【週六網路共修】如何愛「不聽話的孩子」？
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天下最無私的，莫過父母對兒女的愛了。父母在兒女身上傾注的心血和感情，世上沒有任何工具能夠衡量。但如何正確地愛孩子，尤其是愛一個「不聽話的孩子」，還能做到不溺愛又給足情感滋養？
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我給家長幾個建議當參考：
一、給孩子選擇權：讓他自己去嘗試，當他親身經歷後，必然能掌握經驗，讓他一輩子受用，對他往後的人生墊下穩健的基石。
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二、把握尺度：愛也要有限度，比如食物的調味，適量的糖帶來甜蜜，過量帶來身體負擔，對健康造成傷害。愛也是一樣，如果給太多，孩子會有壓力，甚至引來更大的叛逆。適度的關愛，才能讓親子關係和諧。
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三、立下規矩：父母的身教跟言教對家庭發展有舉足輕重的作用，以自身做榜樣給孩子學習，能給孩子一個典範，孩子在做人處事上有了依規，就不會無所適從。如果父母給孩子立的原則，自己都做不到，就不該拿來要求孩子。
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關於親子教育的問題，您有什麼想法和建議也歡迎留言，我們一起努力，給孩子創造一個良好的成長環境，奠定他人生成就的基礎。
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【Saturday Online Global Group Practice】 How should you love “disobedient children”?
Parental love is the most selfless love on earth. There is no tool in the world that is able to measure the devotion and affection of parents toward their children. But what is the right way to love a child, especially to a child who does not listen? How to love adequately and yet not to spoil the child?
I have some suggestions for parents to consider:
1. Give the child the right to choose. Let him try. Lessons learnt through personal experience will stay with him throughout his life. The experience will provide solid cornerstone for his future.
2. Love in moderation. Love also has limit. Like food seasoning, the right amount of sugar brings sweetness but excessive sugar is harmful to our body. Love is similar. Too much love will give the child pressure and may even lead to greater rebellion. Adequate amount of love is the key to great parent-child relationship.
3. Set rules. Parents should lead by example and be role models for the children. As parents, if you are not able to observe the rules that you set, then you should not be imposing these rules on them.
I welcome you to share any suggestions or thoughts that you may have on parenting. Let us work together to create a good environment for the children to grow and develop. This will be the foundation for their future achievements in life.
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