讓孩子擁有大富大貴的秘法
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家長送給子女最寶貴的財富，絕對不是資產、不是金錢，應該是一份關愛、真誠、信用，還有最重要的是慈悲、以及善良的「行為引導」。
否則我們將會面臨「富不過三代」萬年詛咒的窘境。因為，沒有一個善良的引導，你很難堅持下去。
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想想當年你自己在創造財富的理由是什麼呢?
是因為沒錢過生活? 因為想要買車、買房？因為想要娶老婆? 所以努力拼搏！而你的孩子，在你一切都幫他打點好了，他面對已經有財富的家庭時怎麼辦、他該怎麼創造更美好，更富有的未來呢?
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至高的財富怎麼來?
我們必須引導兒女，當家裡有錢了，我要為更多的窮人創造財富。
學會：因為「我擁有」，所以要「善用」並且分享，幫助也同樣需要的人！
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所以父母送給子女的，應該來自於「慈悲的引導」。
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家長應該引領兒女，認真地去看這個世界、瞭解這個世界，去看到多少貧苦地方的人沒有飯吃、多少夫妻，因為因為沒有錢幫自己或帶孩子看病，而天人永隔；多少老人因為沒有錢，死了連副棺材都沒有、火葬費都掏不起啊。
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再看看現在有許多女孩，她們的衣櫥、鞋櫃裡永遠少那麼一件東西，男孩子為了耍酷耍威風，向父母、向銀行借錢買車、買房，往往一個人買的物品，就足夠貧窮國家，一家人三年的的生活費用。
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家長們要學會引領孩子去認識這些，你的孩子才可能開始「懂事」、才可能學會「感恩」、才可能懂得了「不亂花錢」，更要重要的是讓他學會去為那些窮人去創造財富。
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幫助孩子們，昇華他的願望、去創造一個偉大的人生和品格，這才是財富永恆，大富大貴的秘法。
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The Secret to Granting your Children the Gift of Good Fortune
The most precious thing that parents can give their children is not property or money, but love, sincerity, trust, and most importantly, compassion, and guiding them towards kind behavior. Otherwise, we will find ourselves in the sad predicament summed up by the Chinese idiom “Wealth is never retained for more than three generations”. It is very difficult for good fortune to sustain in the absence of kindness.
Ask yourself: What was the primary reason that drove you to build your own wealth in the past? Was it because you were poor then? Was it because you wanted to own a car and house? Or was it because you wanted to get married? Did these motivate you to work hard? Now think about your child: Where will he find the motivation to build a better and richer future for himself when you have everything planned out for him? When he is already living in a wealthy environment?
What we should do instead is to teach our children that they should build wealth not for themselves but to benefit those who are poor. Instill in them the thinking that “Because I have money, that’s why I can use it well, to share and use what I have to help others in need!”
Parents should take the lead and give their children guidance on being “compassionate”. They should teach their children to pay close attention to the world; to develop a deeper understanding of the world around them; to see for themselves that there are many poor places where the people are starving; where many couples have to experience the pain of eternal separation because they could not afford a doctor’s fees; where many elderly are so poor that there is not enough money even for a casket or to cremate their bodies after they have passed on.
In contrast, look at the young women of today who seem to always need that additional piece of clothing or that additional pair of shoes, or the young men who, in order to look good, take loans from their parents or banks to purchase a car or a house. The amount of money spent by one such young person may be sufficient to feed an entire family in a poor country for three years.
Parents have to guide their children to be aware of these, so that they will grow up to be sensible adults who are grateful for what they have and who have learned to be prudent with money. Most importantly, they will learn how important it is to build wealth to benefit the poor.
The greatest wealth must be something that will elevate your dreams and your creations.
Recall the Medicine Buddha’s vow: “As my body radiates compassionate light, I vow to grant my compassion, wisdom and all things good to anybody who is in need, so that they can all be like me, radiating illuminating light from their hearts to light up the entire world, so that everyone can have all that I have.”
Help the children and guide them to build noble lives and character – that is the secret to eternal wealth and good fortune.
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家長送給子女最寶貴的財富，絕對不是資產、不是金錢，應該是一份關愛、真誠、信用，還有最重要的是慈悲、以及善良的「行為引導」。
否則我們將會面臨「富不過三代」萬年詛咒的窘境。因為，沒有一個善良的引導，你很難堅持下去。
.
想想當年你自己在創造財富的理由是什麼呢?
是因為沒錢過生活? 因為想要買車、買房？因為想要娶老婆? 所以努力拼搏！而你的孩子，在你一切都幫他打點好了，他面對已經有財富的家庭時怎麼辦、他該怎麼創造更美好，更富有的未來呢?
.
至高的財富怎麼來?
我們必須引導兒女，當家裡有錢了，我要為更多的窮人創造財富。
學會：因為「我擁有」，所以要「善用」並且分享，幫助也同樣需要的人！
.
所以父母送給子女的，應該來自於「慈悲的引導」。
.
家長應該引領兒女，認真地去看這個世界、瞭解這個世界，去看到多少貧苦地方的人沒有飯吃、多少夫妻，因為因為沒有錢幫自己或帶孩子看病，而天人永隔；多少老人因為沒有錢，死了連副棺材都沒有、火葬費都掏不起啊。
.
再看看現在有許多女孩，她們的衣櫥、鞋櫃裡永遠少那麼一件東西，男孩子為了耍酷耍威風，向父母、向銀行借錢買車、買房，往往一個人買的物品，就足夠貧窮國家，一家人三年的的生活費用。
.
家長們要學會引領孩子去認識這些，你的孩子才可能開始「懂事」、才可能學會「感恩」、才可能懂得了「不亂花錢」，更要重要的是讓他學會去為那些窮人去創造財富。
.
幫助孩子們，昇華他的願望、去創造一個偉大的人生和品格，這才是財富永恆，大富大貴的秘法。
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.
.
#部分節錄_20170225fb直播開示、 #慈悲的引導、 #至高的財富、 #大富大貴、 #給兒女最好的禮物、 #秘法
.
.
The Secret to Granting your Children the Gift of Good Fortune
The most precious thing that parents can give their children is not property or money, but love, sincerity, trust, and most importantly, compassion, and guiding them towards kind behavior. Otherwise, we will find ourselves in the sad predicament summed up by the Chinese idiom “Wealth is never retained for more than three generations”. It is very difficult for good fortune to sustain in the absence of kindness.
Ask yourself: What was the primary reason that drove you to build your own wealth in the past? Was it because you were poor then? Was it because you wanted to own a car and house? Or was it because you wanted to get married? Did these motivate you to work hard? Now think about your child: Where will he find the motivation to build a better and richer future for himself when you have everything planned out for him? When he is already living in a wealthy environment?
What we should do instead is to teach our children that they should build wealth not for themselves but to benefit those who are poor. Instill in them the thinking that “Because I have money, that’s why I can use it well, to share and use what I have to help others in need!”
Parents should take the lead and give their children guidance on being “compassionate”. They should teach their children to pay close attention to the world; to develop a deeper understanding of the world around them; to see for themselves that there are many poor places where the people are starving; where many couples have to experience the pain of eternal separation because they could not afford a doctor’s fees; where many elderly are so poor that there is not enough money even for a casket or to cremate their bodies after they have passed on.
In contrast, look at the young women of today who seem to always need that additional piece of clothing or that additional pair of shoes, or the young men who, in order to look good, take loans from their parents or banks to purchase a car or a house. The amount of money spent by one such young person may be sufficient to feed an entire family in a poor country for three years.
Parents have to guide their children to be aware of these, so that they will grow up to be sensible adults who are grateful for what they have and who have learned to be prudent with money. Most importantly, they will learn how important it is to build wealth to benefit the poor.
The greatest wealth must be something that will elevate your dreams and your creations.
Recall the Medicine Buddha’s vow: “As my body radiates compassionate light, I vow to grant my compassion, wisdom and all things good to anybody who is in need, so that they can all be like me, radiating illuminating light from their hearts to light up the entire world, so that everyone can have all that I have.”
Help the children and guide them to build noble lives and character – that is the secret to eternal wealth and good fortune.
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