【金菩提禪語】 . 有時候福和禍是相依存…

【金菩提禪語】
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有時候福和禍是相依存的,
每個人都需要去面對,
我們要學習正確地對待它,
福和禍用平常心去看待,就會是美好的。
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[ Grandmaster JinBodhi’s Aphorism ]

There are times when fortune and misfortune are correlated.
Everyone needs to face them and handle them with the right approach.
Regard blessing and calamity with a calm mind.
Life will then be wonderful.
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#金菩提禪語. #平常心. #福禍相倚rnrn【金菩提禪語】
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有時候福和禍是相依存的,
每個人都需要去面對,
我們要學習正確地對待它,
福和禍用平常心去看待,就會是美好的。
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[ Grandmaster JinBodhi’s Aphorism ]

There are times when fortune and misfortune are correlated.
Everyone needs to face them and handle them with the right approach.
Regard blessing and calamity with a calm mind.
Life will then be wonderful.
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#金菩提禪語. #平常心. #福禍相倚


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直播預告: 今天,2017年2月19日,…

直播預告:
今天,2017年2月19日,亞洲台北/新加坡/馬來西亞/北京時間下午2:00開始直播。
直播主題:月光
歡迎大家!
【全球各地直播時間對照】
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1.臺北/北京/馬來西亞/新加坡 時間:
2017年2月19日下午 2:00 開始
2.韓國時間:2017年2月19日,下午 3:00 開始
3.北美東部時間:2017年2月19日,凌晨 1:00 開始
4.北美太平洋時間: 2017年2月18日,晚上 10:00 開始
5.澳洲墨爾本時間:2017年2月19日,下午 5:00 開始
6.印尼雅加達時間:2017年2月19日,下午 1:00 開始
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Live Broadcast Notice:
We will begin our live broadcast tomorrow on February 19th, 2017 in Taipei/ Singapore/ Malaysia/ Beijing time zone at 14:00 hrs
Topic: Moonlight
All are welcomed to join us!
Global Live Broadcast schedules:
1. Taipei / Beijing / Malaysia / Singapore: Feb 19, 2017 at 14 :00 hrs
2. Korea: Feb 19, 2017 at 15:00 hrs
3. North America (Eastern zone): Feb 19, 2017 at 1:00 hrs
4. North America (Pacific zone): Feb 18, 2017 at 22:00 hrs
5. Melbourne (Australia): Feb 19, 2017 at 17:00 hrs
6. Jakarta (Indonesia): Feb 19, 2017 at 13:00 hrsrnrn直播預告:
今天,2017年2月19日,亞洲台北/新加坡/馬來西亞/北京時間下午2:00開始直播。
直播主題:月光
歡迎大家!
【全球各地直播時間對照】
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1.臺北/北京/馬來西亞/新加坡 時間:
2017年2月19日下午 2:00 開始
2.韓國時間:2017年2月19日,下午 3:00 開始
3.北美東部時間:2017年2月19日,凌晨 1:00 開始
4.北美太平洋時間: 2017年2月18日,晚上 10:00 開始
5.澳洲墨爾本時間:2017年2月19日,下午 5:00 開始
6.印尼雅加達時間:2017年2月19日,下午 1:00 開始
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Live Broadcast Notice:
We will begin our live broadcast tomorrow on February 19th, 2017 in Taipei/ Singapore/ Malaysia/ Beijing time zone at 14:00 hrs
Topic: Moonlight
All are welcomed to join us!
Global Live Broadcast schedules:
1. Taipei / Beijing / Malaysia / Singapore: Feb 19, 2017 at 14 :00 hrs
2. Korea: Feb 19, 2017 at 15:00 hrs
3. North America (Eastern zone): Feb 19, 2017 at 1:00 hrs
4. North America (Pacific zone): Feb 18, 2017 at 22:00 hrs
5. Melbourne (Australia): Feb 19, 2017 at 17:00 hrs
6. Jakarta (Indonesia): Feb 19, 2017 at 13:00 hrs


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因為我還活著,所以我很快樂。 . . 我…

因為我還活著,所以我很快樂。
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我記得有一位佛教的大師,有一段時間他在閉關修行。
閉關修行是秘密的,幫他一起護法閉關的弟子呢,就很笨很笨,還有個愛睡覺的毛病。
師父閉關的時候需要喝一點水,弟子竟然自己躲著偷懶睡覺去了;師父在洞裡,往外看,誒,徒弟找不到啦?嘿,口渴就忍著吧!
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這位修行的大師閉關了幾天幾夜,一滴水都沒喝。
到他該出關的時間呢,來迎接的人看到師父在裡面睡著了,其中一位很緊張喊道:「師父,您醒醒啊醒醒,您還好嗎?」
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師父眼睛睜開後突然笑了,坐起來說:「我醒了,我很快樂」。
弟子問:「師父您為何這麼快樂?瞧您餓了這麼多天,我們特地來迎接您 出關。(大家都知道那個徒弟有點笨,肯定搞得師父筋疲力盡了。所以特地來迎請師父出關)
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師父醒來笑著說:「我很快樂啊!」
弟子問:「您快樂什麼啊,你得到禪境中的法喜嗎?」
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師父說:「法喜已經過去了。」
「那你剛才難道做了什麼好夢啦?」弟子問
師父說:「沒有。」
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「那為什麼您那麼高興呢?」弟子緊追著問
師父說:「因為我看到你們呐!」
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「看到我們有什麼高興的呀?」 弟子問
師父說:「因為證明我還活著!」。
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弟子們各個瞪大眼睛問:「證明自己還活著,您就高興得嘴都咧到腮幫子上來了啊?」
「對!」師父說:「人身難得,如果我還證明自己活著的話,我已經很快樂了」 。
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因為覺得「我很快樂」,這個原因就是「我還活著」 。
每天早上醒來,也給自己加上這個意念吧,我還活著所以我很快樂,珍惜每天睜開眼睛還能健健康康,向陽光打招呼,如此您的每天將會是幸福、感恩與感動滿滿的!!!
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#我還活著、#開示故事、#修行
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I am so happy to be ALIVE!

I remember a Buddhist master who went on an extended meditation retreat in a cave by himself. As this was a secretive spiritual retreat, he only brought along a disciple to attend to him during the retreat. However, the disciple that came along was a lazy and foolish person. When the master went into a meditative state, he found himself a hide-out to laze around. So when the master had a break from his meditation and needed some drinking water, he was not able to locate his disciple. As such, he had no choice but to endure his thirst.
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This lasted for several days. When it was finally time for him to leave his meditation state, several other disciples came to the cave to greet him. When they found him still in a deep sleep, they tried to wake him up.
The moment the master woke up, he grinned, “I’m very happy to be awake.”
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The disciples could not comprehend and one of them asked, “Master, how can you be happy when you have starved for so many days?”
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The master simply rose up, smiled and repeated what he said earlier, “Indeed, I am very happy.”
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Another asked, “Master, have you attained the bliss in meditation?”
The master responded, “Yes but the bliss was already over.”
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“Was it a good dream that you just had?” another followed.
“No”, the master replied.
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“Why are you so happy then?”
The master said, “I am happy because I see all of you!”
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“What’s there to be happy about when you see us?” one asked.
The master said: “That means I am still alive!”
The disciples, with eyes wide-opened, asked, “You’re grinning from ear to ear just because you proved that you are still alive?”
“Indeed! The human form is precious and because I can prove that I am still alive, I am very happy.” said the master.
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“I am happy because I’m still alive”
When you wake up in the morning, give yourself a thought – I am happy because I am still alive. Cherish every day as you open your eyes. Be thankful that you are still healthy. Greet the sunshine and enjoy the day. If you can do this, every day of your life will be filled with happiness, gratitude and zest!!

.# I’m still alive, # Dharma story, # Meditative practicernrn因為我還活著,所以我很快樂。
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我記得有一位佛教的大師,有一段時間他在閉關修行。
閉關修行是秘密的,幫他一起護法閉關的弟子呢,就很笨很笨,還有個愛睡覺的毛病。
師父閉關的時候需要喝一點水,弟子竟然自己躲著偷懶睡覺去了;師父在洞裡,往外看,誒,徒弟找不到啦?嘿,口渴就忍著吧!
.
這位修行的大師閉關了幾天幾夜,一滴水都沒喝。
到他該出關的時間呢,來迎接的人看到師父在裡面睡著了,其中一位很緊張喊道:「師父,您醒醒啊醒醒,您還好嗎?」
.
師父眼睛睜開後突然笑了,坐起來說:「我醒了,我很快樂」。
弟子問:「師父您為何這麼快樂?瞧您餓了這麼多天,我們特地來迎接您 出關。(大家都知道那個徒弟有點笨,肯定搞得師父筋疲力盡了。所以特地來迎請師父出關)
.
師父醒來笑著說:「我很快樂啊!」
弟子問:「您快樂什麼啊,你得到禪境中的法喜嗎?」
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師父說:「法喜已經過去了。」
「那你剛才難道做了什麼好夢啦?」弟子問
師父說:「沒有。」
.
「那為什麼您那麼高興呢?」弟子緊追著問
師父說:「因為我看到你們呐!」
.
「看到我們有什麼高興的呀?」 弟子問
師父說:「因為證明我還活著!」。
.
弟子們各個瞪大眼睛問:「證明自己還活著,您就高興得嘴都咧到腮幫子上來了啊?」
「對!」師父說:「人身難得,如果我還證明自己活著的話,我已經很快樂了」 。
.
因為覺得「我很快樂」,這個原因就是「我還活著」 。
每天早上醒來,也給自己加上這個意念吧,我還活著所以我很快樂,珍惜每天睜開眼睛還能健健康康,向陽光打招呼,如此您的每天將會是幸福、感恩與感動滿滿的!!!
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#我還活著、#開示故事、#修行
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I am so happy to be ALIVE!

I remember a Buddhist master who went on an extended meditation retreat in a cave by himself. As this was a secretive spiritual retreat, he only brought along a disciple to attend to him during the retreat. However, the disciple that came along was a lazy and foolish person. When the master went into a meditative state, he found himself a hide-out to laze around. So when the master had a break from his meditation and needed some drinking water, he was not able to locate his disciple. As such, he had no choice but to endure his thirst.
.
This lasted for several days. When it was finally time for him to leave his meditation state, several other disciples came to the cave to greet him. When they found him still in a deep sleep, they tried to wake him up.
The moment the master woke up, he grinned, “I’m very happy to be awake.”
.
The disciples could not comprehend and one of them asked, “Master, how can you be happy when you have starved for so many days?”
.
The master simply rose up, smiled and repeated what he said earlier, “Indeed, I am very happy.”
.
Another asked, “Master, have you attained the bliss in meditation?”
The master responded, “Yes but the bliss was already over.”
.
“Was it a good dream that you just had?” another followed.
“No”, the master replied.
.
“Why are you so happy then?”
The master said, “I am happy because I see all of you!”
.
“What’s there to be happy about when you see us?” one asked.
The master said: “That means I am still alive!”
The disciples, with eyes wide-opened, asked, “You’re grinning from ear to ear just because you proved that you are still alive?”
“Indeed! The human form is precious and because I can prove that I am still alive, I am very happy.” said the master.
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“I am happy because I’m still alive”
When you wake up in the morning, give yourself a thought – I am happy because I am still alive. Cherish every day as you open your eyes. Be thankful that you are still healthy. Greet the sunshine and enjoy the day. If you can do this, every day of your life will be filled with happiness, gratitude and zest!!

.# I’m still alive, # Dharma story, # Meditative practice


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返璞歸真 #禪的境界 . 「修行」與「修…

返璞歸真

#禪的境界
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「修行」與「修禪」,都是為了回歸到人類最返璞歸真的境界,這就是「禪」的境界。
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就像嬰兒的大腦,是不受汙染的,也是能量最強的,直覺反應是非常強、非常真實的——彰顯了人本性當中最直截了當、最清淨的狀態,歸真到極致的狀態 。
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圖片來源:昵圖網改製rnrn返璞歸真

#禪的境界
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「修行」與「修禪」,都是為了回歸到人類最返璞歸真的境界,這就是「禪」的境界。
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就像嬰兒的大腦,是不受汙染的,也是能量最強的,直覺反應是非常強、非常真實的——彰顯了人本性當中最直截了當、最清淨的狀態,歸真到極致的狀態 。
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週六共修預告(2017年2月18日) #…

週六共修預告(2017年2月18日)
#新加坡重播開示
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一人修行,全家受益。

做慈善,都是大覺悟、大老闆的人才能做的事情嗎?
一個平凡的人要想改變貧窮,與諸多不順,想要變得富貴的話,其實是有秘訣的,佛陀曾經教導的方法,能讓我們發自內心的慈悲,發自內在的功德,讓富貴吉祥像太陽一樣永遠光亮沒有遮障。
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佛陀教給我們「富貴吉祥」的秘訣是什麼呢?
上週我在新加坡直播中已經給大家提示了,還不明白該如何去做的,或沒聽明白的,歡迎大伙兒本週六,與我繼續共同來研究佛陀「富貴吉祥」的秘法!
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【全球各地網絡共修時間】
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1.臺北/北京/馬來西亞/新加坡 時間:
2017年2月18日,上午9:00開始
2.韓國時間:2017年2月18日,上午10:00開始
3.北美東部時間:2017年2月17日,晚上8:00開始
4.北美太平洋時間: 2017年2月17日,晚上5:00開始
5.澳洲墨爾本時間:2017年2月18日,中午12:00開始
6.印尼雅加達時間:2017年2月18日,上午8:00開始

備註:各地禪堂一般共修時間為星期六上午9:00開始,請您諮詢各地禪堂時間為主。
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新加坡直播視頻連結:

#金菩提宗師開示、#週六網路共修、#新加坡重播開示、#富貴吉祥
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Online Global Group Practice on Saturday, February 18th, 2017
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Singapore Live Broadcast Dharma teaching
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When one practices the Way, the whole family can benefit.
Does it mean only bosses or the awakened ones could do charity work? There’s a secret for ordinary people who wish to break away from poverty, become wealthy and overcome obstacles. In fact, Buddha has taught us the way that will bring out the compassion in our hearts so wealth and auspiciousness shines bright like the sun.
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What is that secret taught by Buddha?”
I have mentioned the method in my live broadcast in Singapore last week. Those of you who are unsure how to go about doing it or do not understand my teaching, are welcomed to listen in to the group practice this Saturday. I will continue to explain the secret of attaining “wealth and auspiciousness” through the Buddha’s way!
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Online Global Group Practice Schedules:
1. Taipei / Beijing / Malaysia / Singapore: Feb 18, 2017 at 9:00 hrs
2. Korea: Feb 18, 2017 at 10:00 hrs
3. North America (Eastern zone): Feb 17, 2017 at 20:00 hrs
4. North America (Pacific zone): Feb 17, 2017 at 17:00 hrs
5. Melbourne (Australia): Feb 18, 2017 at 12:00 hrs
6. Jakarta (Indonesia): Feb 18, 2017 at 8:00 hrs
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(Live broadcast generally starts at 9.00am in your local center. It is advisable to call the Center for confirmation.)
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新加坡直播視頻連結:

#Grandmaster JinBodhi Teaching, #Online Global Group Practice on Saturday, #Singapore Live Broadcast, #Wealth and Auspiciousrnrn週六共修預告(2017年2月18日)
#新加坡重播開示
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一人修行,全家受益。

做慈善,都是大覺悟、大老闆的人才能做的事情嗎?
一個平凡的人要想改變貧窮,與諸多不順,想要變得富貴的話,其實是有秘訣的,佛陀曾經教導的方法,能讓我們發自內心的慈悲,發自內在的功德,讓富貴吉祥像太陽一樣永遠光亮沒有遮障。
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佛陀教給我們「富貴吉祥」的秘訣是什麼呢?
上週我在新加坡直播中已經給大家提示了,還不明白該如何去做的,或沒聽明白的,歡迎大伙兒本週六,與我繼續共同來研究佛陀「富貴吉祥」的秘法!
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【全球各地網絡共修時間】
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1.臺北/北京/馬來西亞/新加坡 時間:
2017年2月18日,上午9:00開始
2.韓國時間:2017年2月18日,上午10:00開始
3.北美東部時間:2017年2月17日,晚上8:00開始
4.北美太平洋時間: 2017年2月17日,晚上5:00開始
5.澳洲墨爾本時間:2017年2月18日,中午12:00開始
6.印尼雅加達時間:2017年2月18日,上午8:00開始

備註:各地禪堂一般共修時間為星期六上午9:00開始,請您諮詢各地禪堂時間為主。
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新加坡直播視頻連結:

#金菩提宗師開示、#週六網路共修、#新加坡重播開示、#富貴吉祥
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Online Global Group Practice on Saturday, February 18th, 2017
.
Singapore Live Broadcast Dharma teaching
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When one practices the Way, the whole family can benefit.
Does it mean only bosses or the awakened ones could do charity work? There’s a secret for ordinary people who wish to break away from poverty, become wealthy and overcome obstacles. In fact, Buddha has taught us the way that will bring out the compassion in our hearts so wealth and auspiciousness shines bright like the sun.
.
What is that secret taught by Buddha?”
I have mentioned the method in my live broadcast in Singapore last week. Those of you who are unsure how to go about doing it or do not understand my teaching, are welcomed to listen in to the group practice this Saturday. I will continue to explain the secret of attaining “wealth and auspiciousness” through the Buddha’s way!
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Online Global Group Practice Schedules:
1. Taipei / Beijing / Malaysia / Singapore: Feb 18, 2017 at 9:00 hrs
2. Korea: Feb 18, 2017 at 10:00 hrs
3. North America (Eastern zone): Feb 17, 2017 at 20:00 hrs
4. North America (Pacific zone): Feb 17, 2017 at 17:00 hrs
5. Melbourne (Australia): Feb 18, 2017 at 12:00 hrs
6. Jakarta (Indonesia): Feb 18, 2017 at 8:00 hrs
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(Live broadcast generally starts at 9.00am in your local center. It is advisable to call the Center for confirmation.)
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新加坡直播視頻連結:

#Grandmaster JinBodhi Teaching, #Online Global Group Practice on Saturday, #Singapore Live Broadcast, #Wealth and Auspicious


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【金菩提禪語】 . 要想成為一個真正有思…

【金菩提禪語】
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要想成為一個真正有思想、有行動、有責任的人,我們想好了就去做,絕不偷懶,才能成就更完善、更博大的那個你。
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[ Grandmaster JinBodhi’s Aphorism ] .
To become a responsible, introspective and driven person,
transform your thoughts into actions.
Do not let laziness overcome you.
In this way, you can develop and fulfill your magnanimous self.
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#金菩提禪語、#想好了就去做、#成就完善、#成就博大rnrn【金菩提禪語】
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要想成為一個真正有思想、有行動、有責任的人,我們想好了就去做,絕不偷懶,才能成就更完善、更博大的那個你。
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[ Grandmaster JinBodhi’s Aphorism ] .
To become a responsible, introspective and driven person,
transform your thoughts into actions.
Do not let laziness overcome you.
In this way, you can develop and fulfill your magnanimous self.
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#金菩提禪語、#想好了就去做、#成就完善、#成就博大


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不需要花大把銀子也能瘦身變窈窕!!! ….

不需要花大把銀子也能瘦身變窈窕!!!
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肥胖的肇因,其實是毒素的累積。
富足的生活中,人們每天吃大餐,甜品、美食。加上食物的加工過程日新月異,這些東西每天有進無出,自然容易就會累出病來,當身體負擔重了,健康與美麗也會離我們越來越遠 。
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所以,想要找回健康與美麗並不難,來自馬來西亞的陳秀珍(寧娟),告訴你該怎樣做!?
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一個想讓身材變美的初衷帶她走進了菩提禪修;
在禪修中,她身體的疼痛漸漸消失,變得健康美麗了;
她原本只想要一滴水,卻獲得了一片海……。

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#腰椎痛、#腳痛、#身體痠痛、#減肥、#大禮拜、#大光明修持法、#清淨觀想法】
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You don’t need to spend a fortune to lose weight and slim down!
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The cause of obesity may be due to the accumulation of toxics in the body.
With a life filled with abundance, people tend to feast on food and desserts. Coupled with the ever changing ways of processing food, these are consumed daily and remains in the body, thus causing sickness over time. When the body becomes overly burdened with these, our health and beauty are affected.
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However it is not difficult to regain our health and beauty. Lets hear from Chen Xiu-Zhen (Ning Juan) from Malaysia who shares on how she has achieved it!
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She came to Bodhi Meditation with the intention to slim down;
In the process of practicing meditation, the pain on her body that she was suffering from gradually disappeared and she became healthier and prettier; her original intention of wanting a drop of water turned out to be receiving an ocean instead…
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# Backache, # Leg pain, # Aches and pain, # Slimming, # Full Prostration, # Meditation of Greater Illumination, # Meditation of Purity
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https://www.facebook.com/jinbodhiworld/videos/1887592924861191/


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【愛情問答系列】—幸福的金鑰匙 . …

【愛情問答系列】—幸福的金鑰匙
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今天是2月14日浪漫的西洋情人節,也是一個值得珍惜的日子。
珍惜始終如一陪伴在你身旁的那個人,珍惜老愛陪你打打鬧鬧,使你不至於覺得孤單的那個人。
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但是很多人的婚姻,卻是在莫名其妙中完成,等待清醒了才來問我該怎麼辦?
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其實,湊合也是一種幸福!
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#愛情問答系列 、#湊合的幸福 、#幸福的金鑰匙 、#情人節
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Q&A with Grandmaster JinBodhi on relationships: The Golden Key to Happiness

Today, Feb 14, is Valentine’s Day. It is a day of romance and to cherish love. On this day, we cherish our partners who accompany us faithfully in our life, whom we may often have differences with and yet, they relieve us from loneliness.

However, many marriages are also formed in baffling circumstances, and couples only start questioning their existence when they ponder over them later with clear minds.

Actually, the “fortuitous togetherness” is also a form of happiness!

#Q&A with Grandmaster JinBodhi on relationships, #Happiness through fortuitous togetherness, #The golden key to happiness, #Valentine’s Day
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From the Video:
Title : The Golden Key to Happiness

Question :
I have questions with regards to what Master taught about relationships on Facebook some time back;
What is predestined affinity? Do you think any person you like should belong to you?
You mentioned,
“I think “fortuitous togetherness” is good enough, so long as the other party is of the opposite sex and of an acceptable age to you”
Master, I am confused and do not quite understand what “fortuitous togetherness” means.
Does it mean that if a person likes me or is nice to me, I should accept him/her as a potential partner?
Would that bring happiness to me?

Answer:
The phrase “fortuitous togetherness” (湊和) is a colloquial Northern Chinese expression. What I meant is one does not make high demands and expectations on the potential life partner or spouse. The higher the expectations, the more likely one will be disappointed.

So when I mentioned the concept of “fortuitous togetherness”, I meant one should set a reasonable expectation of the other person’s looks, income, occupation, height, family background, etc. Do not deliberate too much, just go along with the flow and be at ease.

When we meet a suitable person of the opposite sex at a suitable time and feel comfortable or even happy; thereafter understanding further his age, occupation, character, etc., which more or less meet our expectations, we may progress to the next stage of marriage to spend our life with that person.

After marriage, the concept of fortuitous togetherness may sound perfunctory or even irresponsible. But it actually means not to expect too much from the other person, not be too rigid that he/she feels suffocated. We need to relax and be at ease, and not be greedy and keep wanting more from the other person. In this way the relationship can progress naturally with ease. Fortuitous togetherness in Northern Chinese language also implies partnership and collaboration to achieve common goals.

Therefore, if we come together through fortuitous encounter, we work together to build the family by complementing each other. So even if we may not be perfect, we can still create a happy and perfect life together. Even though the child we produce may not be perfect in height, look and luck, or as pretty, but we will have true love and we can create a family which is more fortunate, spontaneous, more blissful, unpretentious, undemanding and realistic in expectations.

In fact, one reason why couple divorce is due to unrealistic expectations. For example, if the husband is in business, the wife hopes he will prosper. If the husband is still not wealthy after 10 years of marriage, the wife divorces and leaves him. Is this right?
Another example is when a lady hopes to marry someone who is in a high position. After 10 years of marriage and the partner is still not promoted, his wife leaves him.
Yet another example, a girl wishes to marry a tall and strong man, but after being married for 10 years, he is still not tall and strong, she leaves him.

Many couples with high expectations of each other end up being separated. What if they adopt the fortuitous togetherness attitude I mentioned?

To a lady, is it better to stay married than not?
To a man, is it better to be married than remain single?

With this attitude in mind, one would be more spontaneous and would love and cherish his family and manage the marriage with care.

So fortuitous togetherness is definitely not deceiving or perfunctory. It is a relaxed and blissful natural state. We can also call this a collaborative mental state. With fortuitous togetherness, the couple may live a hundred years together. With fortuitous togetherness, we can create the most natural, happiest and blessed families.


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