孩子叛逆期，怎麼辦？（２０１７年8月5日…

孩子叛逆期，怎麼辦？（２０１７年8月5日）
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青春期的孩子，讓很多家長困惑又頭疼：孩子不聽話、脾氣大、叛逆。孩子認為他知道怎麼做，家長看著卻明顯不對，但又不能強制他，真不知該如何是好。
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對待叛逆期的孩子，我們身為家長該如何去引導呢？以我的經驗以及調查，孩子綜合表現比較好的家長，通常是順著孩子來，有機會就讓孩子嘗試。
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比如，當孩子一口把檸檬塞到嘴裡頭時，有一種家長會說：「別吃！」直接制止孩子吃檸檬；另一種家長則會說：「你嚐一嚐吧？」只要沒危險，都讓孩子試一試，讓孩子從學習裡得到經驗。
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教育孩子也猶如烹飪，該管就得管，但怎麼管教才能恰到好處呢？讓我們在這週六的【發現孩子】共修中一起來探討吧。歡迎大家在這留言暢談。
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祝福天下的孩子們都能健康快樂地成長！
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【全球各地網路共修時間】

1. 臺北/北京/馬來西亞/新加坡 時間：２０１７年8月5日，上午９：００開始
２.韓國時間：２０１７年8月4日，上午１０：００開始
３.北美東部時間：２０１７年8月4日，晚上９：００開始
４.北美太平洋時間：２０１７年8月5日，晚上６：００開始
５.澳洲墨爾本時間：２０１７年8月5日，中午１１：００開始
６.印尼雅加達時間：２０１７年8月5日，上午８：００開始
７.羅馬尼亞時間：２０１７年8月5日，淩晨４：００開始
８.英國倫敦時間：２０１７年8月5日，淩晨２：００開始
９.澳洲(悉尼)時間：２０１７年8月5日，早上１１：００開始
１０.緬甸（仰光）時間：２０１７年8月5日，早上７：３０開始
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備註：各地禪堂一般共修時間為星期六上午９：００開始，欲前往各地禪堂參與共修者，請事先諮詢各地禪堂，以當地時間為主。
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#週六共修預告、#發現孩子、#金菩提宗師開示、#叛逆期
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How do you handle your rebellious teenage children? (5 Aug, 2017)

Parents with teenage children worry and suffer from headaches. They feel that their children undergo a dramatic transformation, no longer obey their parents and become more temperamental as they enter a rebellious stage. Many teenagers think they know best and do things their way. However, a lot of times what they do are inappropriate and parents find it hard to control them and this becomes a delicate problem for parents to handle.

How do parents handle and guide rebellious teenagers?
From my experience and finding, children with better behavior tend to have more accommodating parents who let them try new things when opportunity arises.

Say a child places a piece of lemon in his mouth. Some parents will immediately say, “Don’t eat it!” and immediately prevent the child for doing that. Another group of parents will instead say, “You can chew and try the taste!”. As long as there is no danger, let your child try so that he can learn for his own experiences.

Educating a child is like cooking. When there is a need to exert control, parents have to intervene. However, to what degree should parents intervene so that there is a balance? Let us discuss during this Saturday’s group practice session on “Discover children”. We welcome everyone to leave your questions and comments here.

May all children grow up healthy and happy!

Online Global Group Practice Schedules:
1. Taipei/ Beijing/ Malaysia/ Singapore: Aug 5, 2017, at 9:00hrs
2. Korea: Aug 5, 2017, at 10:00hrs
3. North America (Eastern Zone): Aug 4, 2017 at 21:00hrs　
4. North America (Pacific Zone): Aug 4, 2017 at 18:00hrs　
5. Melbourne (Australia): Aug 5, 2017, at 11:00hrs
6. Jakarta (Indonesia): Aug 5, 2017, at 8:00hrs
7. Romania: Aug 5, 2017, at 4:00hrs
8. London (United Kingdom): Aug 5, 2017, at 2:00hrs
9. Sydney (Australia): Aug 5, 2017, at 11:00hrs
10. Yangon (Myanmar): Aug 5, 2017, at 07:30hrs

(Group practice generally starts at 9.00 a.m. in all Bodhi Meditation Centers. It is advisable to call your local center for confirmation.)

#OnlineGroupGlobalPracticeNotice, #DiscoverChildren, #MasterJinBodhiTeachings, #RebelliousStagernrn孩子叛逆期，怎麼辦？（２０１７年8月5日）
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青春期的孩子，讓很多家長困惑又頭疼。覺得孩子變化得很大，不聽話、脾氣大，進入了叛逆期。孩子認為他知道怎麼做，但家長看著明顯不對，但又不能強制他，真不知該如何是好。
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對待叛逆期的孩子，我們身為家長該如何去引導呢？以我的經驗以及調查，孩子綜合表現比較好的家長，通常是順著孩子來，有機會就讓孩子嘗試。
.
比如，當孩子一口把檸檬塞到嘴裡頭時，有一種家長會說：「別吃！」直接制止孩子吃檸檬；另一種家長則會說：「你嚐一嚐吧？」只要沒危險，都讓孩子試一試，讓孩子從學習裡得到經驗。
.
教育孩子也猶如烹飪，該管就得管，但怎麼管教才能恰到好處呢？讓我們在這週六的【發現孩子】共修中一起來探討吧。歡迎大家在這留言暢談。

.
祝福天下的孩子們都能健康快樂地成長！
.
.
【全球各地網路共修時間】

1. 臺北/北京/馬來西亞/新加坡 時間：２０１７年8月5日，上午９：００開始
２.韓國時間：２０１７年8月4日，上午１０：００開始
３.北美東部時間：２０１７年8月4日，晚上９：００開始
４.北美太平洋時間：２０１７年8月5日，晚上６：００開始
５.澳洲墨爾本時間：２０１７年8月5日，中午１１：００開始
６.印尼雅加達時間：２０１７年8月5日，上午８：００開始
７.羅馬尼亞時間：２０１７年8月5日，淩晨４：００開始
８.英國倫敦時間：２０１７年8月5日，淩晨２：００開始
９.澳洲(悉尼)時間：２０１７年8月5日，早上１１：００開始
１０.緬甸（仰光）時間：２０１７年8月5日，早上７：３０開始
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備註：各地禪堂一般共修時間為星期六上午９：００開始，欲前往各地禪堂參與共修者，請事先諮詢各地禪堂，以當地時間為主。
.
#週六共修預告、#發現孩子、#金菩提宗師開示、#叛逆期
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How do you handle your rebellious teenage children? (5 Aug, 2017)

Parents with teenage children worry and suffer from headaches. They feel that their children undergo a dramatic transformation, no longer obey their parents and become more temperamental as they enter a rebellious stage. Many teenagers think they know best and do things their way. However, a lot of times what they do are inappropriate and parents find it hard to control them and this becomes a delicate problem for parents to handle.

How do parents handle and guide rebellious teenagers?
From my experience and finding, children with better behavior tend to have more accommodating parents who let them try new things when opportunity arises.

Say a child places a piece of lemon in his mouth. Some parents will immediately say, “Don’t eat it!” and immediately prevent the child for doing that. Another group of parents will instead say, “You can chew and try the taste!”. As long as there is no danger, let your child try so that he can learn for his own experiences.

Educating a child is like cooking. When there is a need to exert control, parents have to intervene. However, to what degree should parents intervene so that there is a balance? Let us discuss during this Saturday’s group practice session on “Discover children”. We welcome everyone to leave your questions and comments here.

May all children grow up healthy and happy!

Online Global Group Practice Schedules:
1. Taipei/ Beijing/ Malaysia/ Singapore: Aug 5, 2017, at 9:00hrs
2. Korea: Aug 5, 2017, at 10:00hrs
3. North America (Eastern Zone): Aug 4, 2017 at 21:00hrs　
4. North America (Pacific Zone): Aug 4, 2017 at 18:00hrs　
5. Melbourne (Australia): Aug 5, 2017, at 11:00hrs
6. Jakarta (Indonesia): Aug 5, 2017, at 8:00hrs
7. Romania: Aug 5, 2017, at 4:00hrs
8. London (United Kingdom): Aug 5, 2017, at 2:00hrs
9. Sydney (Australia): Aug 5, 2017, at 11:00hrs
10. Yangon (Myanmar): Aug 5, 2017, at 07:30hrs

(Group practice generally starts at 9.00 a.m. in all Bodhi Meditation Centers. It is advisable to call your local center for confirmation.)

#OnlineGroupGlobalPracticeNotice, #DiscoverChildren, #MasterJinBodhiTeachings, #RebelliousStage

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