創造雙贏的秘訣 . 你相信慈悲、寬容和博…

創造雙贏的秘訣
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你相信慈悲、寬容和博愛,能創造雙贏的局面,改變人生?
一起來聽聽下面這個有趣的故事吧!
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一個模範丈夫的自述……
「昨天和老婆下象棋,五招之後我便勝局在望。
老婆臉拉長了,硬說馬可以走「田」字,因為是千里馬。我忍了。
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又說兵可以倒退走,是特種兵。我忍了。

……非得讓象過河,是小飛象。我也忍了。

最過分的是炮可以不用隔棋或者隔兩個以上都可以打。因為是高射炮。我還是忍了。

忍無可忍的是車可以拐彎,還振振有詞說哪有車不能拐彎的嗎?這我全部忍了,繼續艱難鎖定勝局……

但最後,她竟然用我的士,乾掉了我的將。說這是潛伏了多年的間諜,特意派來做臥底的。

最後,她贏了……於是,她愉快的去洗衣服做飯了。
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結論就是:
①家不是講理的地方
②家和萬事興,和諧共贏
③控制情緒很重要
④良好的溝通是幸福的基石
⑤和老婆講道理的男人智商都有嚴重問題
⑥規矩是死的,人是活的

男士們,回家都學著點!!」
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看完這個有趣的故事,你是否領會到,家庭中或是團隊合作中,為何你會不順心,不快樂的原因了嗎?

人與人之間多幾分寬容,便是海闊天空,心裡就是輕鬆的。
在生活中,用慈悲、博愛的心去看待一切人和事,我們的煩惱就會少很多,能創造雙贏的局面,甚至改變人生。
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The secret to create Win-win situation

Do you believe that compassion, magnanimity, and universal love can bring about win-win (mutually beneficial), and life-changing outcomes? Let’s tune in to this interesting story below!

A self-narration by a model husband……

「Played Chinese chess with my wife yesterday, after five moves, I had victory in sight.

My wife started to give a disapproving look, and insisted that her “Horse” can move beyond the confines of the original rules, simply because she had an exceptional steed. I put up with it.

After that, she claimed that her Soldiers could retreat, as they were special forces. I put up with it.

…… Then, she insisted that I let her “Elephants” cross the river, as they were flying elephants. I also put up with it.

Most ludicrous was the claim that her “Cannons” were exempted from having to jump over another chest piece to capture my chest piece, but instead, can jump through many pieces to conquer my chess piece as hers were long-range cannons. Still, I put up with it.

What was intolerable was that her “Chariots” could turn at will (instead of only moving in straight lines); the argument was that it is a characteristic of all cars – which car cannot turn at will? I endured these, and struggled against her errant moves to try to seal the game……

Yet in the end, she used my “Minister” to subdue my “General”, citing that the “Minister” was a spy of many years that she had summoned to infiltrate into my court to carry out the mission.

She won eventually…… before delightfully going to do the laundry and prepare dinner.

Conclusion:
① Fair reasoning may not always exist at home.
② Harmony breeds success at home, and creates mutually beneficial outcomes
③ It is crucial to learn to control our emotions
④ Effective communications is the cornerstone of happiness
⑤ Men who insist on reasoning with the wives have ‘serious’ intelligence issues
⑥ Rules may be cast in stone, but as humans, we are living things (and thus should be flexible!)

Thus men, do step back, reflect and apply this at home!! 」

If only we display a little more magnanimity and tolerance like the boundless seas and heavens, all conflicts can be satisfactorily resolved in mutually beneficial ways, ushering in much joy and ease.

When we use compassion and universal love to approach relationships and affairs in life, there will be less anxieties, more mutually beneficial, and even life-changing outcomes.
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圖片來源:網路/http://game.mofang.com/album/73.html
#笑話、#一個模範丈夫的自述、#bighappysmile、#控制情緒、#良好的溝通
Illustration: http://game.mofang.com/album/73.html
#Jokes, #NarrationByModelHusband, #bighappysmile, #EmotionalRestraint, #EffectiveCommunicationrnrn創造雙贏的秘訣
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你相信慈悲、寬容和博愛,能創造雙贏的局面,改變人生?
一起來聽聽下面這個有趣的故事吧!
.
一個模範丈夫的自述……
「昨天和老婆下象棋,五招之後我便勝局在望。
老婆臉拉長了,硬說馬可以走「田」字,因為是千里馬。我忍了。
.
又說兵可以倒退走,是特種兵。我忍了。

……非得讓象過河,是小飛象。我也忍了。

最過分的是炮可以不用隔棋或者隔兩個以上都可以打。因為是高射炮。我還是忍了。

忍無可忍的是車可以拐彎,還振振有詞說哪有車不能拐彎的嗎?這我全部忍了,繼續艱難鎖定勝局……

但最後,她竟然用我的士,乾掉了我的將。說這是潛伏了多年的間諜,特意派來做臥底的。

最後,她贏了……於是,她愉快的去洗衣服做飯了。
.
結論就是:
①家不是講理的地方
②家和萬事興,和諧共贏
③控制情緒很重要
④良好的溝通是幸福的基石
⑤和老婆講道理的男人智商都有嚴重問題
⑥規矩是死的,人是活的

男士們,回家都學著點!!」
.
看完這個有趣的故事,你是否領會到,家庭中或是團隊合作中,為何你會不順心,不快樂的原因了嗎?

人與人之間多幾分寬容,便是海闊天空,心裡就是輕鬆的。
在生活中,用慈悲、博愛的心去看待一切人和事,我們的煩惱就會少很多,能創造雙贏的局面,甚至改變人生。
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The secret to create Win-win situation

Do you believe that compassion, magnanimity, and universal love can bring about win-win (mutually beneficial), and life-changing outcomes? Let’s tune in to this interesting story below!

A self-narration by a model husband……

「Played Chinese chess with my wife yesterday, after five moves, I had victory in sight.

My wife started to give a disapproving look, and insisted that her “Horse” can move beyond the confines of the original rules, simply because she had an exceptional steed. I put up with it.

After that, she claimed that her Soldiers could retreat, as they were special forces. I put up with it.

…… Then, she insisted that I let her “Elephants” cross the river, as they were flying elephants. I also put up with it.

Most ludicrous was the claim that her “Cannons” were exempted from having to jump over another chest piece to capture my chest piece, but instead, can jump through many pieces to conquer my chess piece as hers were long-range cannons. Still, I put up with it.

What was intolerable was that her “Chariots” could turn at will (instead of only moving in straight lines); the argument was that it is a characteristic of all cars – which car cannot turn at will? I endured these, and struggled against her errant moves to try to seal the game……

Yet in the end, she used my “Minister” to subdue my “General”, citing that the “Minister” was a spy of many years that she had summoned to infiltrate into my court to carry out the mission.

She won eventually…… before delightfully going to do the laundry and prepare dinner.

Conclusion:
① Fair reasoning may not always exist at home.
② Harmony breeds success at home, and creates mutually beneficial outcomes
③ It is crucial to learn to control our emotions
④ Effective communications is the cornerstone of happiness
⑤ Men who insist on reasoning with the wives have ‘serious’ intelligence issues
⑥ Rules may be cast in stone, but as humans, we are living things (and thus should be flexible!)

Thus men, do step back, reflect and apply this at home!! 」

If only we display a little more magnanimity and tolerance like the boundless seas and heavens, all conflicts can be satisfactorily resolved in mutually beneficial ways, ushering in much joy and ease.

When we use compassion and universal love to approach relationships and affairs in life, there will be less anxieties, more mutually beneficial, and even life-changing outcomes.
.
.
.
圖片來源:網路/http://game.mofang.com/album/73.html
#笑話、#一個模範丈夫的自述、#bighappysmile、#控制情緒、#良好的溝通
Illustration: http://game.mofang.com/album/73.html
#Jokes, #NarrationByModelHusband, #bighappysmile, #EmotionalRestraint, #EffectiveCommunication


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  1. 呵呵呵……
    感恩師父慈悲分享超幽默又具教化寓意的【創造雙贏的秘訣】!

    【師父金語良言】:
    “【結論】就是:
    ①家不是講理的地方。
    ②家和萬事興,和諧共贏。
    ③控制情緒很重要。
    ④良好的溝通是幸福的基石。
    ⑤和老婆講道理的男人智商都有嚴重問題。
    ⑥規矩是死的,人是活的。

    …………家庭中獲團隊合作中,
    ………人與人之間【多幾分寬容,便是海闊天空】,心裡就是輕鬆的。
    在生活中,【用慈悲、博愛的心去看待一切人和事】,我們的煩惱就會少很多,【能創造雙贏的局面】,甚至【改變人生】。”
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  2. 哈哈哈,想起我和老公下象棋。老公棋高几着,然后很得意,“看啊,我的马踏你的炮了”,“我的车吃了你的象了”,“小兵拱了你的马了”,我开始忍着忍着……当老公又说“我的象飞了你的马”时,我随手就把棋盘给扔了,棋子滚得满地都是,老公又陪着笑脸,满地找棋子儿……后来,老公再不陪我下棋了。

  3. 师父好!感恩师父分享幽默的家庭趣事!感恩师父慈悲教导!
    (1)家不是讲理的地方
    (2)家和万事兴,和谐共赢
    (3)控制情绪很重要
    (4)良好的沟通是幸福的基石
    (5)和老婆讲道理的男人智商都有严重问题
    (6)规矩是死的,人是活的

  4. 感恩师父慈悲分享与开示!这位丈夫智商好高呀!他用爱和宽容心去对待妻子,家庭就会和谐,双方都无烦恼,很快乐。作为菩提弟子更应向这位丈夫学习。按照师父所教导的,无论对家庭还是对待身边的人和事,都要用慈悲、博爱、宽容之心去面对。退一步海阔天空!人生才会幸福快乐!感恩师父!!!

  5. 好有意思的有趣故事!一个伟大的好男人,好丈夫,和妻子的这盘棋,我栽决丈夫赢了,这盘棋丈夫胜利成定局。家是和谐美好、幸福的港湾,家合万事兴,一个家庭女人好比是一杆秤上的定盘星,男人是称铊。所以最能容忍的男人家庭一定是美好的好家庭。感恩师父分享。

  6. 感恩师父分享?这则范文充分说明:我们不管是在家还是在外边都要保持一颗宽容的心去包容一切人和事,就会平安无事,就是赢家,不与他人论长短,心宽天地宽,健康快乐享百年!感恩师父?

  7. 感恩师父的分享!故事很有意思,丈夫真是模范丈夫,气量弘大,宰相肚里能撑船。妻子挺有创意,重新制定一套棋规,有军事家才干,获胜以后不以胜者自居,还乐呵呵地去洗衣做饭,也是个大智若愚的人物。这对夫妻都是聪明人啊?,所以实现了双赢!

  8. 感恩恩师!给我和同修们分享了有趣又有意义的故事,使我受益多多,和故事中主人公相比看到了差讵和智慧的不足,今后要对身边的人首先要慈悲宽容,然后是爱心,用爱心看世界,用慈悲心对待每一个亲人和事,感恩恩师!感恩诸佛菩萨!

  9. 忍为上,退为高,和谐的家庭总是需要一方去包容付出,理解万岁,功德永恒,彼此真爱,相伴永远。感恩分享,顶礼上师。

  10. 师父用小故事开示我们,懂得无论遇到啥事情控制情绪最重要,彼此用慈悲,宽容和博爱来沟通统一意见,灵活运用死的规矩,善巧方便和谐共赢的,家和万事兴。顶礼感恩师父!

  11. 师父好!用慈悲博爱的心去看待一切人和事,我们的烦恼就会很少,就能创造双赢的局面,甚至改变人生!感恩感谢师父的慈悲开示!

  12. 哈哈哈,确实——和老婆講道理的男人智商都有嚴重問題!忍让啊、宽容啊,就家和了!家如此,人与人之间不是也如此吗?我们和人相处,宽容、忍让点,也就是慈悲点,就万事兴了,利己利他!。感恩师父的分享!

  13. 感恩师父!爱是青春的长相思,曾经的美好,即使已是匆匆擦肩,也让你融化在我的爱里,每天每天都有我默默地祝福。爸爸妈妈一起生活了那么些年,很少吵架,偶尔的吵架也是以妈妈不作声,爸爸最后赔礼道歉,不说话的特牛。到爸爸80多岁还像小伙子一样伺候妈妈,妈妈完全不能自理,爸爸有时就跪着,自己笑称是日式服务,天天给娘娘请安,妈妈走时倒在了爸爸怀里,但妈妈走后爸爸衰老的很快,就不太会走了。人生好好珍惜,大家都高高兴兴的多好。

  14. 创造双赢的秘诀就在于:下好人生这盘棋。模范丈夫的自述~经验之谈,好男不和女斗,让老婆有优越感,男人只要言听计从,老婆就会愉快的去洗衣服做饭。一个和老婆计较的男人,智商都有严重的问题,要想家和万事兴,男人就要宠幸自己的老婆,多赞美多沟通彼此宽容互敬互爱,难得糊涂。在家庭中、在社会中,用慈悲博爱之心去看待一切人和事,就能让自己的心轻松快乐,甚至改变人生,成为生活的大赢家。

  15. 师父好!感恩师父慈悲开示!家不是讲理的地方,是讲爱的地方。好多人都不懂,所以说每个人都离不开佛法,因为这里有大智慧、大慈悲。没有智慧会活的很烦恼。我们太有福了,每天都能与师父网络相约,接受法语甘露。超级幸福?
    感恩师父!

  16. 感恩師父慈悲的分享。
    家是個講愛的地方,若一直由一方讓步另一方可能會變得放縱任性,雙方須要相互的理解、讓步才能海闊天空!

  17. 感恩上师,收到。与人相处,特别是同事、家人,多几分忍让,多几分自在,少很多烦恼,营造双赢局面,最终便改变了自己的人生轨迹!

  18. 师父好,好生动有趣的故事,我家老公可不会这样让老婆,但没关系,咱要听师父的,宽容,退步,海阔天空,忍让,理解,创造和諧生活,感恩师父教悔。

  19. 师父早上好!感恩师父慈悲分享,这则事充分说明我们不管是在家还是在外边首先都要保持一颗慈悲宽容的心去包容一切人和事,宽心待人事事处处多检查自己,多做善事多帮人。祝师父师母法体安康,全家吉祥如意,弟子顶礼叩拜恩师!

  20. 摯誠感恩師父妙趣分享:善巧方便滿满的愛融在夫妻的相處法中,當然值得,配擁有甜蜜幸福的家庭生活。因為師父教導:夫妻相處靠經營,家是講(愛)的地方,凡事都以慈悲,包容,感恩做起……。謝謝師父!吉祥如意!?

  21. 感恩佛师慈悲分享!受益於各位师兄的快乐分享!我们都是师父忠实的弟子,都是-流的水平,拥有慈悲 宽容 忍让,无往而不胜。祝福最尊贵的佛师永远年轻!笑口常口!幸福快乐每一天。

  22. 用慈悲,宽容的心去看待与物,是戊们毕生都要去学习的。学着学着,惭惭地慈非心寬容都会隨着我们,無论到那里,那里都是海阔天空,轻松自在。我们一起学习吧!??

  23. 感恩师父分享这么好的故事,很有意义和感慨,夫妻就是要保持相敬如宾,互敬互爱互谅,做好表率,家庭才能和睦,幸福!祝福师父法轮常转,永恒驻世!❤??

  24. 好智慧的一位“丈夫”,智慧的结果不到使一场“战争”烟消云散,同时还一忍解数愁:不用洗衣、不用做饭、估计也不用刷碗啦哈哈,老婆大人一高兴,说不定还多派几个零花钱??,其实同样的策略放到哪里都好用,就是人啊,常常咽不下那口气!结果可好,窝心窝肺窝肚肠…… 感恩师父的提点啊:学会退让,退一步海阔天空;学会放下,放下一切神清气爽!
    有一位同学是酱紫对待他的准太太的:每次下跳棋他注意到准太太总是专注在她自己的棋子上,于是他就趁机乱跳,把握战局,总是只赢一到两步,哈哈,战机玄妙,让那位准太太一路不服,直到发“婚”,哈哈,也算忒智慧的一种吧……
    家家都有难念的经,家家也有横生之妙趣,就看我们入戏哪一味了,这很大程度上决定了我们是不是“能够”幸福吧。住福天下有缘人,珍惜缘份!难得糊涂!???

  25. 師父早上好:家庭或團隊須用慈悲、博愛、智慧來創造雙贏、前幾天我們的團隊有一個團員、為了一件事情、請求大家配合、要求大學配合是比較難、剛開始先迎合對方的情緒、等情緒過後、再來一個轉圓、建議對方、山不轉路轉、情緒過後、就覺得有道理、要求別人不如要求自己。

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