好命運，來自布施和慈悲。
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#金菩提禪語
#覺悟之眼看起落人生
好命運，來自布施和慈悲。
心情，就像是一把雙刃的劍， 用得好，事半功倍； 用不好，則事
心情，就像是一把雙刃的劍，
用得好，事半功倍；
用不好，則事倍功半。
健康如是，飲食如是，人生亦如是。
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#覺悟之眼看起落人生 #健康 #心情 #情緒
釋迦牟尼說：『煩惱即菩提。』 我們所遇到的那些障礙、痛苦、遺
釋迦牟尼說：『煩惱即菩提。』
我們所遇到的那些障礙、痛苦、遺憾與貧窮，都能磨練我們的心智，使我們的人生更加壯大充實。
#覺悟之眼看起落人生 #改變命運 #智慧
父母對我們的恩德如同佛陀一樣， 父母就是…
父母對我們的恩德如同佛陀一樣，
父母就是我們生命中的佛陀。
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摘錄自 #覺悟之眼看起落人生
#金菩提禪語 #感恩父母 #知恩圖報
家庭就是這樣： 我稱之為「鍋碗瓢盆交響曲…
家庭就是這樣：
我稱之為「鍋碗瓢盆交響曲」，
就是一種樸實平凡的生命狀態，
只要認真去感受，
「幸福」就在其中。。。
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#覺悟之眼看起落人生 #幸福
擁有生命的「勇氣」和「力量」。 . 生命…
擁有生命的「勇氣」和「力量」。
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生命之路就在眼前，只要勇敢去走，世界就是你的。
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我的經驗是，首先要「想」，想好了就去做，只要開始做，力量就產生了。只要去實踐，我們的生命感受就和以前不同了，世界的美好都會來到我們的身邊。—金菩提宗師—
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#覺悟之眼看起落人生、#愛世界、#讓心更強大、#生命的勇氣和力量。
Possess the ‘Courage’ and ‘Strength’ of life
The path of life is in sight. So long as you possess the courage to forge ahead, the world can be yours.
My personal experience is – we have to first ‘contemplate’. Once we have thought through the considerations, forge ahead and take action. As long as we start doing so, positive strength and momentum gathers. As long as we continue to practice, our life experiences and horizons elevate and will be different from before, and the beautiful and wondrous offerings from the universe will come to our side.
—Master Jin Bodhi—
#ConsciousnessOfSeeingTheUpsAndDownsOfLife, #LoveTheWorld, #StrengthenOurResolve, #LifeCourageAndStrength
生命的力量 . 「生命之路就在眼前，只要…
生命的力量
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「生命之路就在眼前，只要勇敢去走，世界就是你的。」
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如果你想得到，首先要「想」，想好了就去做。
只要開始做，力量就產生了。
只要去實踐，我們的生命感受就和以前不同了，
世界的美好都會來到我們的身邊。
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節錄自_覺悟之眼看起落人生_金菩提宗師著
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The Power of Life
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「Life’s paths are just before us, as long as we are willing to move forward bravely, the World belongs to us」
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If you want something, 「think」 first. Once decided, put into action.
The moment we start to act, energy is generated.
When we put our thoughts into action, our life will be transformed.
The World’s goodness will appear before us.
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Extracted from: Consciousness of seeing the ups and downs of life – Grandmaster JinBodhi
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#PowerOfLife, #ConsciousnessOfSeeingTheUpsAndDownsOfLife, #MasterJinBodhi, #PutYourThoughtsIntoAction, #WelcomeTheGoodness,#EnergyOfLife, #生命的力量、#覺悟之眼看起落人生、#金菩提宗師、#想好了就去做、#迎向美好
家長該給孩子玩電腦嗎？ . . 不少家長…
家長該給孩子玩電腦嗎？
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不少家長為了孩子玩電腦而傷透腦筋，問我該如何來解決這個問題。曾經有一位中學老師滿面愁容地問我：「我的孩子一天到晚玩電腦，半夜才睡覺，我苦口婆心的勸他，他就是不聽，讓我真的很心煩了！」
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我問她：「妳的孩子成績怎麼樣？」
老師：「普通。」
我問：「他有殘疾嗎？」
老師：「沒有。」
我說：「哎呀，恭喜妳啊！」
老師：「恭喜我什麼啊？他那麼不聽話。」
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我說：「恭喜妳生了個好孩子啊！最起碼他的智力和身體都是正常的，這就值得恭喜了。」你知道多少女人期盼能生個孩子卻辦不到，更何況妳的孩子身體健康，妳還有什麼好抱怨的？再說，電腦是現代人謀生的工具，各行各業都必須用到電腦，孩子如果沒有具備基本的電腦技能，將來是找不上工作的；如果孩子對電腦沒興趣，我們才要擔心呢！至於如何讓孩子的電腦技能更熟練精確，重點在於父母的正確引導。比方說，請孩子幫妳拍張照片，再請他幫妳修成18歲的模樣，父母在不知不覺間培養孩子的電腦技能，這就是正確的引導。
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聽完我的一番話之後，她也認清了這個事實，改變了想法，用理解和包容去換位思考，親子之間的互動也不再對立，看到孩子玩電腦也不再滿面愁容了。
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#孩子、#玩電腦、#親子教育、#理解和包容、#覺悟之眼看起落人生rnrnShould parents let children play with computers?
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Many parents feel troubled when they see their children playing with computers and have sought my advice to resolve the problem. Among them was a Taiwanese secondary school teacher who asked me with a face full of sorrow: “My child sits in front of the computer every day from morning till night. Though I earnestly talk to him and ask him not to, he refuses to listen. I am troubled over this!”
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I asked her: “How did your child fare in his school examination?”
Secondary school teacher: “Average.”
I asked: “Does he have physical disability?”
Secondary school teacher: “ No.”
I told her: “Congratulations!”
Secondary school teacher: “ Why did you congratulate me? He is so disobedient.”
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I replied: “Congratulations on having a good child! At least his mental development and physical health is normal. You have to feel grateful for this mere fact. Do you know a lot of women desire to have children but cannot conceive? These women must be very envious of you! Besides, your child is healthy and able-bodied. What else do you have to grumble about?”
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Moreover, in this modern age, people use computers to earn a living. Every job requires the use of computers. If a child does not know how to use computers, he would not be able to find a job in the future; when he fails to find a job, you would regret it then and blame yourself for not letting him play with computers! We only need to worry if a child shows no interest in computers!
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As to how we can hone his computer literacy skill, that is dependent on parental guidance. For instance, ask your child to take photos of you and then modify them to how he thinks you looked like when you were 18 years old. That is what I would call guiding him properly. In this way, you are developing his computer skills over time.
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After listening to my words, she acknowledged the truth of my words and adopted an understanding and accommodating mindset to think from her child’s perspective. Her relationship with her child is now no longer opposing and strained. She does not look sorrowful now whenever she sees her child playing with computers.
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#Child, #PlayComputer, #ParentalGuidance, #UnderstandingAndAccommodating, #ConsciousensesOfSeeingTheUpsAndDownsOfLife
不再讓情緒綁架你的生活 . 我的家鄉有一…
不再讓情緒綁架你的生活
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我的家鄉有一位老先生，是一位修行很好的人，他是捉神弄鬼的傳統門派，挺厲害的。
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有一天，一個太太牙痛去找他，我正好到他家去，太太說：「我吃了兩顆止痛藥都沒用，你這麼厲害，能不能幫幫我？」
老先生卻問：「你這兩天是不是生氣了？」
太太說：「是啊，三天前我生氣了。」
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因為老先生有天眼通，能夠看到牙痛的真正原因。原來這個太太大發雷霆，把先生給趕跑了，因為生氣，整個火氣都跑到嘴巴裡，又痛又腫的。
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老先生看出端倪後，要她盡情地宣洩一下心中的怒氣，於是她就講自己有多好，但是先生卻不愛她、不管她、不顧她之類的事情。嘮叨完了之後，老先生說：「好了，現在你到河邊去泡泡腳，唱兩首歌。」
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太太說：「這……這樣就能好了嗎？」
老先生說：「是啊！你照做就是了，你必須在那兒泡一段時間，唱幾首歌後才可以回家。」這位太太照做了，牙痛也真的就好了。
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之後我也問了這個太太，她說：「這方法真的很有用。」
你們想想，這究竟是什麼道理呢？
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其實，老先生是用最道地、傳統的方法，第一個是發洩情緒，再加上河水；水為陰、為涼，他用水來撲滅火，腳上如果冰涼的話，是最容易退火的。
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我們都知道荔枝、龍眼這些水果很容易上火，我到廣東時，當地人告訴我，最好的方法就是一邊把腳泡在小河裡，一邊吃荔枝。我真的試過，也真的有效。情緒的好壞會導致很多問題。
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事實上，很多致命的疾病，譬如癌症、腦血管破裂、中風、心臟病等等，都和情緒有關，一生氣一激動，血壓就上升，疾病也跟著浮現了。
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我們回憶一下《紅樓夢》中的林黛玉是怎麼死的？她是抑鬱而死的，也就是內在經絡全部都封閉了，她能不死嗎？
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所以，如果內在不健康，外在也健康不起來。
喜歡就請分享，多傳多福！！
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#覺悟之眼看起落人生、#情緒、#健康、#宣洩
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Don’t let your emotions destroy your life
There was a well-mannered and knowledgeable old man in my village, known to solve problems with ingenious methods.
One day when I was in his house, an old lady came to see him with a toothache. The old lady said: “I took two painkiller pills but my tooth is still aching. Since you’re so capable, can you help me?”
Old man asked: “Have you been having bad temper lately?”
Old lady replied: “Yes, I’ve been angry in the last three days.”
As the old man had the gifted ability to see the actual cause of the ache, he knew that the old lady had a row with her husband and chased her husband out of the house. She was so angry that her temper had caused her the toothache, which no pain-killer could cure.
As the old man knew the actual cause of the toothache, he first tried to relieve the old lady’s pain by letting her vent her frustration about how her husband had stopped loving her even though she was such a good wife. When the old lady finally finished, the old man told her to soak her legs in the river and also sing two songs.
“Is that all it takes to cure me?” the old lady asked with much curiosity.
“Yes, that is all. I want you to take your time soaking your legs in the river, and sing a few songs before you head home.” the old man advised with confidence.
The old lady did what the old man told her to do and soon she was relieved of her toothache.
When I chanced to meet the old lady, she told me: “The old man’s method was effective!”
So how did it work?
Actually, the old man merely used the most authentic, traditional way of first allowing one to vent his emotions and then, using water to ameliorate unwanted internal heat. If your legs are soaked in water and hence become cooler, it can ward off or counter-balance the internal heat in the body.
The fruits Lychees and Longan are popular in Guangzhou but are known to cause internal heat in the body. When I went to Guangzhou, the locals shared that we can still enjoy the fruits if we have our legs soaked in water to counter the internal heat when consuming them. I tried and it was really effective. Emotions, either positive or negative, can have negative consequences on our health.
In fact, many deadly diseases such as cancer, hemorrhage, heart attack and stroke are closely linked to emotions. Once we get angry, our blood pressure increases, triggering the beginning of many illnesses.
This was how Lin DaiYu, the famous character in Chinese classics “Dream of the Red Chamber” died, owing to her emotions – depression. All her internal meridian are closed, how can she live?
Hence, we should learn to manage our emotions, and not let bad temper destroy our health and life.
Share if you are inspired! The more you share, the more you will receive.
#Life’sUpsAndDownSeenThroughTheEnlightenedEyes, #Emotions, #Health, #Abreactionrnrn不再讓情緒綁架你的生活
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我的家鄉有一位老先生，是一位修行很好的人，他是捉神弄鬼的傳統門派，挺厲害的。
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有一天，一個太太牙痛去找他，我正好到他家去，太太說：「我吃了兩顆止痛藥都沒用，你這麼厲害，能不能幫幫我？」
老先生卻問：「你這兩天是不是生氣了？」
太太說：「是啊，三天前我生氣了。」
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因為老先生有天眼通，能夠看到牙痛的真正原因。原來這個太太大發雷霆，把先生給趕跑了，因為生氣，整個火氣都跑到嘴巴裡，又痛又腫的。
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老先生看出端倪後，要她盡情地宣洩一下心中的怒氣，於是她就講自己有多好，但是先生卻不愛她、不管她、不顧她之類的事情。嘮叨完了之後，老先生說：「好了，現在你到河邊去泡泡腳，唱兩首歌。」
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太太說：「這……這樣就能好了嗎？」
老先生說：「是啊！你照做就是了，你必須在那兒泡一段時間，唱幾首歌後才可以回家。」這位太太照做了，牙痛也真的就好了。
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之後我也問了這個太太，她說：「這方法真的很有用。」
你們想想，這究竟是什麼道理呢？
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其實，老先生是用最道地、傳統的方法，第一個是發洩情緒，再加上河水；水為陰、為涼，他用水來撲滅火，腳上如果冰涼的話，是最容易退火的。
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我們都知道荔枝、龍眼這些水果很容易上火，我到廣東時，當地人告訴我，最好的方法就是一邊把腳泡在小河裡，一邊吃荔枝。我真的試過，也真的有效。情緒的好壞會導致很多問題。
.
事實上，很多致命的疾病，譬如癌症、腦血管破裂、中風、心臟病等等，都和情緒有關，一生氣一激動，血壓就上升，疾病也跟著浮現了。
.
我們回憶一下《紅樓夢》中的林黛玉是怎麼死的？她是抑鬱而死的，也就是內在經絡全部都封閉了，她能不死嗎？
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所以，如果內在不健康，外在也健康不起來。
喜歡就請分享，多傳多福！！
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#覺悟之眼看起落人生、#情緒、#健康、#宣洩
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Don’t let your emotions destroy your life
There was a well-mannered and knowledgeable old man in my village, known to solve problems with ingenious methods.
One day when I was in his house, an old lady came to see him with a toothache. The old lady said: “I took two painkiller pills but my tooth is still aching. Since you’re so capable, can you help me?”
Old man asked: “Have you been having bad temper lately?”
Old lady replied: “Yes, I’ve been angry in the last three days.”
As the old man had the gifted ability to see the actual cause of the ache, he knew that the old lady had a row with her husband and chased her husband out of the house. She was so angry that her temper had caused her the toothache, which no pain-killer could cure.
As the old man knew the actual cause of the toothache, he first tried to relieve the old lady’s pain by letting her vent her frustration about how her husband had stopped loving her even though she was such a good wife. When the old lady finally finished, the old man told her to soak her legs in the river and also sing two songs.
“Is that all it takes to cure me?” the old lady asked with much curiosity.
“Yes, that is all. I want you to take your time soaking your legs in the river, and sing a few songs before you head home.” the old man advised with confidence.
The old lady did what the old man told her to do and soon she was relieved of her toothache.
When I chanced to meet the old lady, she told me: “The old man’s method was effective!”
So how did it work?
Actually, the old man merely used the most authentic, traditional way of first allowing one to vent his emotions and then, using water to ameliorate unwanted internal heat. If your legs are soaked in water and hence become cooler, it can ward off or counter-balance the internal heat in the body.
The fruits Lychees and Longan are popular in Guangzhou but are known to cause internal heat in the body. When I went to Guangzhou, the locals shared that we can still enjoy the fruits if we have our legs soaked in water to counter the internal heat when consuming them. I tried and it was really effective. Emotions, either positive or negative, can have negative consequences on our health.
In fact, many deadly diseases such as cancer, hemorrhage, heart attack and stroke are closely linked to emotions. Once we get angry, our blood pressure increases, triggering the beginning of many illnesses.
This was how Lin DaiYu, the famous character in Chinese classics “Dream of the Red Chamber” died, owing to her emotions – depression. All her internal meridian are closed, how can she live?
Hence, we should learn to manage our emotions, and not let bad temper destroy our health and life.
Share if you are inspired! The more you share, the more you will receive.
#Life’sUpsAndDownSeenThroughTheEnlightenedEyes, #Emotions, #Health, #Abreaction
一句讚美，一把鑰匙。 . 我看過一本愛情…
一句讚美，一把鑰匙。
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我看過一本愛情小說，作者開宗明義第一句話就寫著：
「如果，他對我好一點，給我一點微笑，哪怕是假裝的，我都不會離開他。」
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我看了之後很震驚，結果去翻一下類似的資料，原來好多女士都曾這麼說。只因為你的一句好話，她為你做牛做馬都甘之如飴。
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#金菩提禪語、 #讚美、 #鑰匙、 #覺悟之眼看起落人生
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The key to a happy and lasting relationship lies in a compliment
The first sentence in a romance novel I’ve seen stated that:
「If he treats me a little better, gives me a smile, or even if he is pretending, I will not forsake him.」
I was stunned by this quote, did some research and found that most women agree to this. With just a compliment, she will happily and willingly slog for you.
#AphorismOfMasterJinBodhi, #Compliments, #Key, #LookingAtLifeThroughEnlightenedEyesrnrn一句讚美，一把鑰匙。
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我看過一本愛情小說，作者開宗明義第一句話就寫著：
「如果，他對我好一點，給我一點微笑，哪怕是假裝的，我都不會離開他。」
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我看了之後很震驚，結果去翻一下類似的資料，原來好多女士都曾這麼說。只因為你的一句好話，她為你做牛做馬都甘之如飴。
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#金菩提禪語、 #讚美、 #鑰匙、 #覺悟之眼看起落人生
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The key to a happy and lasting relationship lies in a compliment
The first sentence in a romance novel I’ve seen stated that:
「If he treats me a little better, gives me a smile, or even if he is pretending, I will not forsake him.」
I was stunned by this quote, did some research and found that most women agree to this. With just a compliment, she will happily and willingly slog for you.
#AphorismOfMasterJinBodhi, #Compliments, #Key, #LookingAtLifeThroughEnlightenedEyes