戀愛不戀愛?
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問：「我的男女朋友關係破碎了，我的靈魂比身體還要痛。」
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「關於戀愛，我曾聽過一個很有意思的比喻：『戀愛就像是兩條柔軟的線不斷的交錯，不斷的糾結，每當倆人爭吵，如果不能共同面對解開這個結，那麼糾結將會不斷累積，直到糾結成團，剪不斷理還亂，最後只能丟棄，但是若能一起面對問題，共同解開這個結，兩條繩子，可以有更多的力量，共同承擔未來的生活，可以讓戀情變得無比強韌。』
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其實，在戀愛的遊戲裡，它是一種自然的規律。
你今天的傷痛，也許是因為對方完全不理解你，給你造成的傷痛，無論男、女，要分手的時候，通常每一個人都是很傷痛的。你說你心很痛，對方痛不痛呢？傷害肯定是雙向的。
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在愛情的關係中，因為兩個人來自不同的家庭、不同的文化、不同的習染，再加上愛情的世界是盲目的，人..難免會犯錯。然而要能順利面對問題，解決問題，需要的是彼此更多的勇氣，更多的理智，更重要的是，必須管理好你自己，如果不然的話，就會總在失戀裡循環，繼續產生傷痛。
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還有，如果你現在還很愛她？
那我給的一個建議。就是去找她，給她懺悔，說你特別愛她，把你這幾天的心情告訴她，向求婚一樣的給她跪下，因為你之前可能有犯錯，所以你要準備12次以上的懺悔行動。如果能給她請回來的話，你會有一生的快樂，那麼120次都值得的。
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所以，我提醒大家，如果有一個你愛的人，他也愛你的話，你要好好珍惜，避免飽嚐失戀的傷痛。
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這是我給失戀男女的一個指導，去把你失戀的對象給找回來吧。
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讚是一種鼓勵，分享是最好的支持。
?歡迎分享，多傳多福！！ ?
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To love or not to love?
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Q: My boy-girl relationship has fallen apart and I’m now hurting more at the soul than my body.
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In regards to love, I have heard an interesting analogy, “Love is like two delicate lines intertwined and tangled unceasingly”. Whenever two persons quarrel, if both parties do not resolve this knot together, the entanglement will continue to accumulate until it becomes a ball of mess, unable to be extricated from, but yet utterly muddled. Eventually, it can only be discarded. But if the couple can face the issue together and untie this knot, the two strings are more powerful, can share a common future together, and allow the love to become extraordinary and robust.
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In fact, this is the natural law in the realm of love.
The pain that you experience today is perhaps due to the other party not completely understanding you, causing the hurt. Whether male or female, one experiences suffering in the event of a break-up. As you lament the suffering inside your heart, isn’t it the same for the other party? The hurt is definitely inflicted at both sides.
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In a love relationship, as two persons come from different backgrounds, different cultures, different habits, plus the fact that love is “blind”, both tend to commit mistakes. Nonetheless, the couple needs to swiftly face the issue and resolve it with more courage, rationality and crucially, self-restraint. Otherwise, one will always be stuck in the love-lorn cycle, continuing to experience suffering.
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And what if you still love her dearly?
I shall give you a suggestion. Go find her and confess that you particularly love her. Let her know your feelings over the past few days, and kneel down as if you would when proposing to her. Especially when you may have made some mistakes, you have to be prepared to repay more than 12 times’ in confession. If you can regain the love, you will have a lifetime of happiness; so even 120 times of effort are worth it.
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So may I remind you: if there is a person you love, and it is mutual, you must cherish it to avoid the pain of losing.
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This is my suggestion for the love-afflicted men and women – go forth and regain the commitment of the love of your lives.
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