and learn other skills.

Thereafter, I tried to go along with their wishes. My parents are happier and my wife loves me even more. My daughter’s academic grades did not drop because of our frequent family trips; in fact she becomes more lively and keener to learn. It is indeed true that going along with their wishes is really doing them good … “. I nodded and smiled, noting his happy face as i continued to share. . .

Thus, when we are doing things “for their sake”, we should first try to understand other people’s need and desire. We should convert our love and care for others into “empathy” and “stepping into another’s shoes”. This will make it easier for us when planning what to do for others. Once we have their real interests at heart, it will be easier to communicate and build a better relationship.

Finally, I wish everyone a smooth sailing life, auspiciousness, joy and happiness!
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#ForHisSake, #PutYourselfInTheirShoes, #Empathy, #FamilyHarmony, #Happiness
#我是為他好、#換位思考、#同理心、#家庭幸福、#快樂


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走出黑暗幽谷,重見美麗藍天~ . 人生的…

走出黑暗幽谷,重見美麗藍天~
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人生的路上,我們需要不斷摸索和學習,就像一隻野兔在叢林中奔跑,跌跌撞撞,當你不小心掉入深谷了,你覺得生命沒有了希望、沒有了朋友、一切無法再面對了,此時的你,該如何跨越、重拾信心,奔向遼闊的草原?
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一起來看看馬來西亞_楊繼群的分享吧,看他是如何從可怕的幽谷,找到一線曙光、走出黑暗,看見廣闊而湛藍的天空?
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也許,只需要你一個小小的勇氣,生命從此就會不同。
也期待你的健康、你的改變,你的分享與見證。
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(註:禪修的效果會因人而異)
*菩提禪修不提倡自行停藥、減藥,請遵循醫囑
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Walk out of the dark secluded valley and regain sight of the beautiful blue sky ~
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The path of life is often filled with endless exploration and learning. Like a hare running in the jungle, we often stumble and fall. When you accidentally fall into a deep valley, you might feel that you have lost friends, and all hope in life. You will find it hard to face life. At times like that, how do you regain confidence to leap over the obstacles and run towards the vast grassland?
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Let us listen to the sharing of Jiqun Yang from Malaysia – a story of how he found a ray of light in the scary, secluded valley and walked out of darkness to regain sight of the vast blue sky.
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Perhaps, with a little bit of courage, you will be able to transform your life.
I look forward to hear you share about your transformation on how you regain your health.
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(Note: meditation results vary for each individual.)
*Bodhi Meditation does not advocate stopping or reducing dosage of medication on your own. Please follow advice from the doctor.
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#Depression, #Meditation, #Health, #Happiness, #MeditationJournal, #WalkingTowardsTheBrightness
#抑鬱症、#禪修、#健康、#快樂、#見證禪修、#走向光明


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「幸福家庭」其實可以很簡單~ . 所謂的…

「幸福家庭」其實可以很簡單~
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所謂的「幸福家庭」,是一日三餐的陪伴,
是聊不完的共同話題,是健康快樂,是其樂融融。
如此平實簡單而又真實的幸福,其實可以很簡單!
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看看來自於馬來西亞_梁建茀的故事分享吧!
希望能開啟您幸福家庭的大門。
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(註:禪修的效果會因人而異)
*菩提禪修不提倡自行停藥、減藥,請遵循醫囑
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[Happy family life] can be easily attainable….
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A happy family life can be as simple as having the companionship of our family members to enjoy our meals together; with endless of topics to chat about, and to be blessed with a healthy body. This simple and yet real happiness is actually easily attainable!
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Let us listen to the sharing of Liang Jianfu from Malaysia!
Hopefully this can help you open the door to a happy family life.
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(Note: Effect of meditation varies according to individuals)
*Bodhi Meditation does not encourage stopping and reducing medicine without consulting a doctor.
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#HappyFamilyLife, #LiangJianFu, #Meditation, #Healthy, #Happiness, #LiveTestimonial, #Companionship
#幸福家庭、#梁建茀、#禪修、#健康、#快樂、#見證禪修、#陪伴


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祝福大家,西洋情人節快樂! . 2月14…

祝福大家,西洋情人節快樂!
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2月14日是浪漫的西洋情人節,也是一個值得珍惜的日子。
珍惜,始終如一陪伴在你身旁的那個人…
珍惜,老愛陪你打打鬧鬧,使你不至於覺得孤單的那個人。
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想想,兩個人開始在一起的時候,對方幫你買頓宵夜或早餐,你都會感動的拍照上傳,後來,對方給妳的照顧,每日的噓寒問暖,竟成了一種習慣。
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他為你做的任何一件事,習慣成自然,甚至成了理所當然,就會忘了珍惜身邊,最有熱度且溫暖的一顆心,因為,能遇見願意為你付出的人真的非常不容易。
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學會珍惜,才能享受到那份最單純的幸福!!
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想學習更多,關於如何獲得幸福的方法嗎?
請點擊?【愛情問答系列】—幸福的金鑰匙?

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Happy Valentine’s Day to all of you!
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February 14 is the day of romance in the Gregorian calendar – Valentine’s Day. It is also a day to be treasured.
Treasure the one who has remained at your side through it all…
Treasure the one who loves to wrangle and quibble with you so that you would never feel alone.
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Think about the time when you first started dating – you were so touched when your partner brought you supper or breakfast that you took a picture and uploaded it to social media immediately. But somewhere along the way, you take for granted the care and concern that your partner shower on you every day.
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Every single thing that your partner does for you has become something that you expect. You have forgotten to treasure the person that is closest to you. Please remember that it is really not easy to meet someone who is willing to be give selflessly to you. Treasure it.
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Learn to treasure what you have, and you will enjoy the simplest and purest joy!!

To learn more about the ways to attain happiness, click here ? “Q&A Series of Love” – The Golden Key to Happiness ?

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#Valentine’sDay, #Warmth, #Happiness, #Treasure, #GoldenKeyToHappiness
#西洋情人節、 #溫暖、 #幸福、 #珍惜 、#幸福的金鑰匙


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新春_回家過年啦~ . . 對中國人來說…

新春_回家過年啦~
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對中國人來說,過年就是回家!因為..
家.是兒時幸福的港灣!
家.是餐餐好吃的菜餚!
家.是讓人放鬆的休閒會館!
家.是生命中最溫暖的懷抱!
家.是每個人內心深處,最遺忘不了的地方!
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因為,那裡有「愛」的滋潤、澆灌著我們成長與茁壯!!
是「家」给了我們希望與夢想,他给了我們一雙自由飛翔的翅膀。
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華人的情感表達,向來含蓄而内斂,無論子女在外做什麼,父母都會默默支持,只願兒女們事業有成,順利、健康、平安的,即便是一年見不到一面,偶兒聽見孩子的聲音,就會開心個好幾天。
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所以,無論你的夢想是什麼?各自飛翔到了何方?
要記得,一生的愛唯有「家」,「家」才是我們幸福的港灣。
快回家吧,爸爸媽媽還在等著你呢。。。
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在這個充滿吉祥的日子裡,如果能帶著他們,一起來到禪堂這個大家庭,在佛前為他們「點燈祈福」為他們點燃一柱清香祝禱:祝福父親、母親的身體吉祥、健康、無病無災、長壽健康。因為,唯有父母親身體健康了,快樂了,就是一家子最珍貴的禮物呢。
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祝福大家:
新年吉祥如意!願佛力給予大家滿滿的加持,為自己、為父母、也為來年迎來好運氣。
健康、長壽、幸福、快樂!
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#新春、#回家過年啦、#善良的意念、#吉祥、#幸福、#長壽、#闔家平安、#好運旺旺來
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Spring Festival – It is time to go home for Chinese New Year celebration~

Home is our blissful and happy haven!
Home is a place for mum’s delicious and tasty cooking!
Home is a place of leisure to unwind and rest
Home provides us with warm embrace!
Home holds an unforgettable place in our hearts!

Home is the source of nourishing love, it waters our growth so that we flourish and become sturdy and strong!!
Home is the source of our hopes and dreams, it nurtures and provides us with a pair of soaring wings.

The Chinese has always been more subtle and restraint when it comes to expressing love, affection, care and concern for each other. Parents would quietly support their children in all their endeavors.I Their only wish is for their children to lead a smooth, healthy and safe life and attain career success. Even if they did not see their children for the whole year, they feel happy and contented just by listening to their children’s voice and this happiness lasts for days.

Hence, regardless of your dream, where will you go?
Always remember, our life’s primary love can be found only in our home, home is our happy haven.
Go home quickly, mum and dad are waiting for you…

If possible, please bring your parents to Bodhi Meditation on this auspicious festival to offer a light or venerate before the Buddha to seek blessings for them or light an incense to wish them longevity. May our parents be blessed with auspiciousness, great health, longevity and be free from illnesses and calamities. Our parents’ health and happiness is the most precious gift.

May all:
Enjoy an auspicious Spring Festival! May Buddha and Bodhisattvas shower everyone with bountiful blessings, let us all usher in good luck and fortune for ourselves and our parents.
Blessings of good health, longevity and happiness!

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