【本週連載】《慈悲改變命運》之二
──慈悲有哪些特性？
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真正的慈悲，是落實在生活中的方方面面的。
那麼，一個慈悲的人在為人處事時，會表現出哪些與眾不同的特質呢？
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今天我就和大家來聊一聊慈悲的特性，看看你都具備了哪些？
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#慈悲 #特性 #愛心 #包容 #讚美 #柔軟
【六月台曆】 每日10次讚美，世界開始改…
【六月台曆】
每日10次讚美，世界開始改變。
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讚美的力量有多強大呢？
一句讚美，可以鼓舞一個羞怯的孩子，自信上台侃侃而談，也可能使浪子回頭，出現奇蹟似的轉變。
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我們不僅要學習如何讚美他人，更要練習讚美自己。
懂得讚美別人，不僅會讓對方進步，也能成就一個寬宏大度的自己。
懂得讚美自己，也一定會感受到，自我肯定的喜悅和能量。
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因為…
一句讚美，會讓自己的心情變好！
一句讚美，表示你自信陽光！
一句讚美，能幫助自己成長！
一句讚美，能讓人生更幸福！
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#讚美、#肯定、#成長、#幸福、#喜悅的能量
幸福怎麼來？ . 「讚美多一些，指責少一…
幸福怎麼來？
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「讚美多一些，指責少一點；幸福，就在眼前。」
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歡迎點擊下方連結，再次溫習「幸福從感恩開始」。
幸福從感恩開始_上
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#幸福從感恩開始
#讚美 #感恩
#金菩提禪語
How do we gain happiness?
「Praise more and criticize less; this is the basis for happiness.」
Welcome to click on the link below to revisit 「Happiness Starts With gratitude」.
Happiness Starts With Gratitude – Part 1
#HappinessStartsWithGratitude, #Praise, #Gratitude, #AphorismFromMasterJinBodhi
溝通中的平衡法則 . 夫妻間、親子間、同…
溝通中的平衡法則
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夫妻間、親子間、同事間、上下級之間……，
為什麼在不同的人際關係裡，都常出現種種誤會和不愉快？
這是因為彼此之間缺乏溝通，或溝通不當。
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人與人之間應該如何溝通？
溝通的過程中該怎樣面對負面的指責，
又如何面對生活中的讚美呢？
一起來學習吧!!
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#溝通、#接受、#忍辱、#讚美、#定力
The law of balance in communication
Between husband-wife, parent-child, work colleagues, and supervisor-subordinate……,
Why are there so many kinds of misunderstandings and unhappiness in such relationships?
This is due to the lack of inter-personal communication between these parties, or poor communication.
How should people communicate with one another?
How do we deal with negativity that develops during the process of communication; and
How do we manage the praises that we receive in life?
Let’s come and learn together!!
#Communication, #Accept, #Forbearance, #Praise, #Determination.
【壹月】一次微笑一條路，一句讚美能開山 …
【壹月】一次微笑一條路，一句讚美能開山
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想要擁有幸福快樂的生活，就要不吝惜讚美。
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少一份責備，多一份讚美，就有好日子過了。人都喜歡聽好話，透過讚美達到激勵的效果，這是非常高明的手段。多給他人一點讚美，不僅對方快樂，你自己也會快樂。可能因為我們的一句讚美，一個孩子就能成就非凡精彩的一生。
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用微笑去征服世界。將微笑送給他人，原諒別人的過錯、原諒別人帶給我的煩惱，因為我們可能也帶給他煩惱了；原諒我們的仇人，一切結的仇都是因為無知無明。
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今天的我最慈悲、最寬容，像大海一樣能夠接納一切。經常保持微笑和平靜，以一個好的心態來把握現在，創造未來。
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讚美、微笑，我們既是付出者，也是受益者，為別人帶來幸福美好的生活，也將為自己創造幸福美好的未來。
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#金菩提禪語、#讚美、#微笑、#一月
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[January] A smile will open doors, a praise will level mountains
If we want our lives to be filled with happiness and joy, we ought to be generous with our praises.
A good life is possible when there are more praises and less criticisms. Everybody likes to be praised. The ability to motivate people through praises is a very powerful skill. Praises not only make the recipient happy, they make us feel good as well. A word of praise may inspire a child to create a remarkable future for himself or herself.
Let us conquer the world with our smiles. As we smile at others, let us forgive them for the wrongs that they did to us, and for the troubles that they brought us. We need to understand that we might have caused them troubles too. Let us learn to forgive our enemies, as the reason that they hurt us is due to ignorance.
Today, I am the most compassionate and the most tolerant; like the ocean, I can embrace everything. As I aspire to keep a smile on my face and peace in my heart, I will live in the present and create the future with a positive mindset.
As we give out smiles and praises, we will receive benefits as well. Even as we bring forth happiness and joy in other people’s lives, we will be creating happiness and joy in our own futures.
#MasterJinBodhiAphorism #Praise #Smile #January
一句讚美，一把鑰匙。 . 我看過一本愛情…
一句讚美，一把鑰匙。
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我看過一本愛情小說，作者開宗明義第一句話就寫著：
「如果，他對我好一點，給我一點微笑，哪怕是假裝的，我都不會離開他。」
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我看了之後很震驚，結果去翻一下類似的資料，原來好多女士都曾這麼說。只因為你的一句好話，她為你做牛做馬都甘之如飴。
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#金菩提禪語、 #讚美、 #鑰匙、 #覺悟之眼看起落人生
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The key to a happy and lasting relationship lies in a compliment
The first sentence in a romance novel I’ve seen stated that:
「If he treats me a little better, gives me a smile, or even if he is pretending, I will not forsake him.」
I was stunned by this quote, did some research and found that most women agree to this. With just a compliment, she will happily and willingly slog for you.
#AphorismOfMasterJinBodhi, #Compliments, #Key, #LookingAtLifeThroughEnlightenedEyesrnrn一句讚美，一把鑰匙。
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我看過一本愛情小說，作者開宗明義第一句話就寫著：
「如果，他對我好一點，給我一點微笑，哪怕是假裝的，我都不會離開他。」
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我看了之後很震驚，結果去翻一下類似的資料，原來好多女士都曾這麼說。只因為你的一句好話，她為你做牛做馬都甘之如飴。
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#金菩提禪語、 #讚美、 #鑰匙、 #覺悟之眼看起落人生
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The key to a happy and lasting relationship lies in a compliment
The first sentence in a romance novel I’ve seen stated that:
「If he treats me a little better, gives me a smile, or even if he is pretending, I will not forsake him.」
I was stunned by this quote, did some research and found that most women agree to this. With just a compliment, she will happily and willingly slog for you.
#AphorismOfMasterJinBodhi, #Compliments, #Key, #LookingAtLifeThroughEnlightenedEyes