不讓情緒作主人 . . 一位賣菜的老奶奶…

不讓情緒作主人
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一位賣菜的老奶奶在市場裡,看到一個小男孩獨自在市場上徘徊,看起來有些慌張,於是,老奶奶就上前問他:「孩子,怎麼一個人呢?你的媽媽在哪裡?」
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男孩說:「我不知道,我跟著母親出來買東西。突然,我看到一隻貓好可愛,我追過去想要跟牠玩,沒想到再回頭就找不到媽媽了。」
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老奶奶心疼地拉著孩子的手安撫。突然,男孩的母親出現了,她一看到老奶奶拉著兒子的手,不分青紅皂白便兇狠地吼:「妳想幹嘛?!妳是不是想拐走我的小孩?!」男孩的母親聲音很大,市場上每個人都轉過頭驚訝地看著這場騷動。
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老奶奶說:「我沒有把他拐走,我只是看到他迷路了,所以想要幫幫他。」
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生氣的母親根本不理會老奶奶,教訓著小男孩說:「以後,你不准再和陌生人說話了,不然媽媽真的不要你了。」說完,拽著小男孩的手走了。
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老奶奶雖然覺得有些委屈,但還是摸摸鼻子繼續賣菜。
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沒想到幾天後,這個孩子的媽媽,臉色發白的來找老奶奶,擔心地問:「好心的老奶奶呀,妳有沒有看見我的孩子呀?他不見了,你能幫幫我嗎!」
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老奶奶雖然不高興見到她,但是,她能夠理解這位母親焦急的心情,所以仍然幫忙找小孩。不久之後,她發現男孩躲在一個空的攤子後面發抖,她問男孩為什麼會躲在那裡。
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男孩說:「我看到一隻貓寶寶,想要跟牠玩,但是牠的媽媽出現了,還非常兇狠的要攻擊我,我好害怕!!所以,就躲在這裡了。」
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老奶奶把小男孩帶回他的母親身邊,他的母親非常感謝她的幫助,同時也為上次的行為道歉。
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老奶奶說:「我沒有把妳上次在市場對我的侮辱放在心上。但是,我希望妳能改掉妳的壞脾氣,學會更溫柔、更理性、更有禮貌的去處理事情。」
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一個人能力不好,不一定會成功,但是當情緒管理不好,則一定不會成功。
所以,我們要學習控制情緒作自己的主人。
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#忍辱的智慧、#情緒管理、#不讓情緒作主人、#作自己的主人
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Do not let your emotions get the better of you

An old lady who is a vegetable seller in the market saw a young boy wandering alone in the market. He looked a bit panicky. Hence, the old lady approached him and asked, “Dear child, why are you alone? Where is your mother?”

The boy said, “I don’t know. I was following my mother out shopping and saw a really cute cat and tried to chase after it. By the time I turn around, I lost sight of my mother.”

The old lady held the child’s hand wanting to console him. All of a sudden, the boy’s mother appeared. When she saw a stranger holding her son’s hand, she yelled indiscriminately and furiously: “What are you doing?! Are you trying to kidnap my child?!”
The mother’s voice was so loud that everyone in the market turned their heads and looked at the turmoil in surprise.

The old lady said: “I didn’t abduct him. I just saw that he was lost and just wanted to help.” The angry mother simply ignored the old lady and told the little boy, “In future, you mustn’t talk to strangers anymore. Otherwise, I would really disown you.” Then she took the boy’s hand and left.

Although the old lady felt indignant, she continued with selling vegetables. A few days later, the boy’s mother came unexpectedly to look for the old lady. She asked worriedly: “Kind granny, did you happen to see my child? He was gone. Can you help me?”

Although the old lady was unhappy to see her, she could understand the mother’s anxious mood, so she still helped find the boy. Soon after, she found the boy shivering behind an empty stall. She asked the boy why he was hiding there.

The boy said: “I saw a kitten and wanted to play with it, but its mother appeared and was very aggressive to me. I was so scared!! So, I hid here.”

The old lady brought the little boy back to his mother. His mother was very grateful for her help and also apologized for her previous rash behavior.

The old lady said: “I don’t mind the insults that I had in the market previously. However, I hope that you could get rid of your bad temper and learn to be more gentle, rational and polite.”

One may not enjoy success without some capabilities. However, if one cannot manage his emotions well, he will definitely not enjoy success in life.
Therefore, we must learn to control our emotions and not let it get the better of us.

#EmotionalManagement, #BadTemper, #ControlYourEmotions


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在〈不讓情緒作主人 . . 一位賣菜的老奶奶…〉中有 32 則留言

  1. 感恩师父开示教诲!能时时注意把控好自己的情绪真不是一件容易的事!着急赶路遇上红灯啦,外出办事不顺利啊等等时候,即使不是谁的错,也会升起烦恼…尤其是面对最亲近的家人,情绪就更容易失控!所以,我们真的需要不断学习,意识到问题,再有意识的提醒自己要随缘,要宽容,要常怀感恩,让心慈悲和柔软…!尽管学习的路还很漫长,但让自己保持在进步的路上很重要!感恩师父慈悲不倦的教诲???!

  2. 感恩师父分亨,看了这段故事,深深的帮助了我,我本人急燥,时常控制不住自己情绪,就谈不上柔软,慈悲了。不改变自己的习气,就很难把事情做的好或圆满的。

  3. 昨天,我们职工体检,一位接待人员的微笑令我印像深刻,她负责收回体检表,体检表上职工自愿放弃不查的项目,要有职工本人签字,这位接待人员负责核实。“您不查这些项啊?”当她询问那位递表给她的女士时,她轻柔的语气和迷人的笑容一下吸引了我,因为她笑得那么美,温暖又有礼貌,当时我觉得她好有修养啊!今天看到不让情绪做主这个话题,就想起这位接待人员,分享给大家,至少我应该好好向她学习。

  4. 感恩师父慈悲开示和教化!弟子收到“不要让情绪作主人”要学会忍辱,管理好自己的情绪。感恩师父慈悲给我们加持,我们逐渐就管理好自己的情绪了。???????❤???

  5. 感恩师父的慈悲开示!不再让情绪作主人!一个人能力差,不一定会成功,但是当情绪管理不好,则一定不会成功。所以,我们要学会控制情绪做自己的主人。顶礼金菩提上师!

  6. 感恩师父慈悲开示,感恩师父慈悲的教悔和每时每刻慈悲加持和护佑我们健康成长,把握情绪,慈悲包容一切众生,弟子感恩顶礼叩拜恩师!

  7. 感恩师父慈悲开示和教化!不讓情緒作主人!去掉壞脾氣,學會更溫柔、更理性、更有禮貌的去處理事情!一個人能力不好,不一定會成功,但是當情緒管理不好,則一定不會成功!努力改变自己分享给下一代!感恩师父慈悲教诲!顶礼叩拜师父!!!

  8. 感恩师父慈悲教诲!不要让情绪作主人,时刻注意自己的情绪。不起烦恼心,人一烦恼就容易发火。我就是看我儿子学习时候经常发火,到现在因为发火嗓子都吼哑了。向师父忏悔!不该发火,没控制好自己的情绪,情绪作了我的主人。

  9. 感恩师父慈悲开示!最近会时时感觉到自己的情绪,发现当遇情景时它是自动产生的,只是不像过去那样在那种情绪中停留许久!而是脑海中会浮现师父开示中的相关话语,转换角度考虑问题,从情绪中走出来!感恩叩拜恩师!

  10. 控制情绪做自己的主人,但有时候明白知道是错的, 可就是难以把控当时的情绪,导致错误发生,多听师父开示,我们的心就会平静,不再让情绪做主人!感恩师父引领与教化!!!?????????

  11. 感恩师父开示和教导!"不再让情绪作主人"。我是一个急性子,好多事情还没有了解清楚,就做,都是错误的决定,要吸取经验教训!多谢师父提醒!改过自新,慢慢想好才做或讲话。

  12. 感恩师父慈悲开示和教化!不讓情緒作主人!去掉壞脾氣,學會更溫柔、更理性、更有禮貌的去處理事情!一個人能力不好,不一定會成功,但是當情緒管理不好,則一定不會成功!努力改变自己分享给下一代!感恩师父慈悲教诲!顶礼叩拜师父!!!

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