現在的生活,讓你有幸福感嗎? . 人總是…

現在的生活,讓你有幸福感嗎?
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人總是會因各式各樣的事情而生氣。
像是家長不理解孩子的所作所為,孩子無法明白父母的想法,於是誤會及紛爭就產生了。
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在親子間最常見的,是父母總為了孩子用電腦、上網,來和孩子爭吵,或許起因是擔憂孩子,不確定網路世界的各種資訊會不會給孩子帶來傷害。站在孩子的立場,是年輕世代的孩子正靠著網路來認識世界、來寫作業、學習外語,增加各種能力,增廣見聞。
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在爭執時,大家有沒有出現過越吵越無法有效溝通的經驗?造成這種狀況的因素,很可能是來自於生理。當腦部供血不足,腦子就像缺心眼一樣不好使,不好使就想不通了,想不通就發作。
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大家如果都有過這種經驗,就會發現生完氣之後,自己其實也不見得有多好受。該怎麼解決呢?解決之道,就在這次的共修之中喔!
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Do you feel happy with your current life?

People tend to get angry easily over different matters.
An example would be an argument between a child and his parents over a misunderstanding. Parents cannot understand why their child behave in a particular manner and the child does not know what his parents are thinking.

A more common cause of argument is the child’s use of computer and internet. Perhaps the parents worry that internet would be a bad influence on their child. However, from a child’s perspective, children in this generation rely on internet for news, information, do homework or even to learn a foreign language so as to broaden their horizons.

Have you had a similar experience and agree that the more you quarrel, the harder it is to communicate? This is due to insufficient blood being supplied to our brain. When this happens, our brain responds slower and cannot think logically. Thus, an argument ensues.

If you have had similar experience, you know that one does not feel good in the aftermath of anger. How do we resolve this? I will reveal the remedy on this Saturday’s online global group practice!

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走向解脫的大愛 . 每個人都有自己的人生…

走向解脫的大愛
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每個人都有自己的人生追求,假設:把你追求的目標,設定為一顆鑽石,個頭超級大,價值超級貴。你每天拼盡全力地工作,付出所有的心血與時間,朝思暮想,苦苦追求,最後鑽石終於到手了。在得到的剎那間,你可能是快樂的,甚至是欣喜若狂,但馬上你又開始變得極為恐慌——千萬不能弄丟了!於是你又為如何保護它,而寢食難安,惶惶不可終日,重又陷入新一輪的痛苦。
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得不到的時候,它遠在天邊,你在追逐的過程,身心疲憊。得到了之後,「怕失去」的惴惴不安,又折磨得你苦不堪言。如果真的失去了,這種痛不欲生的感覺可能會要了你的命。

當你所貪愛的事物,不管是追求、擁有、還是失去,帶給你的感覺都是「苦」。
那該怎麼辦?
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來聽聽我講的《學佛的目的之一》,討論如何將自私貪愛帶來的痛苦,轉化成無私的博愛,讓一份愛心帶來萬分美好。希望大家都能有所領悟,並能與你的生活結合,得到事業成功、圓滿成就、自在解脫的智慧。
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Universal love brings liberation

Everyone has his own pursuits and goals in life. Perhaps your pursuit in life is to own an extremely huge and expensive diamond and you work hard every day for it. Finally when you own the diamond, you may feel happy or even ecstatic! However, such moment of happiness is short-lived as very soon, fear takes over. You begin to worry and fear losing it! Therefore, you take preventive measures to protect the diamond and may lose sleep over it. At this point, you find yourself in a new vicious cycle of suffering.

In life, in the course of chasing our wants and desires, we end up becoming physically and mentally exhausted. When we eventually get what we wanted, we become fearful and worry about losing them. Such pain and misery can cost our life!
When we have greed, it doesn’t matter whether we are still pursuing, owning or losing the item, it will bring us pain.
What should we do?

I welcome you to join me this coming Saturday in my discussion about 【The Purpose of Practicing Dharma (1)】. We will discuss how to turn pain from selfishness into selfless universal love and to integrate it into our daily life so that we can achieve success, freedom and wisdom.

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