[Meditation Journal – Lee Mei

[Meditation Journal - Lee Mei (金菩提宗師 Facebook)
[Meditation Journal – Lee Mei Lian] Before coming to Bodhi Meditation, my relationship with my mother was rather good. However, I could not recall when it started that whenever my mother came to have a chat with me, I would always correct her problems, such as lack of consideration of her behaviour or mannerism. My mother would be so angry and would say, “I do not want to talk to you!”
After I participated in the 8.5-Day Health and Happiness Retreat in 2013, I began to practice “The Meditation of Greater Illumination”. A few months later, I realized that I have become more stable and calmer. One day, when I was looking at my mum while chatting with her, a realization suddenly came across my mind.
All this while, my mother just wanted to find a topic to chat with me and at the same time, complaining about her troubles. She might find it inappropriate to talk to her friends or neighbours about the matter and thus came to talk to me instead. Thinking of it, I felt that I was harsh on her. In the past, I did not feel that there was any problem with it. From that moment on, I stopped correcting my mother and now our conversation is more harmonious!

【见证禅修 – 李美莲 】
在来菩提禅修之前,我跟母亲的关系其实都挺好的。但是不知从什么时候开始,当母亲找我聊天时,我总会纠正她的毛病,像行为举止缺乏考量或失仪,母亲常常被我气得要命,直呼:“不要跟你讲了!”
我在2013年参加了”菩提禅修健身班”之后,便开始修练”无量大光明修持法“。几个月后,我发现自己更沉稳平静了。有一天,当我默默地望着跟我闲聊的母亲时,突然有所领悟。
其实母亲一路来只是想找话题跟我聊,顺便抱怨一下平时的烦心事。这些事情,可能是她不方便跟朋友或邻居谈的,所以只好找女儿倾诉。想到这,我就觉得我对母亲苛刻了。而过去的我,并不会觉得自己这样做有什么不对。从那一刻开始,我不再纠正母亲,现在我们的交谈更融洽了!
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This sharing represents the sharer’s personal view. It does not represent the view point of Bodhi Meditation nor its Facebook Page. Benefits from meditation varies for individuals. #BodhiMeditation #Testimonial #HealthAndHappinessRetreat #TheMeditationofGreaterIllumination #Calm #Harmonious

分享人的意见仅代表个人观点, 不代表菩提禅修或其Facebook页面的观点; 禅修效果会因人而异。 #见证禅修 #菩提禅修 #健身班 #大光明修持法 #平静 #融洽

常憶念感恩母親 對我們無微不至的照顧!


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青春與沉穩的拉鋸戰,你喜歡哪一個? . …

青春與沉穩的拉鋸戰,你喜歡哪一個?
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一個25歲的青年,嘻嘻哈哈的那個我,
你覺得25歲和52歲哪個年齡更好?
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我當時就是52歲!!我說:
「25歲衝動、折騰,52歲平靜、清淨。」—金菩提宗師—

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青春,是一群人的比賽,是熱血沸騰的歡騰,喜歡橫衝直撞,喜歡高聲呐喊,是一場場不需理由的瘋狂。
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後來,生命是一個人的戰爭。要學習鎮定冷靜,面對職場上、家族間,各種角色混雜於一生的戰爭中。小心察言觀色,去了解每一個人的性格,謹慎應對,直到能夠沉穩中和諧處事。
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青春與沉穩,一場關於成長的拉鋸戰。..
無論輸贏,不需評斷優劣,只需珍惜現在,把握未來。
祝福大家,集青春與沉穩於一身,鍛鍊生命、成就智慧與圓滿。
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A tug of war between being Youthful or Stable; what is your preference?
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A 25 year old young man, the “I” that was full of laughter.
Which do you prefer? 25 years old or 52 years old?
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When I was 52 years old, I replied:
“25-year-old tends to be impulsive and restless while 52-year-old is more stable and calm”—Grandmaster JinBodhi

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Youth is a competition among a group of people. It is the jubilation of the hot-blooded. When you feel like it, you push your way through or even scream to your heart’s content. It is a craze that does not need justification.
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In the later years of our life, life becomes a man’s battle. We must learn to remain calm and clear-headed when dealing with career, family and other roles which we are concurrently playing in our life. We must learn to observe and understand the character of every person so as to be tactful in dealing with others and acquire the ability to settle matters amicably in a calm manner.
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Young or stable, a tug of war in the growing up process.
Regardless of whichever wins, there is no need to make judgement on which is better or more superior, we only need to seize the present and shape the future.
May all enjoy youth and stability, be accomplished and wise!
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#Calm, #Peaceful, #GrowingUp, #25YearOld, #52YearOld, #Stable, #Young, #Young、#平靜、 #清淨、 #成長、 #25歲、 #52歲、 #沉穩、 #青春rnrn青春與沉穩的拉鋸戰,你喜歡哪一個?
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一個25歲的青年,嘻嘻哈哈的那個我,
你覺得25歲和52歲哪個年齡更好?
.
我當時就是52歲!!我說:
「25歲衝動、折騰,52歲平靜、清淨。」—金菩提宗師—

———————————————————————————–
青春,是一群人的比賽,是熱血沸騰的歡騰,喜歡橫衝直撞,喜歡高聲呐喊,是一場場不需理由的瘋狂。
.
後來,生命是一個人的戰爭。要學習鎮定冷靜,面對職場上、家族間,各種角色混雜於一生的戰爭中。小心察言觀色,去了解每一個人的性格,謹慎應對,直到能夠沉穩中和諧處事。
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青春與沉穩,一場關於成長的拉鋸戰。..
無論輸贏,不需評斷優劣,只需珍惜現在,把握未來。
祝福大家,集青春與沉穩於一身,鍛鍊生命、成就智慧與圓滿。
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A tug of war between being Youthful or Stable; what is your preference?
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A 25 year old young man, the “I” that was full of laughter.
Which do you prefer? 25 years old or 52 years old?
.
When I was 52 years old, I replied:
“25-year-old tends to be impulsive and restless while 52-year-old is more stable and calm”—Grandmaster JinBodhi

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Youth is a competition among a group of people. It is the jubilation of the hot-blooded. When you feel like it, you push your way through or even scream to your heart’s content. It is a craze that does not need justification.
.
In the later years of our life, life becomes a man’s battle. We must learn to remain calm and clear-headed when dealing with career, family and other roles which we are concurrently playing in our life. We must learn to observe and understand the character of every person so as to be tactful in dealing with others and acquire the ability to settle matters amicably in a calm manner.
.
Young or stable, a tug of war in the growing up process.
Regardless of whichever wins, there is no need to make judgement on which is better or more superior, we only need to seize the present and shape the future.
May all enjoy youth and stability, be accomplished and wise!
.
.
#Calm, #Peaceful, #GrowingUp, #25YearOld, #52YearOld, #Stable, #Young, #Young、#平靜、 #清淨、 #成長、 #25歲、 #52歲、 #沉穩、 #青春


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