模範夫妻過七夕
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農曆七月初七是中國傳統節日「七夕」，
是傳說中牛郎織女鵲橋相會的日子，
也被認為是中國的「情人節」。
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曾有人說：「吵架最少的一對模範夫妻，就是牛郎織女，距離產生美，每年只能見一次面，說甜蜜話都來不及了，哪有時間吵架呢？」想想似乎真有點道理，古人云：人生若只如初見。乍見之歡容易，久處不厭卻是難上加難。天天膩在身邊，難免會產生厭倦、想逃離、去尋找所謂的自由。所以適當地保留各自空間，不失為夫妻長久相處的好辦法。
語言上，也要掌握不口出惡言的原則，不要以為「親人就無須見外了」，隨便講話、發洩傷人，也會在無形中消磨感情。適當的距離產生適當的尊重與美感，彼此便會更加珍惜，發現對方更多的優點，丈夫發現妻子絮叨裡充滿了關愛，妻子發現丈夫的粗枝大葉中充滿了力量感，任你再強的脾氣也禁不住幾句噓寒問暖、讚美鼓勵。和諧的夫妻關係，可以帶來家庭的安定與慰藉，還能帶給孩子心靈的滋養。
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七夕節，祝福大家情人節快樂，願人人都能擁有美好與甜蜜的家庭生活。
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#七夕、#情人節、#模範夫妻相處之道rnrnHow role model couples celebrate Qixi Festival?
Qixi Festival falls on the seventh day of the seventh lunar month. According to legend, it is a day when cowherd meets his beloved weaver girl on the bridge form by a flock of magpies. This day is also know as the Chinese Valentine day.
Someone once remarked: “The best role model couple with the least argument is the cowherd and the weaver girl. Distance breeds sweetness. When a couple gets to meet each other only once a year, they will be busy whispering loving words to each other and have no time for quarrels.” What was said sounded logical. As the ancient saying goes: “If only everyday life is similar to lovers meeting for the first time, life would be a bliss. It is easy to fall in love at first sight; however, it is extremely difficult to not grow tire of each other in the long run. When two people see each other every day, it is inevitable for conflict to arise and some may even long to get away from one another. Hence, it is advisable for couples to maintain their own personal space.
Language wise, refrain from using nasty words. Do not think that it is unnecessary to spare a thought for your spouse’s feelings because you are a family. To hurl hurtful words at one another will strain a relationship over time. Keeping an appropriate distance breeds respect and love and the couple may discover their spouse’s inherent positive attributes and treasure each other more. Husband detects his wife’s love and concern beneath her constant nags and wife recognizes the strength in her husband’s tactlessness. Always remember to ask after your spouse’s well being and be more generous in your praises.
A harmonious relationship between a husband and wife stabilizes a family and nourishes their children psychologically.
May all enjoy a Happy Valentine’s day on Qixi festival, lead a happy and sweet family life.
#QixiFestival, #ValentineDay, #HowRoleModelCouplesGetAlong
