──?愛情來早好或來晚好??‍❤‍?‍?…

──?愛情來早好或來晚好??‍❤‍?‍?
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「青少年早戀」是很多家中有青少年孩子的家長,心中共同的煩惱。
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雖然知道愛情很難避免,但身為家長,總是擔心孩子因為談戀愛而耽誤了學習,甚至不小心「鬧出人命」,因此影響了後半輩子的人生。
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到底幾歲談戀愛才是最適合的時機?
求學階段的孩子該不該把握住自己的愛情?
為什麼大部分的家長都這麼反對早戀?
早戀又容易導致什麼樣的後果?
親愛的孩子,你們真的明白嗎?
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?歡迎大家寫私訊給我,我會盡力為大家解答✏
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#親子系列、#愛情、#溝通、#早戀、#青少年

【Grandmaster JinBodhi Wellness Seminar Series】
— Is it better to fall in love earlier or later?

「Teenagers falling in love」 is a common worry among parents with teenagers.

Although it is hard to avoid, but as a parent, we will always worry that our children’s studies will be affected once they start a relationship, or even results in unwanted pregnancy, thus affecting the rest of their life.

What is the perfect age to fall in love?
Should schooling children be allowed to take control of their love life?
Why most parents opposed to their children starting a relationship at a young age ?
What are the consequences of falling in love at a young age?
Dear children, do you really understand?

Welcome to send me your questions or thoughts through messages, and I will try my best to answer them.

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當孩子遇上躲不掉的誘惑? . 有許多家長…

當孩子遇上躲不掉的誘惑?
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有許多家長憂心忡忡地來問我:「孩子沉迷上網,真是讓我傷透腦筋,請問師父我該怎麼辦?」
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我說,首先要恭喜你,孩子能上網就說明智力基本正常,能到網上和人對打遊戲,就說明智力偏高;能在網上修改圖片,把媽媽修的跟天仙一樣美,這叫境界!「電腦」是現代人謀生的工具,孩子如果沒有具備基本的電腦技能,將來是找不到工作的!
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所以,當我們家長在分析事情上,要學會看到「好的一面」,只要提醒孩子不要玩太久。並且給予孩子正確的引導,那麼,原本可能造成親子間感情破裂的傷害,就會變成彼此聊天的話題了。
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如何讓親子間的互動不再對立,減少雙方的傷害和煩惱呢?
讓我們在這次的週末共修,一起來研究如何《學著快樂》吧! 歡迎大家一起來腦力激盪一下,願家長們多點智慧去理解孩子!願天下的孩子們都幸福、快樂!
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讚是一種鼓勵,分享是最好的支持。
?歡迎分享,多傳多福!! ?
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【全球各地網路共修時間】
1. 臺北/北京/馬來西亞/新加坡 時間:2017年1月20日,上午9:00開始 
2.韓國時間:2018年1月20日,上午10:00開始 
3.北美東部時間:2018年1月19日,晚上8:00開始 
4.北美太平洋時間:2018年1月19日,晚上5:00開始
5.澳洲墨爾本時間:2018年1月20日,中午11:00開始 
6.印尼雅加達時間:2018年1月20日,上午8:00開始
7.羅馬尼亞時間:2018年1月20日,淩晨4:00開始
8.英國倫敦時間:2018年1月20日,淩晨2:00開始
9.澳洲(悉尼)時間:2018年1月20日,早上11:00開始 
10.緬甸(仰光)時間:2018年1月20日,早上7:30開始 
備註:各地禪堂一般共修時間為星期六上午9:00開始,欲前往各地禪堂參與共修者,請事先諮詢各地禪堂,以當地時間為主。

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#週六網路共修、#電腦、#學著快樂、#孩子、#金菩提宗師開示、#青少年rnrnA temptation that is difficult for a child to resist?
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Many worried parents approached me, “I am worried about my child’s addiction to Internet. What should I do?”
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My response, “First of all, I like to congratulate you. The fact that your child can surf the Internet means that his intelligence is basically normal. Those who can play online computer games generally have higher intelligence. For those who can modify pictures to make their mother look young are even more intelligent!”
Computers are now the tools of modern life. Your child will not be able to find a job if he does not have basic computer skills!
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As parents, we have to learn to see the “good side” when we analyze a situation. We just have to remind our child not to play too long and to give them the right guidance. Thus we can change a bad situation to a good conversation topic.
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How to improve the relationship with your child and resolve unnecessary conflicts?
Let’s “Learn to be happy” in this Saturday’s Online Global Group Practice!
May parents have more wisdom in understanding their child!
May all children be happy!
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“Like” is a form of encouragement, “Share” is the best support.
?More sharing, more blessings!?
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Online Global Group Practice Schedules:
1. Taipei/ Beijing/ Malaysia/ Singapore: Jan 20, 2017, at 9:00hrs
2. Korea: Jan 20, 2017, at 10:00hrs
3. North America (Eastern Zone): Jan 19, 2017 at 21:00hrs
4. North America (Pacific Zone): Jan 19, 2017 at 18:00hrs
5. Melbourne (Australia): Jan 20, 2017, at 11:00hrs
6. Jakarta (Indonesia): Jan 20, 2017, at 8:00hrs
7. Romania: Jan 20, 2017, at 4:00hrs
8. London (United Kingdom): Jan 20, 2017, at 2:00hrs
9. Sydney (Australia): Jan 20, 2017, at 11:00hrs
10. Yangon (Myanmar): Jan 20, 2017, at 07:30hrs
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(Group practice generally starts at 9.00 a.m. in all Bodhi Meditation Centers. It is advisable to call your local center for confirmation.)
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#SaturdayOnlineGlobalGroupPractice, #Computers, #LearnToBeHappy, #Children, #MasterJinBodhiTeachings, #Youths


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把對孩子的期望,化做最深的祝福! . ….

把對孩子的期望,化做最深的祝福!
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一般,父母對孩子最初的期許,是「健康、快樂、平安」的長大。並且,對自己的孩子寄予厚望,盼他們成龍成鳳;身為父母,家庭是孩子成長的第一大關,父母如何能給孩子最好的成長環境,也是給他們一生最好的禮物呢?
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記得,在2010年,英國肯特郡湯布裡奇(Tonbridge)中學正式開設了「禪修」課程,這一課程由牛津大學和劍橋大學心理學家設計。事實證明,學生們通過學習「禪修」,更容易?集中注意力、?降低焦慮、?減少「破壞性」心態,?提升學業成績。
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十幾年前,我也和一些中學、大學老師,配合做過一些試驗,播放一些菩提禪修的修練音樂給孩子們聽,有很多精力不集中、容易恍神的孩子,通過一段短期的「禪修」之後,他們的記憶力真的提高了很多,專注力、思考力都明顯提升,還可以激發青少年的想像力和創造力,開發智慧,尤其更改善了孩子們青春期肥胖等健康問題。???
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你也想提升孩子的專注力更專一,學業更輕鬆呢?
讓我們在這次的週末共修,一起來認識禪修吧!
歡迎大家一起來暢談,祝福孩子們都有吉祥、美好的未來!
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讚是一種鼓勵,分享是最好的支持。
?歡迎分享,多傳多福!! ?
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【全球各地網路共修時間】
1. 臺北/北京/馬來西亞/新加坡 時間:2017年1月13日,上午9:00開始 
2.韓國時間:2018年1月13日,上午10:00開始 
3.北美東部時間:2018年1月12日,晚上8:00開始 
4.北美太平洋時間:2018年1月12日,晚上5:00開始
5.澳洲墨爾本時間:2018年1月13日,中午11:00開始 
6.印尼雅加達時間:2018年1月13日,上午8:00開始
7.羅馬尼亞時間:2018年1月13日,淩晨4:00開始
8.英國倫敦時間:2018年1月13日,淩晨2:00開始
9.澳洲(悉尼)時間:2018年1月13日,早上11:00開始 
10.緬甸(仰光)時間:2018年1月13日,早上7:30開始 
備註:各地禪堂一般共修時間為星期六上午9:00開始,欲前往各地禪堂參與共修者,請事先諮詢各地禪堂,以當地時間為主。
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#週六網路共修、#認識禪修、#開發智慧、#注意力集中、#腦力開發、#金菩提宗師開示、#青少年rnrnTransform your hopes for your child to deepest blessings!
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Generally, parents’ initial wish of their children is for them to grow up healthy, happy and safely. They also tend to place high hope for their children to succeed later in life. As parents, family background plays an important part in determining how children will turn out when they grow up. How can parents provide their children the best growing environment, which is also their best gift in life?
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In 2010 mindfulness meditation was introduced into the classrooms of Tonbridge School, Kent, England. The course was developed in conjunction with the psychologists from Cambridge University and Oxford University. It turns out that students are more likely to focus, reduce anxiety, decrease their “destructive” mentality and improve their grades by learning meditation.
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Ten over years ago, I worked with some middle school and college teachers to do some experiments. We played some Bodhi Meditation’s practice music for the children to listen. Through a short period of mediation, many easily distracted children were able to improve their memory, concentration, imagination, creativity and wisdom. It also helps to alleviate adolescent obesity and other health related problems.
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Do you want to improve your child’s focus and to learn more easily?
Let’s do this at this weekend’s global group practice. Let’s learn more about mediation!
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I welcome everyone to join me in our discussion.
Wishing every child an auspicious and beautiful future!
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Like is a form of encouragement. Share is the best support.
?Please share if you like this post. More sharing, more blessings! ?
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Online Global Group Practice Schedules:
1. Taipei/ Beijing/ Malaysia/ Singapore: Jan 13, 2017, at 9:00hrs
2. Korea: Jan 13, 2017, at 10:00hrs
3. North America (Eastern Zone): Jan 12, 2017 at 21:00hrs
4. North America (Pacific Zone): Jan 12, 2017 at 18:00hrs
5. Melbourne (Australia): Jan 13, 2017, at 11:00hrs
6. Jakarta (Indonesia): Jan 13, 2017, at 8:00hrs
7. Romania: Jan 13, 2017, at 4:00hrs
8. London (United Kingdom): Jan 13, 2017, at 2:00hrs
9. Sydney (Australia): Jan 13, 2017, at 11:00hrs
10. Yangon (Myanmar): Jan 13, 2017, at 07:30hrs
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(Group practice generally starts at 9.00 a.m. in all Bodhi Meditation Centers. It is advisable to call your local center for confirmation.)
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