【八卦內功問答Q&A】基礎篇 . 全球第…

【八卦內功問答Q&A】基礎篇
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全球第一家八卦中心在溫哥華正式開業了。
「八卦內功」它能有效幫助人們獲得健康、長壽、快樂。
在這兒,我也特別給「八卦內功」學員,回答學習走「八卦內功」可能會遇到的相關問題。。。
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也歡迎大家踴躍提問…
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?‍♀Q1.為什麼圍繞著樹走「八卦」?
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我們圍著一棵樹走,首先是為了走圓形;第二是因為樹是生命,我們愛護自然及樹本身,等於是用樹來代表自然。
.
樹是自然當中一個最常見、最真實的生命呈現,通過樹,我們可以與整個自然溝通。所以我引導大家走「八卦」的引導詞是「我即是樹,樹即是我,我就是自然,自然就是我」。
.
我們圍著樹繞圈,是對自然心懷感恩、愛與慈悲,因為我們來自於自然,因為我們愛這個世界。
.
.
?‍♂Q2.修練「八卦內功」時的心態是怎樣的?
.
「八卦內功」出於中國古老的修練術,修練的時候,動作、口訣、心態都保持在一種非常輕鬆、自在、善良、放鬆的狀態。
.
走得好的弟子會心無旁騖、心無掛礙,融於山川大地──「我是清風,我是陽光,我是甘露,我是小草,我是空氣,無所不在。」達到一種回歸了整個自然的感覺。此外,通過走的過程,還能達到一種空靈的境界,沒有了自己,進入禪定,無思維、無意識、無知覺、無眼耳鼻舌身意、無色聲香味觸法。
.
每一次的收功式也特別重要,心裡要有一種慈悲溫和的感覺。輕輕地搓搓手,搓手的時候,手是很柔和的;之後輕輕地搓臉,越輕效果越好。
.
正宗的做法是:手不接觸皮膚。過程中,也可以心存美好的想法,比如觀想自己的眼睛、皮膚、頭髮變成7歲的眼睛、7歲的皮膚、7歲的頭髮……。
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?‍♀Q3. 走「八卦」時,如何做到「上頂下扎」?
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說到「上頂下扎」,首先要講「氣沉丹田」的「氣」。
.
「氣」是指一種綜合的能量的感覺,像霧、像雲、像呼吸的氣這種朦朧的意識,我們隱隱感覺或希望它是一股能量。當這股能量沉到我們的丹田,即下腹部的位置時,覺得扎實了,再同時通過身體的內部,向上頂上去。
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至於說通過內部哪裡?如果將身體看作一個水桶,則沒有走哪個特定的管道或穴位,只是順著水桶向上頂,頂到頭上大約三尺的空間,感覺就好像有個板子頂住了,就到這裡為止了。不需要用尺子量,因為它沒有固定的長度,而是你觀想出的一股能量。
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那「下扎」呢? 同樣地,將身體想像成水桶,「氣」通過身體,也通過了腿,一大股能量通到地下三尺,貫通了全身。一旦你的身體受益了,就會知道這個觀想起作用了。
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#八卦內功、#生命能量、#禪修與健康35、#問答

[Energy Bagua Q&A] Basic Questions

The world’s first Energy Bagua Wellness Center officially opened in Vancouver. The practice of Energy Bagua is very effective in helping the practitioners gain good health, longevity and happiness. Here, I have prepared the answers to many common questions that students may face when learning Energy Bagua.
You are also welcome to ask questions…

Q1. Why do we walk around a tree when practicing Energy Bagua?
First, by walking around a tree we are actually walking in a circle. Second, tree is a living form; we love nature and the tree itself and the tree represents nature.
Trees are one of the most common and authentic life presents in nature, and through trees we can communicate with the whole nature. So the guiding phrase in Energy Bagua is “I am the tree, the tree is me. I am one with nature.”
We circle around the tree because our hearts are filled with gratitude, love and compassion towards nature. We come from nature and we love this world.

Q2. What is my state of mind while practicing Energy Bagua?
“Energy Bagua” is derived from an ancient Chinese practice. During the practice, your actions, recitations and mind should remain in a very relaxed, comfortable, kind and peaceful state.
A well-practiced disciple will be very focused, undistracted and feel one with the mountains and rivers – “I am the breeze, I am the sun, I am the dew, I am the grass, I am the air, I am everywhere.” A state where one is return to nature.
As you reach state of emptiness in which there is no sense of self, you have entered a meditative state bereft of thoughts, consciousness and understanding. No eye, ear, nose, tongue, body, mind; no forms, sounds, smells, tastes, touches or objects of Dharma.
The closing exercises are also particularly important and should be practiced with a sense of compassion and warmth in your heart. As you rub your hands together, your hands are soft; as you run your hands over your face, keep your touch light so as to get better results.
The right method is: the hands do not touch the skin. In the process, you should have good thoughts, such as visualizing that your eyes, skin and hair are as they were when you were 7 years old…

Q3. What does it mean to “allow energy flowing from the top of your head to your toes”?

To understand this, we need first talk about how we allow “Qi” to settle down in the lower abdomen.
“Qi” refers to a sense of integrated energy, like fog, clouds, or breathing gas in our hazy consciousness. When this energy settles to our “dantian”, the position of the lower abdomen, we can sense its form before it continues to move inside the body and up to the top.
So which parts of the body does this energy pass through? If we use the analogy of a bucket to represent the body and the water to represent the energy, think of the water rising to the top and then continuing beyond to about three feet above the head. The water will not rise beyond this point as there is an invisible barrier blocking its path.
You don’t need to use a ruler, because it doesn’t have a fixed length, it’s an energy you think of.
What about the flow of energy through to your toes? Again, think of the body as a bucket and water as the energy.
What about the flow of the energy through the feet? Again, think of the body as a bucket and water as the energy. The water will go through the body to the legs and continuing to flow to a point about three feet underground. As it flows, it clears the blockages in your body. How will you know whether your visualizing is working? You will know when your health has benefit from the practice.

#EnergyBagua, #EnergyOfLife, #MeditationAndHealth35, #QuestionAndAnswerrnrn【八卦內功問答Q&A】基礎篇
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全球第一家八卦中心在溫哥華正式開業了。
「八卦內功」它能有效幫助人們獲得健康、長壽、快樂。
在這兒,我也特別給「八卦內功」學員,回答學習走「八卦內功」可能會遇到的相關問題。。。
.
也歡迎大家踴躍提問…
.
?‍♀Q1.為什麼圍繞著樹走「八卦」?
.
我們圍著一棵樹走,首先是為了走圓形;第二是因為樹是生命,我們愛護自然及樹本身,等於是用樹來代表自然。
.
樹是自然當中一個最常見、最真實的生命呈現,通過樹,我們可以與整個自然溝通。所以我引導大家走「八卦」的引導詞是「我即是樹,樹即是我,我就是自然,自然就是我」。
.
我們圍著樹繞圈,是對自然心懷感恩、愛與慈悲,因為我們來自於自然,因為我們愛這個世界。
.
.
?‍♂Q2.修練「八卦內功」時的心態是怎樣的?
.
「八卦內功」出於中國古老的修練術,修練的時候,動作、口訣、心態都保持在一種非常輕鬆、自在、善良、放鬆的狀態。
.
走得好的弟子會心無旁騖、心無掛礙,融於山川大地──「我是清風,我是陽光,我是甘露,我是小草,我是空氣,無所不在。」達到一種回歸了整個自然的感覺。此外,通過走的過程,還能達到一種空靈的境界,沒有了自己,進入禪定,無思維、無意識、無知覺、無眼耳鼻舌身意、無色聲香味觸法。
.
每一次的收功式也特別重要,心裡要有一種慈悲溫和的感覺。輕輕地搓搓手,搓手的時候,手是很柔和的;之後輕輕地搓臉,越輕效果越好。
.
正宗的做法是:手不接觸皮膚。過程中,也可以心存美好的想法,比如觀想自己的眼睛、皮膚、頭髮變成7歲的眼睛、7歲的皮膚、7歲的頭髮……。
.
.
?‍♀Q3. 走「八卦」時,如何做到「上頂下扎」?
.
說到「上頂下扎」,首先要講「氣沉丹田」的「氣」。
.
「氣」是指一種綜合的能量的感覺,像霧、像雲、像呼吸的氣這種朦朧的意識,我們隱隱感覺或希望它是一股能量。當這股能量沉到我們的丹田,即下腹部的位置時,覺得扎實了,再同時通過身體的內部,向上頂上去。
.
至於說通過內部哪裡?如果將身體看作一個水桶,則沒有走哪個特定的管道或穴位,只是順著水桶向上頂,頂到頭上大約三尺的空間,感覺就好像有個板子頂住了,就到這裡為止了。不需要用尺子量,因為它沒有固定的長度,而是你觀想出的一股能量。
.
那「下扎」呢? 同樣地,將身體想像成水桶,「氣」通過身體,也通過了腿,一大股能量通到地下三尺,貫通了全身。一旦你的身體受益了,就會知道這個觀想起作用了。
.
.
#八卦內功、#生命能量、#禪修與健康35、#問答

[Energy Bagua Q&A] Basic Questions

The world’s first Energy Bagua Wellness Center officially opened in Vancouver. The practice of Energy Bagua is very effective in helping the practitioners gain good health, longevity and happiness. Here, I have prepared the answers to many common questions that students may face when learning Energy Bagua.
You are also welcome to ask questions…

Q1. Why do we walk around a tree when practicing Energy Bagua?
First, by walking around a tree we are actually walking in a circle. Second, tree is a living form; we love nature and the tree itself and the tree represents nature.
Trees are one of the most common and authentic life presents in nature, and through trees we can communicate with the whole nature. So the guiding phrase in Energy Bagua is “I am the tree, the tree is me. I am one with nature.”
We circle around the tree because our hearts are filled with gratitude, love and compassion towards nature. We come from nature and we love this world.

Q2. What is my state of mind while practicing Energy Bagua?
“Energy Bagua” is derived from an ancient Chinese practice. During the practice, your actions, recitations and mind should remain in a very relaxed, comfortable, kind and peaceful state.
A well-practiced disciple will be very focused, undistracted and feel one with the mountains and rivers – “I am the breeze, I am the sun, I am the dew, I am the grass, I am the air, I am everywhere.” A state where one is return to nature.
As you reach state of emptiness in which there is no sense of self, you have entered a meditative state bereft of thoughts, consciousness and understanding. No eye, ear, nose, tongue, body, mind; no forms, sounds, smells, tastes, touches or objects of Dharma.
The closing exercises are also particularly important and should be practiced with a sense of compassion and warmth in your heart. As you rub your hands together, your hands are soft; as you run your hands over your face, keep your touch light so as to get better results.
The right method is: the hands do not touch the skin. In the process, you should have good thoughts, such as visualizing that your eyes, skin and hair are as they were when you were 7 years old…

Q3. What does it mean to “allow energy flowing from the top of your head to your toes”?

To understand this, we need first talk about how we allow “Qi” to settle down in the lower abdomen.
“Qi” refers to a sense of integrated energy, like fog, clouds, or breathing gas in our hazy consciousness. When this energy settles to our “dantian”, the position of the lower abdomen, we can sense its form before it continues to move inside the body and up to the top.
So which parts of the body does this energy pass through? If we use the analogy of a bucket to represent the body and the water to represent the energy, think of the water rising to the top and then continuing beyond to about three feet above the head. The water will not rise beyond this point as there is an invisible barrier blocking its path.
You don’t need to use a ruler, because it doesn’t have a fixed length, it’s an energy you think of.
What about the flow of energy through to your toes? Again, think of the body as a bucket and water as the energy.
What about the flow of the energy through the feet? Again, think of the body as a bucket and water as the energy. The water will go through the body to the legs and continuing to flow to a point about three feet underground. As it flows, it clears the blockages in your body. How will you know whether your visualizing is working? You will know when your health has benefit from the practice.

#EnergyBagua, #EnergyOfLife, #MeditationAndHealth35, #QuestionAndAnswer

【八卦內功問答Q&A】基礎篇
.
全球第一家八卦中心在溫哥華正式開業了。
「八卦內功」它能有效幫助人們獲得健康、長壽、快樂。
在這兒,我也特別給「八卦內功」學員,回答學習走「八卦內功」可能會遇到的相關問題。。。
.
也歡迎大家踴躍提問...
.
?‍♀Q1.為什麼圍繞著樹走「八卦」?
.
我們圍著一棵樹走,首先是為了走圓形;第二是因為樹是生命,我們愛護自然及樹本身,等於是用樹來代表自然。
.
樹是自然當中一個最常見、最真實的生命呈現,通過樹,我們可以與整個自然溝通。所以我引導大家走「八卦」的引導詞是「我即是樹,樹即是我,我就是自然,自然就是我」。
.
我們圍著樹繞圈,是對自然心懷感恩、愛與慈悲,因為我們來自於自然,因為我們愛這個世界。
.
.
?‍♂Q2.修練「八卦內功」時的心態是怎樣的?
.
「八卦內功」出於中國古老的修練術,修練的時候,動作、口訣、心態都保持在一種非常輕鬆、自在、善良、放鬆的狀態。
.
走得好的弟子會心無旁騖、心無掛礙,融於山川大地──「我是清風,我是陽光,我是甘露,我是小草,我是空氣,無所不在。」達到一種回歸了整個自然的感覺。此外,通過走的過程,還能達到一種空靈的境界,沒有了自己,進入禪定,無思維、無意識、無知覺、無眼耳鼻舌身意、無色聲香味觸法。
.
每一次的收功式也特別重要,心裡要有一種慈悲溫和的感覺。輕輕地搓搓手,搓手的時候,手是很柔和的;之後輕輕地搓臉,越輕效果越好。
.
正宗的做法是:手不接觸皮膚。過程中,也可以心存美好的想法,比如觀想自己的眼睛、皮膚、頭髮變成7歲的眼睛、7歲的皮膚、7歲的頭髮……。
.
.
?‍♀Q3. 走「八卦」時,如何做到「上頂下扎」?
.
說到「上頂下扎」,首先要講「氣沉丹田」的「氣」。
.
「氣」是指一種綜合的能量的感覺,像霧、像雲、像呼吸的氣這種朦朧的意識,我們隱隱感覺或希望它是一股能量。當這股能量沉到我們的丹田,即下腹部的位置時,覺得扎實了,再同時通過身體的內部,向上頂上去。
.
至於說通過內部哪裡?如果將身體看作一個水桶,則沒有走哪個特定的管道或穴位,只是順著水桶向上頂,頂到頭上大約三尺的空間,感覺就好像有個板子頂住了,就到這裡為止了。不需要用尺子量,因為它沒有固定的長度,而是你觀想出的一股能量。
.
那「下扎」呢? 同樣地,將身體想像成水桶,「氣」通過身體,也通過了腿,一大股能量通到地下三尺,貫通了全身。一旦你的身體受益了,就會知道這個觀想起作用了。
.
.
#八卦內功、#生命能量、#禪修與健康35、#問答
 
 [Energy Bagua Q&A] Basic Questions
 
The world’s first Energy Bagua Wellness Center officially opened in Vancouver. The practice of Energy Bagua is very effective in helping the practitioners gain good health, longevity and happiness. Here, I have prepared the answers to many common questions that students may face when learning Energy Bagua. 
You are also welcome to ask questions…
  
Q1. Why do we walk around a tree when practicing Energy Bagua?
First, by walking around a tree we are actually walking in a circle. Second, tree is a living form; we love nature and the tree itself and the tree represents nature. 
Trees are one of the most common and authentic life presents in nature, and through trees we can communicate with the whole nature. So the guiding phrase in Energy Bagua is “I am the tree, the tree is me. I am one with nature.”
We circle around the tree because our hearts are filled with gratitude, love and compassion towards nature. We come from nature and we love this world. 
  
Q2. What is my state of mind while practicing Energy Bagua? 
“Energy Bagua” is derived from an ancient Chinese practice. During the practice, your actions, recitations and mind should remain in a very relaxed, comfortable, kind and peaceful state. 
A well-practiced disciple will be very focused, undistracted and feel one with the mountains and rivers – “I am the breeze, I am the sun, I am the dew, I am the grass, I am the air, I am everywhere.” A state where one is return to nature. 
As you reach state of emptiness in which there is no sense of self, you have entered a meditative state bereft of thoughts, consciousness and understanding. No eye, ear, nose, tongue, body, mind; no forms, sounds, smells, tastes, touches or objects of Dharma. 
The closing exercises are also particularly important and should be practiced with a sense of compassion and warmth in your heart. As you rub your hands together, your hands are soft; as you run your hands over your face, keep your touch light so as to get better results.   
The right method is: the hands do not touch the skin. In the process, you should have good thoughts, such as visualizing that your eyes, skin and hair are as they were when you were 7 years old… 
 
Q3. What does it mean to “allow energy flowing from the top of your head to your toes”?
 
To understand this, we need first talk about how we allow “Qi” to settle down in the lower abdomen. 
“Qi” refers to a sense of integrated energy, like fog, clouds, or breathing gas in our hazy consciousness. When this energy settles to our “dantian”, the position of the lower abdomen, we can sense its form before it continues to move inside the body and up to the top. 
So which parts of the body does this energy pass through? If we use the analogy of a bucket to represent the body and the water to represent the energy, think of the water rising to the top and then continuing beyond to about three feet above the head. The water will not rise beyond this point as there is an invisible barrier blocking its path.
You don't need to use a ruler, because it doesn't have a fixed length, it's an energy you think of.
What about the flow of energy through to your toes? Again, think of the body as a bucket and water as the energy. 
What about the flow of the energy through the feet? Again, think of the body as a bucket and water as the energy. The water will go through the body to the legs and continuing to flow to a point about three feet underground. As it flows, it clears the blockages in your body. How will you know whether your visualizing is working? You will know when your health has benefit from the practice. 
 
#EnergyBagua,  #EnergyOfLife,  #MeditationAndHealth35,  #QuestionAndAnswerrnrn【八卦內功問答Q&A】基礎篇
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全球第一家八卦中心在溫哥華正式開業了。
「八卦內功」它能有效幫助人們獲得健康、長壽、快樂。
在這兒,我也特別給「八卦內功」學員,回答學習走「八卦內功」可能會遇到的相關問題。。。
.
也歡迎大家踴躍提問...
.
?‍♀Q1.為什麼圍繞著樹走「八卦」?
.
我們圍著一棵樹走,首先是為了走圓形;第二是因為樹是生命,我們愛護自然及樹本身,等於是用樹來代表自然。
.
樹是自然當中一個最常見、最真實的生命呈現,通過樹,我們可以與整個自然溝通。所以我引導大家走「八卦」的引導詞是「我即是樹,樹即是我,我就是自然,自然就是我」。
.
我們圍著樹繞圈,是對自然心懷感恩、愛與慈悲,因為我們來自於自然,因為我們愛這個世界。
.
.
?‍♂Q2.修練「八卦內功」時的心態是怎樣的?
.
「八卦內功」出於中國古老的修練術,修練的時候,動作、口訣、心態都保持在一種非常輕鬆、自在、善良、放鬆的狀態。
.
走得好的弟子會心無旁騖、心無掛礙,融於山川大地──「我是清風,我是陽光,我是甘露,我是小草,我是空氣,無所不在。」達到一種回歸了整個自然的感覺。此外,通過走的過程,還能達到一種空靈的境界,沒有了自己,進入禪定,無思維、無意識、無知覺、無眼耳鼻舌身意、無色聲香味觸法。
.
每一次的收功式也特別重要,心裡要有一種慈悲溫和的感覺。輕輕地搓搓手,搓手的時候,手是很柔和的;之後輕輕地搓臉,越輕效果越好。
.
正宗的做法是:手不接觸皮膚。過程中,也可以心存美好的想法,比如觀想自己的眼睛、皮膚、頭髮變成7歲的眼睛、7歲的皮膚、7歲的頭髮……。
.
.
?‍♀Q3. 走「八卦」時,如何做到「上頂下扎」?
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說到「上頂下扎」,首先要講「氣沉丹田」的「氣」。
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「氣」是指一種綜合的能量的感覺,像霧、像雲、像呼吸的氣這種朦朧的意識,我們隱隱感覺或希望它是一股能量。當這股能量沉到我們的丹田,即下腹部的位置時,覺得扎實了,再同時通過身體的內部,向上頂上去。
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至於說通過內部哪裡?如果將身體看作一個水桶,則沒有走哪個特定的管道或穴位,只是順著水桶向上頂,頂到頭上大約三尺的空間,感覺就好像有個板子頂住了,就到這裡為止了。不需要用尺子量,因為它沒有固定的長度,而是你觀想出的一股能量。
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那「下扎」呢? 同樣地,將身體想像成水桶,「氣」通過身體,也通過了腿,一大股能量通到地下三尺,貫通了全身。一旦你的身體受益了,就會知道這個觀想起作用了。
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#八卦內功、#生命能量、#禪修與健康35、#問答
 
 [Energy Bagua Q&A] Basic Questions
 
The world’s first Energy Bagua Wellness Center officially opened in Vancouver. The practice of Energy Bagua is very effective in helping the practitioners gain good health, longevity and happiness. Here, I have prepared the answers to many common questions that students may face when learning Energy Bagua. 
You are also welcome to ask questions…
  
Q1. Why do we walk around a tree when practicing Energy Bagua?
First, by walking around a tree we are actually walking in a circle. Second, tree is a living form; we love nature and the tree itself and the tree represents nature. 
Trees are one of the most common and authentic life presents in nature, and through trees we can communicate with the whole nature. So the guiding phrase in Energy Bagua is “I am the tree, the tree is me. I am one with nature.”
We circle around the tree because our hearts are filled with gratitude, love and compassion towards nature. We come from nature and we love this world. 
  
Q2. What is my state of mind while practicing Energy Bagua? 
“Energy Bagua” is derived from an ancient Chinese practice. During the practice, your actions, recitations and mind should remain in a very relaxed, comfortable, kind and peaceful state. 
A well-practiced disciple will be very focused, undistracted and feel one with the mountains and rivers – “I am the breeze, I am the sun, I am the dew, I am the grass, I am the air, I am everywhere.” A state where one is return to nature. 
As you reach state of emptiness in which there is no sense of self, you have entered a meditative state bereft of thoughts, consciousness and understanding. No eye, ear, nose, tongue, body, mind; no forms, sounds, smells, tastes, touches or objects of Dharma. 
The closing exercises are also particularly important and should be practiced with a sense of compassion and warmth in your heart. As you rub your hands together, your hands are soft; as you run your hands over your face, keep your touch light so as to get better results.   
The right method is: the hands do not touch the skin. In the process, you should have good thoughts, such as visualizing that your eyes, skin and hair are as they were when you were 7 years old… 
 
Q3. What does it mean to “allow energy flowing from the top of your head to your toes”?
 
To understand this, we need first talk about how we allow “Qi” to settle down in the lower abdomen. 
“Qi” refers to a sense of integrated energy, like fog, clouds, or breathing gas in our hazy consciousness. When this energy settles to our “dantian”, the position of the lower abdomen, we can sense its form before it continues to move inside the body and up to the top. 
So which parts of the body does this energy pass through? If we use the analogy of a bucket to represent the body and the water to represent the energy, think of the water rising to the top and then continuing beyond to about three feet above the head. The water will not rise beyond this point as there is an invisible barrier blocking its path.
You don't need to use a ruler, because it doesn't have a fixed length, it's an energy you think of.
What about the flow of energy through to your toes? Again, think of the body as a bucket and water as the energy. 
What about the flow of the energy through the feet? Again, think of the body as a bucket and water as the energy. The water will go through the body to the legs and continuing to flow to a point about three feet underground. As it flows, it clears the blockages in your body. How will you know whether your visualizing is working? You will know when your health has benefit from the practice. 
 
#EnergyBagua,  #EnergyOfLife,  #MeditationAndHealth35,  #QuestionAndAnswer

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微笑的力量 . 有一家大名鼎鼎的花店,想…

微笑的力量
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有一家大名鼎鼎的花店,想以高薪聘請一位售花小姐,招聘廣告一張帖後,前來應聘的人多如過江之鯽。經過幾番口試,最後留下了三位女孩,花店經理讓她們每人經營花店一週,打算從中挑選最優秀的一人。
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這三個女孩,一個曾在花店賣過花,一個是花藝學校的應屆畢業生,另一個女孩則沒有任何花藝經驗。
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賣過花的女孩,聽到經理以一週的成績為應聘標準,心中竊喜:「插花、賣花對我來說是駕輕就熟的。」幾乎每一個進花店的人,她都能想辦法讓客人掏錢買花。一週下來,她的銷售成績相當不錯。
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第二位應屆畢業生,她充分發揮書本上學來的知識經營花店。一週後,她的經營成績也非常不錯。
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最後這位沒有任何花藝經驗的女孩,她雖然沒有任何相關經驗,但是她的臉上總是掛著美麗的微笑。所有來店裡看花的客人,都被女孩溫暖的笑容所吸引,紛紛幫女孩推薦客人來買花。
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一週後,女孩的銷售成績出來了,成績遠遠高出有賣花經驗的前兩位女孩。
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最後,花店經理滿意地留下沒有賣花經驗的女孩。
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兩位女孩離去前,花店經理感慨地對她們說:「
妳們的能力非常優秀,但是要明白,用鮮花賺再多的錢是有限的,用美麗的笑容與心情去經營才是無限的。
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精湛的花藝,可以靠努力學習來獲得,而散發像花朵一樣美麗、燦爛的氛圍,是能力無法做到的。因為這裡面包含著一個人的氣質、品德以及藝術和修養。」
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微笑能予人溫暖;
微笑能予人力量;
微笑能使人信心滿滿;
微笑是人生最寶貴的財富!!
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現在,讓我們一起揚起嘴角微笑,感受微笑所帶來的奇妙力量吧!
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#微笑的力量、#溫暖、#氣質、#修養

The Power of Smile

There was a famous flower shop that offered to pay a high salary to hire a floral sales associate. When the job advertisement was posted, there were several job applicants. After some rounds of interviews, three ladies were shortlisted, and the floral shop manager let each lady run the shop operations for a week, intending to pick the best candidate.

Of the three ladies, one had sold flowers at a florist previously; one was a fresh graduate of a floral management school; and the last had no practical experience in floral arrangement.

The lady who had sold flowers previously heard that the manager’s criteria was a week’s sales results. Secretly pleased, she thought, “Flower arrangement and sales are most familiar to me”. Thus, she found ways to try to get everyone who entered the shop to buy flowers. As the week ended, her sales results were pretty good.

The second fresh graduate gave full play to the knowledge she learnt from school to run the florist. A week later, her business performance was also impressive.

Last, for the lady who had no background in running a florist, while she lacked relevant experience, she always wore a beautiful smile on her face. All the customers who came in to check out the flowers were attracted by the lady’s warm smile and helped to recommend more customers to buy flowers.

A week followed, and as the sales results were tallied, the last lady’s results were far higher than the first two ladies who had prior experience and capability.

Eventually, the shop manager hired the lady with no prior experience in selling flowers.

Before the two ladies left, the floral shop manager solemnly explained to them, “You may have strong capabilities, but if you focus on floral sales, your potential is limited. However, with a beautiful smile and positive vibe, your potential is limitless.

Superb floral art arrangement can be picked up through diligence, but to exude an exceptional and radiant smile that complement the flowers is a quality that is hard to come by. This is much due to the person’s temperament, moral character, aesthetic appreciation and cultivation.

A smile can radiate warmth;
A smile can garner strength;
A smile can inspire confidence;
The Smile is life’s most precious asset!!

Let us now raise the corners of our lips, smile together and feel the marvelous power of our smiles!

#ThePowerOfSmile, #Warmth, #Character, #Cultivation


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你知道?烏龜?為什麼能長壽? . . ….

你知道?烏龜?為什麼能長壽?
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因為牠天天不閒著,
勤奮、努力地在練功呢!✊
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#練功 #努力 #堅持

Do you know why turtles live such a long life?

Because they do not idle every day,
but practice hard diligently! ✊

#Practice, #Diligence. #Persistencernrn你知道?烏龜?為什麼能長壽?
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因為牠天天不閒著,
勤奮、努力地在練功呢!✊
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#練功 #努力 #堅持

Do you know why turtles live such a long life?

Because they do not idle every day,
but practice hard diligently! ✊

#Practice, #Diligence. #Persistence

你知道?烏龜?為什麼能長壽?
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因為牠天天不閒著,
勤奮、努力地在練功呢!✊
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#練功 #努力 #堅持
 
Do you know why turtles live such a long life?
  
 
 
 Because they do not idle every day,
 but practice hard diligently!  ✊
  
 #Practice, #Diligence. #Persistencernrn你知道?烏龜?為什麼能長壽?
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因為牠天天不閒著,
勤奮、努力地在練功呢!✊
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#練功 #努力 #堅持
 
Do you know why turtles live such a long life?
  
 
 
 Because they do not idle every day,
 but practice hard diligently!  ✊
  
 #Practice, #Diligence. #Persistence

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時隔4個月的喜訊! . 有網友跟我留言:…

時隔4個月的喜訊!
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有網友跟我留言:
「師父好,我的孫女終於有救了!
感恩您於2018 年11月替孫女點燈和加持,孩子馬上就有了變化。最近這些天,孩子動作敏捷了,說話也清楚了。還很調皮,像個正常的孩子了!
真誠的感恩師父。看見孩子的變化,我們全家人都很高興。感恩師父。」
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我往上看了看這位網友4個月前的留言:
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「師父好,我的孫女5歲了,但是卻和一般的孩子不一樣,孩子行動緩慢,經常自己一個人呆坐著,別人喊她,也不答應,說話也特別困難。醫生診斷是自閉症之一,我們找了很多醫生,訪遍各大醫院,但是都醫治無效。
我知道在FB上可以給師父留言、請示,就趕緊上來求師父、求佛菩薩滿弟子的願望,幫幫孩子、加持她健康正常的成長。感恩師父!」
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照片上,當時在藥師佛前為孩子點上的祈福燈,純淨明亮!
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看到這孩子前後的變化,真的很高興,很感動於佛菩薩對我們的呵護。真心希望孩子越來越健康。
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為此,今天應該多吃一碗飯。
也祝福天下的孩子都能健康成長、幸福、快樂。
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#菩提供燈、#健康快樂、#加持、#吉祥能量

The good news after 4 months of waiting!

Today an internet friend left me a message:
“Hello Master, finally there is hope for my granddaughter!”

I am very grateful to you for blessing my granddaughter with light offering for her on November 2018. After you blessed her through light offering, she started to undergo the transformation. These few days, she is agile in her movements and could speak clearly. She is also mischievous, behaving like a normal child!

I am very grateful to master from the bottom of my heart. Looking at her transformation, my entire family is very happy! Thank you Master!”

The secretary beside me pointed and added: “ Master, this message was left 4 months ago:” “Greetings Master, my granddaughter is 5 years old. However, she is slower in her movements as compared to other children. Often, she would sit by herself and stare blankly at the wall. When others call her, she would not respond and have difficulties talking. Doctor diagnosed her behavior to be a symptom of autism. My family and I brought her to consult different Doctors from various well known Hospitals, hoping to cure her but to no avail.

When I knew we could leave a message for Master if we face problems, I acted immediately and sought Buddha, Bodhisattvas and Master’s help in fulfilling my wishes – I hope you can bless her so that she can grow up normally and healthily. Thank you Master.”

The secretary again pointed to a photograph and said: “Master, look at the brilliance of light that is being offered before Medicine Buddha!”

When I saw the before and after messages and photographs, I felt very happy and touched by the blessing and protection bestowed by Buddha and Bodhisattvas. May the child become healthier!

To celebrate this, I decided to eat one more bowl of rice.

May all children grow up healthily!

#BodhiLightOffering, #HealthAndHappiness, #Blessings, #AuspiciousEnergyrnrn時隔4個月的喜訊!
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有網友跟我留言:
「師父好,我的孫女終於有救了!
感恩您於2018 年11月替孫女點燈和加持,孩子馬上就有了變化。最近這些天,孩子動作敏捷了,說話也清楚了。還很調皮,像個正常的孩子了!
真誠的感恩師父。看見孩子的變化,我們全家人都很高興。感恩師父。」
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我往上看了看這位網友4個月前的留言:
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「師父好,我的孫女5歲了,但是卻和一般的孩子不一樣,孩子行動緩慢,經常自己一個人呆坐著,別人喊她,也不答應,說話也特別困難。醫生診斷是自閉症之一,我們找了很多醫生,訪遍各大醫院,但是都醫治無效。
我知道在FB上可以給師父留言、請示,就趕緊上來求師父、求佛菩薩滿弟子的願望,幫幫孩子、加持她健康正常的成長。感恩師父!」
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照片上,當時在藥師佛前為孩子點上的祈福燈,純淨明亮!
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看到這孩子前後的變化,真的很高興,很感動於佛菩薩對我們的呵護。真心希望孩子越來越健康。
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為此,今天應該多吃一碗飯。
也祝福天下的孩子都能健康成長、幸福、快樂。
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#菩提供燈、#健康快樂、#加持、#吉祥能量

The good news after 4 months of waiting!

Today an internet friend left me a message:
“Hello Master, finally there is hope for my granddaughter!”

I am very grateful to you for blessing my granddaughter with light offering for her on November 2018. After you blessed her through light offering, she started to undergo the transformation. These few days, she is agile in her movements and could speak clearly. She is also mischievous, behaving like a normal child!

I am very grateful to master from the bottom of my heart. Looking at her transformation, my entire family is very happy! Thank you Master!”

The secretary beside me pointed and added: “ Master, this message was left 4 months ago:” “Greetings Master, my granddaughter is 5 years old. However, she is slower in her movements as compared to other children. Often, she would sit by herself and stare blankly at the wall. When others call her, she would not respond and have difficulties talking. Doctor diagnosed her behavior to be a symptom of autism. My family and I brought her to consult different Doctors from various well known Hospitals, hoping to cure her but to no avail.

When I knew we could leave a message for Master if we face problems, I acted immediately and sought Buddha, Bodhisattvas and Master’s help in fulfilling my wishes – I hope you can bless her so that she can grow up normally and healthily. Thank you Master.”

The secretary again pointed to a photograph and said: “Master, look at the brilliance of light that is being offered before Medicine Buddha!”

When I saw the before and after messages and photographs, I felt very happy and touched by the blessing and protection bestowed by Buddha and Bodhisattvas. May the child become healthier!

To celebrate this, I decided to eat one more bowl of rice.

May all children grow up healthily!

#BodhiLightOffering, #HealthAndHappiness, #Blessings, #AuspiciousEnergy

時隔4個月的喜訊!
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有網友跟我留言:
「師父好,我的孫女終於有救了!
感恩您於2018 年11月替孫女點燈和加持,孩子馬上就有了變化。最近這些天,孩子動作敏捷了,說話也清楚了。還很調皮,像個正常的孩子了!
真誠的感恩師父。看見孩子的變化,我們全家人都很高興。感恩師父。」
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我往上看了看這位網友4個月前的留言:
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「師父好,我的孫女5歲了,但是卻和一般的孩子不一樣,孩子行動緩慢,經常自己一個人呆坐著,別人喊她,也不答應,說話也特別困難。醫生診斷是自閉症之一,我們找了很多醫生,訪遍各大醫院,但是都醫治無效。
我知道在FB上可以給師父留言、請示,就趕緊上來求師父、求佛菩薩滿弟子的願望,幫幫孩子、加持她健康正常的成長。感恩師父!」
.
照片上,當時在藥師佛前為孩子點上的祈福燈,純淨明亮!
.
看到這孩子前後的變化,真的很高興,很感動於佛菩薩對我們的呵護。真心希望孩子越來越健康。
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為此,今天應該多吃一碗飯。
也祝福天下的孩子都能健康成長、幸福、快樂。
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#菩提供燈、#健康快樂、#加持、#吉祥能量
 
The good news after 4 months of waiting!
 
Today an internet friend left me a message:
“Hello Master, finally there is hope for my granddaughter!”
   
I am very grateful to you for blessing my granddaughter with light offering for her on November 2018. After you blessed her through light offering, she started to undergo the transformation. These few days, she is agile in her movements and could speak clearly. She is also mischievous, behaving like a normal child!
 
I am very grateful to master from the bottom of my heart. Looking at her transformation, my entire family is very happy! Thank you Master!”
 
The secretary beside me pointed and added: “ Master, this message was left 4 months ago:” “Greetings Master, my granddaughter is 5 years old. However, she is slower in her movements as compared to other children. Often, she would sit by herself and stare blankly at the wall. When others call her, she would not respond and have difficulties talking. Doctor diagnosed her behavior to be a symptom of autism. My family and I brought her to consult different Doctors from various well known Hospitals, hoping to cure her but to no avail.
 
When I knew we could leave a message for Master if we face problems, I acted immediately and sought Buddha, Bodhisattvas and Master’s help in fulfilling my wishes - I hope you can bless her so that she can grow up normally and healthily. Thank you Master.”
 
The secretary again pointed to a photograph and said: “Master, look at the brilliance of light that is being offered before Medicine Buddha!”
 
When I saw the before and after messages and photographs, I felt very happy and touched by the blessing and protection bestowed by Buddha and Bodhisattvas. May the child become healthier! 
 
To celebrate this, I decided to eat one more bowl of rice.
 
May all children grow up healthily!
 
#BodhiLightOffering, #HealthAndHappiness, #Blessings, #AuspiciousEnergyrnrn時隔4個月的喜訊!
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有網友跟我留言:
「師父好,我的孫女終於有救了!
感恩您於2018 年11月替孫女點燈和加持,孩子馬上就有了變化。最近這些天,孩子動作敏捷了,說話也清楚了。還很調皮,像個正常的孩子了!
真誠的感恩師父。看見孩子的變化,我們全家人都很高興。感恩師父。」
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我往上看了看這位網友4個月前的留言:
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「師父好,我的孫女5歲了,但是卻和一般的孩子不一樣,孩子行動緩慢,經常自己一個人呆坐著,別人喊她,也不答應,說話也特別困難。醫生診斷是自閉症之一,我們找了很多醫生,訪遍各大醫院,但是都醫治無效。
我知道在FB上可以給師父留言、請示,就趕緊上來求師父、求佛菩薩滿弟子的願望,幫幫孩子、加持她健康正常的成長。感恩師父!」
.
照片上,當時在藥師佛前為孩子點上的祈福燈,純淨明亮!
.
看到這孩子前後的變化,真的很高興,很感動於佛菩薩對我們的呵護。真心希望孩子越來越健康。
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為此,今天應該多吃一碗飯。
也祝福天下的孩子都能健康成長、幸福、快樂。
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#菩提供燈、#健康快樂、#加持、#吉祥能量
 
The good news after 4 months of waiting!
 
Today an internet friend left me a message:
“Hello Master, finally there is hope for my granddaughter!”
   
I am very grateful to you for blessing my granddaughter with light offering for her on November 2018. After you blessed her through light offering, she started to undergo the transformation. These few days, she is agile in her movements and could speak clearly. She is also mischievous, behaving like a normal child!
 
I am very grateful to master from the bottom of my heart. Looking at her transformation, my entire family is very happy! Thank you Master!”
 
The secretary beside me pointed and added: “ Master, this message was left 4 months ago:” “Greetings Master, my granddaughter is 5 years old. However, she is slower in her movements as compared to other children. Often, she would sit by herself and stare blankly at the wall. When others call her, she would not respond and have difficulties talking. Doctor diagnosed her behavior to be a symptom of autism. My family and I brought her to consult different Doctors from various well known Hospitals, hoping to cure her but to no avail.
 
When I knew we could leave a message for Master if we face problems, I acted immediately and sought Buddha, Bodhisattvas and Master’s help in fulfilling my wishes - I hope you can bless her so that she can grow up normally and healthily. Thank you Master.”
 
The secretary again pointed to a photograph and said: “Master, look at the brilliance of light that is being offered before Medicine Buddha!”
 
When I saw the before and after messages and photographs, I felt very happy and touched by the blessing and protection bestowed by Buddha and Bodhisattvas. May the child become healthier! 
 
To celebrate this, I decided to eat one more bowl of rice.
 
May all children grow up healthily!
 
#BodhiLightOffering, #HealthAndHappiness, #Blessings, #AuspiciousEnergy

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心愛世界,善用萬物。 . 歡迎點擊連結觀…

心愛世界,善用萬物。
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歡迎點擊連結觀看,重新溫習本週影片

「生命的呼喚」:

「陽光裡的祝福」:

「破繭重生」:

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#金菩提禪語
#心愛世界
#善用萬物

Love This World and Make the Best Use of Everything

Please feel free to click on the following links to review and watch this week’s short films;
「The Calling of Life」:

「Blessing in the Sunshine」:

「Break Free from the Cocoon」:

#AphorismFromMasterJinBodhi, #LoveThisWorld, #MakeTheBestUseOfEverythingrnrn心愛世界,善用萬物。
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歡迎點擊連結觀看,重新溫習本週影片

「生命的呼喚」:

「陽光裡的祝福」:

「破繭重生」:

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#金菩提禪語
#心愛世界
#善用萬物

Love This World and Make the Best Use of Everything

Please feel free to click on the following links to review and watch this week’s short films;
「The Calling of Life」:

「Blessing in the Sunshine」:

「Break Free from the Cocoon」:

#AphorismFromMasterJinBodhi, #LoveThisWorld, #MakeTheBestUseOfEverything

心愛世界,善用萬物。
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歡迎點擊連結觀看,重新溫習本週影片

「生命的呼喚」:
https://www.facebook.com/1656157281338091/posts/2369486883338457/

「陽光裡的祝福」:
https://www.facebook.com/1656157281338091/posts/2369487616671717/

「破繭重生」:
https://www.facebook.com/1656157281338091/posts/2369488186671660/
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#金菩提禪語
#心愛世界
#善用萬物
 
Love This World and Make the Best Use of Everything
 
Please feel free to click on the following links to review and watch this week's short films;
「The Calling of Life」:
https://www.facebook.com/538573126319591/posts/1213616035481960?sfns=mo
「Blessing in the Sunshine」:
https://www.facebook.com/538573126319591/posts/1214212672088963?sfns=mo
「Break Free from the Cocoon」:
https://www.facebook.com/538573126319591/posts/1214562462053984/#
 
 
#AphorismFromMasterJinBodhi, #LoveThisWorld, #MakeTheBestUseOfEverythingrnrn心愛世界,善用萬物。
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歡迎點擊連結觀看,重新溫習本週影片

「生命的呼喚」:
https://www.facebook.com/1656157281338091/posts/2369486883338457/

「陽光裡的祝福」:
https://www.facebook.com/1656157281338091/posts/2369487616671717/

「破繭重生」:
https://www.facebook.com/1656157281338091/posts/2369488186671660/
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#金菩提禪語
#心愛世界
#善用萬物
 
Love This World and Make the Best Use of Everything
 
Please feel free to click on the following links to review and watch this week's short films;
「The Calling of Life」:
https://www.facebook.com/538573126319591/posts/1213616035481960?sfns=mo
「Blessing in the Sunshine」:
https://www.facebook.com/538573126319591/posts/1214212672088963?sfns=mo
「Break Free from the Cocoon」:
https://www.facebook.com/538573126319591/posts/1214562462053984/#
 
 
#AphorismFromMasterJinBodhi, #LoveThisWorld, #MakeTheBestUseOfEverything

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破繭重生,讓自己變得更強大! . 一隻美…

破繭重生,讓自己變得更強大!
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一隻美麗的蝴蝶,需要歷經蜕變的艱辛!
一棵參天的大樹,需要歷經風雨的淬鍊!
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生命中,所有的困難,都是幫助我們成功的基石。
面對障礙時,請勇敢接受挑戰、認準目標,並且堅持到底。
當你勇敢跨越,就會發現自己變得更加強大。
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其實,人生的每個過程,都是為了要帶領我們,進入更美好的生命階段,而每一份經歷,都是為了讓我們更強大、更茁壯。
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歡迎大家和我一起來學習,讓自己變得更強大!!
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如果你有從毛毛蟲蛻變為蝴蝶的心得,歡迎在留言區里分享,和我交流。
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#破繭重生、#成功、#堅持、#蜕變

Break Free From the Cocoon, reborn into a stronger you!

A beautiful butterfly needs to undergo the hardships of metamorphosis!
A towering tree needs to undergo the ravages of wind and rain!

All the difficulties in life are the cornerstones that help us succeed.
In the face of obstacles, please be brave and accept the challenges, focus on the goal, and persevere to the end.
After you have bravely overcome them, you will realize that you have become stronger.

In fact, every stage in our life is here to guide us into a better realm, and every experience allows us to be stronger and more robust.

I welcome everyone to join me. Let us learn together to become stronger!!

If you have some experiences about your metamorphosis from the caterpillar to a butterfly, you are most welcome to share it in Comments so that we can discuss.

#BreakFreeFromTheCocoon, #Metamorphosis, #Succeed, #Persevere, #Transform


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一個網友傳來了一段半自動化超市的視頻,裡…

一個網友傳來了一段半自動化超市的視頻,裡面有中央控制、無線連接、使用電子墨水的電子標籤,還有為外賣建立的揀貨傳送系統;有用手機App自助結賬的過程。技術每天都在變化,你準備好了嗎?

An internet friend shared with me a video of a semi-automated supermarket with central control system, wireless connection, electronic tags, a pick-and-delivery system for take-out, and a self-checkout process for mobile app users. Technology is rapidly changing every day, are you ready?


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「創造幸福家庭」我會說話了! . 前兩天…

「創造幸福家庭」我會說話了!
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前兩天,有位網友很興奮地給我留言:
「師父,我會說話了!」
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「啊,你原來不能講話?」我問。
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「不是不是,我不是啞巴。可是我之前講話,家裡沒有人愛搭理我,全都跑得遠遠的。我先生每天下班很晚才回家,兒子下課後就把自己鎖在房間裡,女兒更是準備好了,要到幾千里之外的城市去上大學。」
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「那妳之前怎麼講話的,這麼有力度啊?」我小心地提問。
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「唉,說來話長。我以前是出了名的火爆脾氣、在家裡天天數落家人,覺得我可也賺錢養家了,你們都要感謝我。我的孩子那時候正好進入青春期,變得不愛說話,更不愛和我交流。我呢,要嘛責備孩子成績不好、要嘛說他們不聽話,孩子們更不喜歡和我交流,一說話就吵架。
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開始跟您學習後,我慢慢明白了一些道理,知道與家人需要多溝通。我不再一味責備孩子們,開始反省自己,盡量多想想孩子們和先生的需求,盡量把飯做好吃一些、多關心他們,少一些負面的碎碎念和嘮叨,說話前都先提醒自己,多想想他們聽到會有什麼感受?真的想發火的時候,我就採取您教的絕招:1、2、3,先走人。
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現在孩子們和先生也注意到我的變化,都說:「媽媽會說話了!」也開始樂於和我溝通。現在家裡吃飯的時候,一家人坐在一起分享今天的大小見聞,開開心心的。女兒還開始告訴我一些她在學校裡遇到的煩心事。我真的又找到做媽媽的幸福了。?」
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我聽了,也替她開心。想想,這位母親如果不改變,將來子女可能各奔一方,家庭成員互不往來,那個家就不再有溫暖了。
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一個知理、有愛心的媽媽,能夠創造一個幸福的家庭!
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希望天下的媽媽們,都是幸福家庭的締造者!
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#我會說話了、#親子教育、#幸福家庭

「Create a happy family」 – I can finally speak!

Two days ago, an internet friend excitedly left me a message, “Master, I can finally speak!”

“So you couldn’t speak previously?”, I asked.

“No, I’m not a mute. It’s just that when I spoke previously, no one in the house would respond. They would all distance themselves from me. My husband would return home late from work every night and my son would lock himself in his room after school. My daughter was then preparing for college in a city thousands of miles away.”

“So, was the way you communicate previously very authoritative?”, I asked tactfully.

“It’s a long story. I used to be known for my fiery temper. I criticized my family members daily, and held the mentality that since I earned money to support the family, everyone owed me. My children who were undergoing puberty then, became withdrawn and did not like to communicate with me. We would quarrel at the first opportunity.

After I started practicing with you, I gradually understood the reasons and knew that I needed to communicate more with my family. I no longer find faults with the children, and have begun to self-reflect. I consider more about my children’s and husband’s needs, try my best to prepare good food, and show more concern with less negativity and nagging. I now consciously put myself in their shoes before speaking, and consider their feelings. When I get really upset, I’d apply your useful approach of counting: 1, 2, 3, before walking away.

Now my children and husband noticed the change in me. They remarked, “Mommy can now speak!” They are thus happy to interact with me. Nowadays, we share the bits and pieces of the day’s happenings over meals at home blissfully. My daughter also shares her challenges in school with me. I have regained the happiness of being a mother again. ?

I listened intently to her sharing, and am overjoyed for her. Consider if this mother had not changed for the better, her children might have left her and the family broken apart in the near future, and she would not have experienced the familial warmth as she does now.

A wise, reasonable mother, one who is filled with love, has the means to create a happy family!

May all the mothers in the world be the creators of a happy family!

#ICanFinallySpeak,#ParentalEducation,#HappyFamilyrnrn「創造幸福家庭」我會說話了!
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前兩天,有位網友很興奮地給我留言:
「師父,我會說話了!」
.
「啊,你原來不能講話?」我問。
.
「不是不是,我不是啞巴。可是我之前講話,家裡沒有人愛搭理我,全都跑得遠遠的。我先生每天下班很晚才回家,兒子下課後就把自己鎖在房間裡,女兒更是準備好了,要到幾千里之外的城市去上大學。」
.
「那妳之前怎麼講話的,這麼有力度啊?」我小心地提問。
.
「唉,說來話長。我以前是出了名的火爆脾氣、在家裡天天數落家人,覺得我可也賺錢養家了,你們都要感謝我。我的孩子那時候正好進入青春期,變得不愛說話,更不愛和我交流。我呢,要嘛責備孩子成績不好、要嘛說他們不聽話,孩子們更不喜歡和我交流,一說話就吵架。
.
開始跟您學習後,我慢慢明白了一些道理,知道與家人需要多溝通。我不再一味責備孩子們,開始反省自己,盡量多想想孩子們和先生的需求,盡量把飯做好吃一些、多關心他們,少一些負面的碎碎念和嘮叨,說話前都先提醒自己,多想想他們聽到會有什麼感受?真的想發火的時候,我就採取您教的絕招:1、2、3,先走人。
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現在孩子們和先生也注意到我的變化,都說:「媽媽會說話了!」也開始樂於和我溝通。現在家裡吃飯的時候,一家人坐在一起分享今天的大小見聞,開開心心的。女兒還開始告訴我一些她在學校裡遇到的煩心事。我真的又找到做媽媽的幸福了。?」
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我聽了,也替她開心。想想,這位母親如果不改變,將來子女可能各奔一方,家庭成員互不往來,那個家就不再有溫暖了。
.
一個知理、有愛心的媽媽,能夠創造一個幸福的家庭!
.
希望天下的媽媽們,都是幸福家庭的締造者!
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#我會說話了、#親子教育、#幸福家庭

「Create a happy family」 – I can finally speak!

Two days ago, an internet friend excitedly left me a message, “Master, I can finally speak!”

“So you couldn’t speak previously?”, I asked.

“No, I’m not a mute. It’s just that when I spoke previously, no one in the house would respond. They would all distance themselves from me. My husband would return home late from work every night and my son would lock himself in his room after school. My daughter was then preparing for college in a city thousands of miles away.”

“So, was the way you communicate previously very authoritative?”, I asked tactfully.

“It’s a long story. I used to be known for my fiery temper. I criticized my family members daily, and held the mentality that since I earned money to support the family, everyone owed me. My children who were undergoing puberty then, became withdrawn and did not like to communicate with me. We would quarrel at the first opportunity.

After I started practicing with you, I gradually understood the reasons and knew that I needed to communicate more with my family. I no longer find faults with the children, and have begun to self-reflect. I consider more about my children’s and husband’s needs, try my best to prepare good food, and show more concern with less negativity and nagging. I now consciously put myself in their shoes before speaking, and consider their feelings. When I get really upset, I’d apply your useful approach of counting: 1, 2, 3, before walking away.

Now my children and husband noticed the change in me. They remarked, “Mommy can now speak!” They are thus happy to interact with me. Nowadays, we share the bits and pieces of the day’s happenings over meals at home blissfully. My daughter also shares her challenges in school with me. I have regained the happiness of being a mother again. ?

I listened intently to her sharing, and am overjoyed for her. Consider if this mother had not changed for the better, her children might have left her and the family broken apart in the near future, and she would not have experienced the familial warmth as she does now.

A wise, reasonable mother, one who is filled with love, has the means to create a happy family!

May all the mothers in the world be the creators of a happy family!

#ICanFinallySpeak,#ParentalEducation,#HappyFamily


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