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能讓你「吉祥」又「好命」的名字？ . 曾…

能讓你「吉祥」又「好命」的名字？
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曾經，有個同修家裡最近添了孫子，我正想向她道喜，誰知道她竟然難過地哭了起來！
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她說：「從知道媳婦懷孕的那一天開始，我跟先生就非常開心，巴不得把所有好東西都捧給他們；孫子出生之後，我們根據孫子的生辰八字，找了最好的算命師想給孫子算個吉祥順利的好名子，可我兒子居然說幫孩子取名是父母的工作，又說我們取的名字既難聽又老土！自己就去報了戶口，真是傷透我們的心了！」
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我說：「兒孫自有兒孫福，一家人何必爭鋒相對呢？假設今天妳爭贏了，孫子照著妳的意思取名字，妳高興了，可妳兒子跟媳婦都不開心了，對妳、或者對這個孩子來說，又有什麼好處呢？不如妳就跟他們商量一下，他們取的名字是大名，你們請算命師取的名字當作是小名，在家裡喊就好，這樣總可以了吧？」
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她被我說得有些開心了。回去之後，她照著我說的去跟兒子媳婦商量。她兒子媳婦，知道取名字的時候已經惹了父母不開心，這時候也願意退一步，把父母請人算的吉祥名字給孩子當小名，順利化解了一場家庭糾紛。
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其實，名字只是加分的作用而已，真正能夠決定命運的，是你是否「心懷慈悲」。如果心中沒有慈悲，總是為非作歹，那就算名子取得再好、再吉祥的名字，都沒辦法掩蓋掉他身上不好的氣息；相反的，如果這個孩子的教育很成功，從小就知道要做好事情，即使他的名字不好聽，或者說寓意有些不吉祥，可在這樣充滿善念的人身上，又能起到多少影響呢？
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#取名字、#親子關係、#心懷慈悲、#家庭糾紛、#吉祥好命rnrnA Name That Brings Good Luck And Auspiciousness?

One of my disciples just had a grandchild. Before I could congratulate her, she suddenly cried out loud with grief.

I said, “What happened? Tell me”.

She elaborated, “Ever since my husband and I knew about my daughter-in-law’s pregnancy, we were very happy. We were so anxious to bring all the good things to them. When the grandchild was born, we look for a fortune-teller to come up with an auspicious name based on our grandchild’s birthdate. However, my son felt that it is the responsibility of the parents to give the child his name. Moreover, he deemed that the name we have chosen is unpleasant and old-fashioned. He went to register his chosen name for his child and this has really broken our hearts.

I consoled her, “Kids have their own blessing, there is no need to result in a family rivalry. Even if your grandchild adopts your chosen name, you are happy, but your son and daughter-in-law will be miserable. What good comes out of this for you or your grandchild? Alternatively, have a discussion with them. The name chosen by your son will be the formal name while the suggested name by the fortune-teller can be the nickname to be used only at home. This should work.”

She was happy after this conversation and went home to discuss with her son and daughter-in-law. The son and daughter-in-law realized that their parents were not happy over the child’s naming issue and decided to take a step back. They agreed to adopt the name the parents got from the fortune-teller as the child’s nickname. Thus, the family dispute was peacefully resolved.

In fact, a name does not determine one’s fate, it may only score some points. What determines one’s fate is whether he has compassion in his heart. If he has no compassion in his heart and keep doing evil acts, a good and auspicious name will not cover up his negativity from these actions. In contrast, if this child has a proper education, and was taught from young to do good deeds, an unpleasant name has very little effect on someone who has so much kindness.

#Naming, #FamilyRelationship, #CompassionateHeart, #FamilyDispute, #AuspiciousAndGoodLuck

能讓你「吉祥」又「好命」的名字？ . 曾經，有個同修家裡最近添了孫子，我正想向她道喜，誰知道她竟然難過地哭了起來！ . 她說：「從知道媳婦懷孕的那一天開始，我跟先生就非常開心，巴不得把所有好東西都捧給他們；孫子出生之後，我們根據孫子的生辰八字，找了最好的算命師想給孫子算個吉祥順利的好名子，可我兒子居然說幫孩子取名是父母的工作，又說我們取的名字既難聽又老土！自己就去報了戶口，真是傷透我們的心了！」 . 我說：「兒孫自有兒孫福，一家人何必爭鋒相對呢？假設今天妳爭贏了，孫子照著妳的意思取名字，妳高興了，可妳兒子跟媳婦都不開心了，對妳、或者對這個孩子來說，又有什麼好處呢？不如妳就跟他們商量一下，他們取的名字是大名，你們請算命師取的名字當作是小名，在家裡喊就好，這樣總可以了吧？」 . 她被我說得有些開心了。回去之後，她照著我說的去跟兒子媳婦商量。她兒子媳婦，知道取名字的時候已經惹了父母不開心，這時候也願意退一步，把父母請人算的吉祥名字給孩子當小名，順利化解了一場家庭糾紛。 . 其實，名字只是加分的作用而已，真正能夠決定命運的，是你是否「心懷慈悲」。如果心中沒有慈悲，總是為非作歹，那就算名子取得再好、再吉祥的名字，都沒辦法掩蓋掉他身上不好的氣息；相反的，如果這個孩子的教育很成功，從小就知道要做好事情，即使他的名字不好聽，或者說寓意有些不吉祥，可在這樣充滿善念的人身上，又能起到多少影響呢？ . . #取名字、#親子關係、#心懷慈悲、#家庭糾紛、#吉祥好命rnrnA Name That Brings Good Luck And Auspiciousness? One of my disciples just had a grandchild. Before I could congratulate her, she suddenly cried out loud with grief. I said, “What happened? Tell me”. She elaborated, “Ever since my husband and I knew about my daughter-in-law’s pregnancy, we were very happy. We were so anxious to bring all the good things to them. When the grandchild was born, we look for a fortune-teller to come up with an auspicious name based on our grandchild’s birthdate. However, my son felt that it is the responsibility of the parents to give the child his name. Moreover, he deemed that the name we have chosen is unpleasant and old-fashioned. He went to register his chosen name for his child and this has really broken our hearts. I consoled her, “Kids have their own blessing, there is no need to result in a family rivalry. Even if your grandchild adopts your chosen name, you are happy, but your son and daughter-in-law will be miserable. What good comes out of this for you or your grandchild? Alternatively, have a discussion with them. The name chosen by your son will be the formal name while the suggested name by the fortune-teller can be the nickname to be used only at home. This should work.” She was happy after this conversation and went home to discuss with her son and daughter-in-law. The son and daughter-in-law realized that their parents were not happy over the child’s naming issue and decided to take a step back. They agreed to adopt the name the parents got from the fortune-teller as the child’s nickname. Thus, the family dispute was peacefully resolved. In fact, a name does not determine one’s fate, it may only score some points. What determines one’s fate is whether he has compassion in his heart. If he has no compassion in his heart and keep doing evil acts, a good and auspicious name will not cover up his negativity from these actions. In contrast, if this child has a proper education, and was taught from young to do good deeds, an unpleasant name has very little effect on someone who has so much kindness. #Naming, #FamilyRelationship, #CompassionateHeart, #FamilyDispute, #AuspiciousAndGoodLuck

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  2. 感恩師父教導?我很喜歡師父給我的法名，謝謝您！我才能在慈悲的這條路上走下去！???

  3. 师父好！感恩师父慈悲开示！师父赐予名字加上好好做人这是双赢，太好了！感恩师父！??????☕????

  8. 大师所言极是。人作孽不可活。和名字不沾边。与人为善众人帮，何来名字啥事？

  11. 感恩师父慈悲开示与教导！师父赐予我们的名字！孩子的教育与成功，师父赐予名字加上從小培养知道做好事情，即使他的名字不好聽，或者說寓意有些不吉祥，可在這樣充滿善念的人身上，能起到吉祥好命！感恩师父对我们孩子的培养！顶礼感恩师父！！！

  12. 现在很多人为了给孩子起个名字，花钱找那些风水大师起，都是很贵的，其实，真的不如给孩子做功德。

  13. 还是师父主意好，一家老小都高兴！名字好坏没关系，人品好坏才重要，感恩师父教导！

  14. 感恩师父慈悲的开示与教化！师父智慧的开示让我们豁然明白：起一个好的名子不能代表将来的成功与富贵。只有从小教育好孩子做一个有德行的人才能获得吉祥圆满的人生。
    师父！今天犯了一个我自己认识不到的错误，感恩金颂师兄给我指出来，我才豁然明白得到打击伤害上的委屈只有默默承受不能说出来才是一个真正的，合格的菩提弟子！
    师父！我很感恩师兄对我的帮助使我又一次提升了心灵的境界和认知的高度。师父！我知道错了！我忏悔！同样的错误不在犯第二次。感恩师父！祝福师父！

  15. 感恩师父慈悲开示！弟子收到！孩子重在教育，名字只是加分，懂了。今天去看老二泽胜变得小皇帝了，爷爷奶奶带一个多月孩子也不一样了。孩子不可腻爱！但弟子还是想师父为女儿赐名！算自私也好总想把最好的给孩子！更想师父赐名加持护佑！?叩拜

  16. 师父好！感恩师父慈悲开示与教化！我家的小外孙就是我请师父给起的名“圆贺”，宝爷爷、宝奶奶、宝爸、……等，为了孩子的名字忙的七上八下的，最后我硬是抱着“圆贺”入了户口。从结婚-生孩子，都是在我身边，自然按户口还是应该由我来决定喽。最后用我的智慧把大家的关系处理的还是很好的哦。感恩师父！！！宝奶、宝爷怕我把孩子教育成“和尚”带在身边寸步不离，正中下怀，捞得一身轻。

  17. 感恩师父慈悲开示！名字只是加分的作用而已，真正决定命运的是你是否心怀慈悲。从小应该教育孩子多行善多布施。多做好事，少点贪念走正路是最正确的教育方法。

  18. 师父好，感恩师父慈悲开示，感恩师父慈悲的教悔和关怀护佑，多做善事多帮人，就会让你吉祥又好命的名字，弟子感恩顶礼叩拜恩师！

  19. 师父好！！！感恩上师慈悲开示！！！将来我有孙子或孙女的话，一定祈请尊贵的上师赐名！！！???❤❤❤

  20. 师父，您好！哈哈！师父的裁判最正确，师父讲得最有道理。谢谢师父常常教导我们！感恩师父！

  21. 感恩师父慈悲分享！人一定要心怀慈悲，孩子的教育很成功，从小就知道要做好事情，即使他的名字不好听，或者说寓意有些不吉祥，可在这样充满善念的人身上，又能起到多少影响呢？弟子顶礼叩谢师父！

  22. 感恩师父慈悲开示与教导!为孩子取的名字只是加分的作用而已，而心怀慈悲才真正决定孩子一生的命运。所以，对年幼小的孩子的圣贤教育是多么地重要。感恩慈悲的师父!祝福天下所有的孩子都能从小受到圣贤的教育、都能充满善意、都能度过一个健康快乐、幸福吉祥的圆满人生。

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