聰明反被聰明誤?
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人總習慣用自己的方式去理解他人，誤會往往就是這樣產生的，不但讓自己生出憎恨心，還容易危害到自己。
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我講一個我過去在中國青海時候的故事：
在青海的路上，我看到一輛大卡車有個輪胎轉得不正常。我出門多有經驗，看那個輪胎有一點搖擺感，就感覺是螺絲鬆了。如果它飛出來的話，第一它沒有輪胎了、第二可能傷到別人。
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我就給那個司機招手，指指他後面輪胎，要他看一下。那個人卻狠狠地瞪我一眼，罵了一句：「媽的，想搭我的車呀！」以為我要占他便宜。我繼續皺著眉頭喊：「嚴重！嚴重！」他就是不管，繼續開著車走了。
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沒想到車跑沒多遠，那個輪胎「咻——」就像飛盤一樣飛到前面的山溝裡面去了。他就追著輪胎跑了一公里啊，下到山溝裡去把輪胎抱上來。那個山坡至少有五十米高；輪胎多重啊，至少有五十公斤吧，多難啊！他好不容易給弄上來後，累得一點兒力氣都沒有了！結果還是我幫他裝上輪胎。我說：「怎麼樣？朋友，我是好心好意提醒你。」
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有些人在決策時，總認為自己想的就一定是對的！不願意參考別人的意見，這樣的態度可能會讓自己無法理性判斷，處理方式因此有所偏頗，甚至傷害到自己和身邊所有的人。
周六就讓我們一起來聊聊《認識六度》（上），探討如何不被慣性思考，影響自己正確的判斷能力，圓滿生活更智慧、更幸福、更得人緣。
最後，祝福朋友們吉祥、自在！
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【全球各地網路共修時間】
1. 臺北/北京/馬來西亞/新加坡 時間：２０１８年２月３日，上午９：００開始
２.韓國時間：２０１８年２月３日，上午１０：００開始
３.北美東部時間：２０１８年２月２日，晚上８：００開始
４.北美太平洋時間：２０１８年２月２日，晚上５：００開始
５.澳洲墨爾本時間：２０１８年２月３日，中午１１：００開始
６.印尼雅加達時間：２０１８年２月３日，上午８：００開始
７.羅馬尼亞時間：２０１８年２月３日，淩晨４：００開始
８.英國倫敦時間：２０１８年２月３日，淩晨２：００開始
９.澳洲(悉尼)時間：２０１８年２月３日，早上１１：００開始
１０.緬甸（仰光）時間：２０１８年２月３日，早上７：３０開始
備註：各地禪堂一般共修時間為星期六上午９：００開始，欲前往各地禪堂參與共修者，請事先諮詢各地禪堂，以當地時間為主。
#認識六度上、#謙虛、#客觀、#同理心、#週六共修預告、#金菩提宗師開示rnrnSmart people may be victims of their own cleverness
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People are always accustomed to understand others in their own way. This often causes misunderstandings and even hatred and dislike for one another. They can also get hurt in the process.
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Let me share a story that took place in Qinghai province, China:
Once, on my way to Qinghai, I saw a moving truck with one of its tires turning abnormally. From experience, I knew that the screws of the wheel had loosened and if it comes off, it could hurt someone else.
I waved to the driver, pointing to his rear tire and signaling him to look at it. The man gave me a stare and scolded me, “Why, you want a free ride?” Apparently, he thought I wanted to take advantage of him. I frowned and shouted, “It’s serious!” He ignored me and drove driving away.
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Shortly after, the wheel came off and flew towards the hillside. He had to run almost a kilometer to get the wheel from the hillside that was at least 50 meters in height. By the time he climbed down to pick up the heavy tire that weight almost 50 kg, he was too tired to get up. Eventually, I helped him to fit the tire. I said, “Friend, didn’t I try to remind you of your wheel?”
Some people always assume that they are always right when they make judgement or decision. They are not open to other’s opinion. Such mentality and attitude could cloud one’s objectivity and ultimately lead to a bias decision. In more serious case, such wrong decision might even cause harm to them or others.
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Today, let’s talk about “The Six Perfections – Part 1” and explore how we can break away from accustomed thinking so that it does not affect our objective judgement, thus allowing us to lead a wiser, happier and more harmonious life.
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Finally, bless all with auspiciousness and peace!
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Welcome all to share!
?More sharing, more blessings!?
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Online Global Group Practice Schedules:
1. Taipei/ Beijing/ Malaysia/ Singapore: Feb 3, 2017, at 9:00hrs
2. Korea: Feb 3, 2017, at 10:00hrs
3. North America (Eastern Zone): Feb 2, 2017 at 20:00hrs
4. North America (Pacific Zone): Feb 2, 2017 at 17:00hrs
5. Melbourne (Australia): Feb 3, 2017, at 11:00hrs
6. Jakarta (Indonesia): Feb 3, 2017, at 8:00hrs
7. Romania: Feb 3, 2017, at 4:00hrs
8. London (United Kingdom): Feb 3, 2017, at 2:00hrs
9. Sydney (Australia): Feb 3, 2017, at 11:00hrs
10. Yangon (Myanmar): Feb 3, 2017, at 07:30hrs
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(Group practice generally starts at 9.00 a.m. in all Bodhi Meditation Centers. It is advisable to call your local center for confirmation.)
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