標籤: #人際關係

好人緣是有方法的，婆媳問題也有解藥！
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一個女同修的真實故事，她和公婆長達17年不相往來，在禪修之後，竟然莫名和公公婆婆和好了，成為街坊鄰里間的一段美談。
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她說：「最早，我和公婆住在一起，但是因為婆婆太霸道、太自私，不管我做什麼，婆婆都要求我必須聽從她，否則就大發雷霆，也不讓我和鄰居來往。我無法接受這樣的生活，更不想每天和婆婆為家庭瑣事吵架。婆婆還經常趕我走、不走就把我的東西往門外扔。我在走投無路之下就搬回娘家住了，這一住就是17年。」
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在她還沒禪修之前，她覺得婆婆太狠毒了，自己受到的傷害太深，每當提到婆婆兩字，就覺得身體發冷、發抖，即使在大熱天也是這樣。17年過去了，她和孩子再也沒去過婆家一次，不敢提、更不敢去看她。
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可後來參加了菩提禪修之後，她開始懂得了「慈悲、善良」，心胸變開闊了、也學會了寬容，不再記恨老人家了。她上婆婆家，去向公公婆婆懺悔道歉，婆媳間17年的積怨終於化解開了，村裡的鄰里鄉親也都感動不已。
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人際關係不良的原因，很多都是由「不自信和不信任」所引起的，導致心理上產生焦慮，甚至恐慌等，各種傷害對方，或攻擊對方的行為。如果內心變得光明，自信充足，自然也就沒有恐懼了。
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那麼，到底該如何克服，每個人心中的那塊黑色地帶，使自己的心性光明起來，從而改善人際關係呢？
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讓我們在這週六的共修中，一起來聊聊《健康快樂的起點》。
歡迎大家在這留言暢談，祝福朋友們更健康、更智慧、更快樂！
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【全球各地網路共修時間】

1. 臺北/北京/馬來西亞/新加坡 時間：２０１７年１２月３０日，上午９：００開始　
２.韓國時間：２０１７年１２月３０日，上午１０：００開始　
３.北美東部時間：２０１７年１2月２９日，晚上８：００開始　
４.北美太平洋時間：２０１７年１2月２９日，晚上５：００開始
５.澳洲墨爾本時間：２０１７年１2月３０日，中午１１：００開始　
６.印尼雅加達時間：２０１７年１2月３０日，上午８：００開始
７.羅馬尼亞時間：２０１７年１２月３０日，淩晨４：００開始
８.英國倫敦時間：２０１７年１２月３０日，淩晨２：００開始　
９.澳洲(悉尼)時間：２０１７年１２月３０日，早上１１：００開始　
１０.緬甸（仰光）時間：２０１７年１２月３０日，早上７：３０開始　

備註：各地禪堂一般共修時間為星期六上午９：００開始，欲前往各地禪堂參與共修者，請事先諮詢各地禪堂，以當地時間為主。
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#週六網路共修、#菩提禪修、#人際關係、#金菩提宗師開示、#婆媳問題、#慈悲、#善良、#信任rnrnThere are ways to enhance interpersonal and in-law relationships
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A true story of a female practitioner, she and her in-laws were not in contact for 17 years. After she started meditation, she miraculously mended her relationship with them and this became a much-talked-about topic among neighbors.
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She said, “I stayed with my in-laws initially, but my mother-in-law was over bearing and too selfish. She wanted me to listen to her. If I don’t, she would act up and refuse to let me interact with my neighbors. I can’t accept this kind of life and I don’t want to quarrel with her on family trivial every day. There were times that she threw my things out of the house and wanted me to go. I couldn’t stand it anymore so I moved back to live with my mother and 17 years passed.
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Before she started meditation, she felt that her mother-law was too vicious and hurt her deeply. Whenever someone mentioned her mother-in-law, she would have cold shivers, even on a hot day. She and her children did not visit her in-laws for 17 years.
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However, through meditation, she began to understand “compassion and kindness”. Her heart opens up and she becomes more tolerant and forgiving. She went to her in-laws’ house to apologize and seek forgiveness. 17 years of accumulated resentment finally resolved and neighbors were happy for them too.
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A lack of self-confidence and trust causes poor human relationship and psychological anxiety. Such fear and panic may lead to reactive harmful actions. If the inner heart is bright and fills with confidence, there will be no fear.
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So how do we overcome that dark spot so that we can shine brightly and improve our relationship with others?
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Let’s talk about the “Meditation: The Beginning of Health and Happiness” during Saturday’s group practice.
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Welcome all to join in this discussion.
May all friends be healthier, wiser and happier!
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Online Global Group Practice Schedules:
1. Taipei/ Beijing/ Malaysia/ Singapore: Dec 30, 2017, at 9:00hrs
2. Korea: Dec 30, 2017, at 10:00hrs
3. North America (Eastern Zone): Dec 29, 2017 at 21:00hrs
4. North America (Pacific Zone): Dec 29, 2017 at 18:00hrs
5. Melbourne (Australia): Dec 30, 2017, at 11:00hrs
6. Jakarta (Indonesia): Dec 30, 2017, at 8:00hrs
7. Romania: Dec 30, 2017, at 4:00hrs
8. London (United Kingdom): Dec 30, 2017, at 2:00hrs
9. Sydney (Australia): Dec 30, 2017, at 11:00hrs
10. Yangon (Myanmar): Dec 30, 2017, at 07:30hrs
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(Group practice generally starts at 9.00 a.m. in all Bodhi Meditation Centers. It is advisable to call your local center for confirmation.)
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