歡喜心結善緣
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古人說：「有緣千里來相逢，無緣對面不相識」，緣分這個概念，其實是東方人特有的產物，用來解釋人與人之間的微妙關係。。
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緣有分善緣也有惡緣，在還沒相處時，相信大部分人的心裡頭，都是喜歡與人結善緣的，但當遇到人和人之間的衝突時，這就是挑戰所在了，遇到了與我們理念不同的人，要用同理心去包容對方，即使想法不一樣，也要懂得不與人結惡緣。
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人和人相處時，一旦結了惡緣，就要花更多力氣去平復，既傷心又勞神，所以我們在日常生活中，一定要時時提醒自己，減少與他人不必要的摩擦，還不知道真相的時候，更不要在一開始就把對方想成是對立的，偏見正是最可怕的！
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用歡喜心廣結善緣，並不是一種高高在上遙不可及的烏托邦理念，而是一種遇到衝突時的自我提示，很多事物並沒有一定的真相。大千世界五花八門，只有人和人之間相處順了，花花草草才會在你眼中變得更美好，有情天地間，需要你我的共同護持，讓人間淨土深植人心，需要你和我一起努力，用歡喜心讓善緣無限散播吧！.
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Build positive relationship with a joyous heart
An ancient Chinese proverb, “Fate brings people together no matter how far apart they may be.” Fate is actually a unique Oriental concept used to explain the delicate relationship between people.
Affinity can be positive or negative. Before thinking further, it is believed that most people will seek positive affinity. However, challenge arises when there is conflict. When we meet people with different ideas, we should be empathetic and accommodate each other. Although our viewpoints are not aligned, we should try not to develop negative affinity.
In relationships, when negative affinity develops, we need to spend more effort to calm the situation. It is both upsetting and exhausting. So, in our daily life, we must constantly remind ourselves to reduce unnecessary friction with others. In times when we do not know the truth, we should not assume the other party is against us, for prejudice can be most damaging!
Developing positive affinity with a joyous heart is not a lofty, distant and utopian idea. Rather, it serves as a timely reminder in times of conflict that many things are not definite. The universe is varied. Interpersonal relationships blossom like flowers and shoots, and improve when people begin to get along well with one another. The sentient world requires our concerted efforts to preserve peace, so positive sentiments should be rooted deep in our human hearts. These require you and I work together to spread boundless positive affinities with joyousness!
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