創造幸福人生 . 佛法的內涵是無所不包的…

創造幸福人生
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佛法的內涵是無所不包的,既是基本的生存之道,更是管理之道、幸福之道。大家知道怎樣才能幸福嗎?就是四個字──知足感恩。這是一把金鑰匙,幸福的金鑰匙。有些女士與婆婆有矛盾,婆媳關係處理不好,這也容易影響家庭氣氛。換個角度想想,你婆婆生養照顧你的另一伴,你現在才能擁有一個美滿的家庭,要想家庭和樂,就要視對方的父母如自己的父母,請把婆婆哄好。家人都得到幸福,你也會感受到幸福。你的人生是從每天的時時刻刻串聯起來的,多數時間如果是幸福、吉祥、輕鬆、自在的話,你的人生就是幸福的人生。
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如果再往上提升,乃至超越一個覺悟的高峰,自己開心了、得到了人世間的天堂,還要把這個天堂送給大家,這才是學佛人應該要攀登的路、覺悟的路。將人世間的地獄趕走,把極樂世界請進來,那才是真佛法、真開悟。
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希望透過《學佛的目的之二》,使你懂得如何讓生活變得更幸福、更智慧,並且將這種智慧的光芒灑播出去,這就是我常提的即身修行,即身成就,覺行圓滿的學佛之路。
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Creating a paradise on earth

The connotation of Buddhism is all-encompassing. It is not only the basic way of survival, but also the way of management and the key to happiness. Do you know how to be happy? It is contentment and gratitude.
This is the secret key to happiness. Some women have contradictions with their mother-in-law. If this relationship is not managed well, it can adversely affect the atmosphere at home. Another way to look at this relationship is that your mother-in-law has given birth and taken care of your spouse and thus, you are now able to enjoy a happy family. Hence, if we want to enjoy a harmonious and happy life, we have to treat our spouse’s parents like our own. When our family members are happy, we will then be happy. When we have many happy, auspicious and peaceful moments in our life, our life will be a happy one.

If we elevate our spirituality further, transcend towards enlightenment and attain paradise on earth, we would want to share this paradise with others. This is the path for those who learn the Dharma – the path towards enlightenment. It turns living in hell to living in paradise. This is true Dharma. This is true enlightenment.

I hope that through [The Purpose of Practicing Dharma- part 2]you will know how to make your life happier, wiser and radiate such wisdom to others. This is what I often mention about attaining complete enlightenment through the cultivation of the Dharma.

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【週六網路共修】如何愛「不聽話的孩子」?…

【週六網路共修】如何愛「不聽話的孩子」?
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天下最無私的,莫過父母對兒女的愛了。父母在兒女身上傾注的心血和感情,世上沒有任何工具能夠衡量。但如何正確地愛孩子,尤其是愛一個「不聽話的孩子」,還能做到不溺愛又給足情感滋養?
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我給家長幾個建議當參考:

一、給孩子選擇權:讓他自己去嘗試,當他親身經歷後,必然能掌握經驗,讓他一輩子受用,對他往後的人生墊下穩健的基石。
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二、把握尺度:愛也要有限度,比如食物的調味,適量的糖帶來甜蜜,過量帶來身體負擔,對健康造成傷害。愛也是一樣,如果給太多,孩子會有壓力,甚至引來更大的叛逆。適度的關愛,才能讓親子關係和諧。
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三、立下規矩:父母的身教跟言教對家庭發展有舉足輕重的作用,以自身做榜樣給孩子學習,能給孩子一個典範,孩子在做人處事上有了依規,就不會無所適從。如果父母給孩子立的原則,自己都做不到,就不該拿來要求孩子。
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關於親子教育的問題,您有什麼想法和建議也歡迎留言,我們一起努力,給孩子創造一個良好的成長環境,奠定他人生成就的基礎。
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【Saturday Online Global Group Practice】 How should you love “disobedient children”?

Parental love is the most selfless love on earth. There is no tool in the world that is able to measure the devotion and affection of parents toward their children. But what is the right way to love a child, especially to a child who does not listen? How to love adequately and yet not to spoil the child?

I have some suggestions for parents to consider:

1. Give the child the right to choose. Let him try. Lessons learnt through personal experience will stay with him throughout his life. The experience will provide solid cornerstone for his future.

2. Love in moderation. Love also has limit. Like food seasoning, the right amount of sugar brings sweetness but excessive sugar is harmful to our body. Love is similar. Too much love will give the child pressure and may even lead to greater rebellion. Adequate amount of love is the key to great parent-child relationship.

3. Set rules. Parents should lead by example and be role models for the children. As parents, if you are not able to observe the rules that you set, then you should not be imposing these rules on them.

I welcome you to share any suggestions or thoughts that you may have on parenting. Let us work together to create a good environment for the children to grow and develop. This will be the foundation for their future achievements in life.

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