溝通中的平衡法則 . 夫妻間、親子間、同…

溝通中的平衡法則
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夫妻間、親子間、同事間、上下級之間……,
為什麼在不同的人際關係裡,都常出現種種誤會和不愉快?
這是因為彼此之間缺乏溝通,或溝通不當。
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人與人之間應該如何溝通?
溝通的過程中該怎樣面對負面的指責,
又如何面對生活中的讚美呢?
一起來學習吧!!
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#溝通、#接受、#忍辱、#讚美、#定力

The law of balance in communication

Between husband-wife, parent-child, work colleagues, and supervisor-subordinate……,
Why are there so many kinds of misunderstandings and unhappiness in such relationships?
This is due to the lack of inter-personal communication between these parties, or poor communication.

How should people communicate with one another?
How do we deal with negativity that develops during the process of communication; and
How do we manage the praises that we receive in life?
Let’s come and learn together!!

#Communication, #Accept, #Forbearance, #Praise, #Determination.


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《六度之忍辱》 . 六度中的第三條是「忍…

《六度之忍辱》
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六度中的第三條是「忍辱」,也就是忍耐別人對自己的侮辱。
過去釋迦牟尼佛在修菩薩行時,曾為忍辱仙人,因為忍字,所以成就了忍辱波羅蜜;也因忍心不動而降伏眾魔軍,成就無上正等正覺。
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我們在日常生活中,也常常面對外界的不友善,我們是該吞忍下來,還是該狠狠反擊?
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忍辱的意義到底是什麼?
究竟他對我們有多重要?
又有哪些好處呢?
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#忍辱、#六度、#接受、#提升、#大我、#無我
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The Six Perfections: Tolerance

The third aspect of Six Perfections is 「Tolerance」. This means tolerate the insults inflicted by others. In the past when Shakyamuni Buddha was leading a Bodhisattva way of life, he attained great wisdom by accomplishing tolerance when he tolerated the insults of the immortal. Due to his supreme ability to control and manage his own heart and emotion, he even overcame evil forces and became enlightened ultimately.

In our daily lives, we constantly face unfriendliness and “attacks” from the people in our environment. Do we tolerate this behavior or retaliate in kind?

What is the underlying meaning of us being tolerant?
Why is tolerance important to us?
What are the benefits?

#Tolerance, #PuttingUp, #Accept, #Elevate, #SmallI, #BigI, #ForgetAboutOneself


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