分類: 金菩提宗師 Grandmaster JinBodhi

孝親月
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長久以來，農曆七月一直被人們認為是「鬼節」，是個不吉祥且「諸事不宜」的月份。事實上七月是孝親、報恩、祈福、修善的「吉祥月」和「孝親月」。
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「盂蘭盆法會」，緣起於佛陀時代的「目犍連尊者」在禪定中，看見自己的母親在地獄受苦，他一念孝親，為了救度母親出苦，請示佛陀而廣設供僧法會。這一天，也是僧侶結夏安居的圓滿日，也叫做「佛歡喜日」，從皇帝到普通大眾，都來供養佛教的修行人，恭喜祝賀他們獲得了圓滿覺悟。
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這個節日裡我給大家幾點建議：
1.多吃素
2.不說髒話、不罵人。
3.懷念自己的祖宗、恩人，尤其是對父母的養育之恩。
4.配戴高僧加持過的寶珠、聖物。(例如:天珠、大黑天吉祥卡等…)
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希望大家趁著這個吉祥的「佛歡喜日」，在「孝親月」這個月份中多做一點兒功德，並且多多孝敬生養我們的父親、母親，有空就回家多陪陪他們，也為先祖們點燃一盞光明燈，為他們送去吉祥與光明，願他們都能得到佛菩薩的加持與接引，使子孫後代獲得吉祥平安。
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#盂蘭盆法會直播、#孝親月、#吃素
#懷念祖先、#佛歡喜日、#供僧大會

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您有「宅」在家的孩子嗎？
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我有一個老朋友，他年紀挺大了，但時常愁眉苦臉。有一次我終於忍不住問他：「你在煩惱些什麼呀？怎麼每天唉聲嘆氣？」
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他說：「師父，我的獨子前幾年還在大公司工作，但也不知道怎麼回事，去年開始，他辭了工作，每天『宅』在他自己的公寓裡頭，不外出工作也不和人交際。我和太太想了很多辦法想讓他出門找工作，卻沒想到，他竟然嫌我們煩，最近連家都不回了！他才三十多歲就這個樣子，再這樣下去該怎麼辦才好？」
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我說：「你有沒有問過他，辭掉工作『宅』在家裡的原因是什麼？先弄清楚吧！」
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沒多久他又來找我，這次心情好多了，他說：「師父，上回和您聊完之後，我去找兒子徹夜長談。我發現，他不是整天『宅』在家什麼都不做，而是因為自己有了生涯規劃，所以才從公司離職。現在，他在家工作接案子，雖然更忙，但也比以前更快樂了。聽到兒子這樣說，我跟太太才放心下來，原來是我們誤解了！」
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很多父母看到孩子整天「宅」在家，就誤以為孩子一定是不務正業，但其實不是這樣的。時代在變，現在很多年輕人的工作型態就是「在家工作」，這是一種新型態的工作方式。就算真的很擔心孩子，也別什麼都不問就自己亂猜，可以好好和他們溝通，並一起找到解決方法。最後，祝所有的親子之間都能溝通順利！
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#親子關係、#宅在家、#新思維、#溝通rnrnDo you have a child who just likes to stay at home?

I have an old friend who is quite advanced in age but he often frowns. Once, I finally could not help it anymore and asked him, “What are you upset about? Why do you keep sighing?”

He said, “Master, my only son has been working in a large company for a few years but he quit his job last year and I do not know why. Since then, he has been staying in his apartment and has not been looking for jobs or making any social interactions. My wife and I came up with a lot of ideas to let him go out and find a job. However, he thinks we are a nuisance. Now, he even stops coming back home! He is only in his thirties. If he carries on like this, what is going to happen to him?”

I said, “Have you ever asked him why he quit his job and chose to stay at home?”
He said, “I did not ask him but I really think that he cannot remain this way!”

I said, “You have been worrying non-stop when you have not even found out the reasons for his decision. Maybe your child has his own ideas and plans! You should go and find out the reasons from him and then come back and seek solutions.”

It did not take long for him to come to me again. This time round, he was in a much better mood. He said, “Master, after talking to you the other day, I went to have a long talk with my son. Our conversation stretched through the night. I found out that he was not lazing around at home doing nothing. He has a new career plan and hence decided to quit his job. He now works from home. Though he is busier with work he is happier than ever before. After knowing his ideas and plans, my wife and I were relieved. We have misunderstood him!”

Many parents, after seeing their children choosing to stay at home instead will think that they have no ambition in life. But this is not the case. Times are changing and “working from home” is the work style of many young people today. It is a new way of working. Do not jump to conclusion and always communicate with them and help them find a solution together. Lastly, I wish there will be good communication between all parents and their children.

#ParentChildRelationship, #StayAtHome, #NewStyleOfThinking, #Communication

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孩子們，一起走入自然吧！
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現在的孩子受到科技的影響，幾乎是人手一支手機，沒事就「滑」兩下，這在現代社會中是無可避免的事情。但是，偶爾放下這些科技化的產品，走入自然山水之間，去感受陽光、微風、樹木、岩石和星空，其實也是很棒的事情！
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#菩提禪修青年領袖營、#健康、#戶外體驗、#露營
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